A man is seeking advice on whether he was in the wrong for gifting his brother-in-law a book on parenting for his birthday. The man’s brother-in-law has a history of neglecting his parental duties and insulted the man’s fathering skills, prompting him to take action. The incident caused tension at the family gathering and the man received criticism from his father. Was he justified in his actions, or did he take it too far? Read on to find out.
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Neglectful BIL receives a birthday surprise that shocks him
Lazy BIL leaves family to do all the work
Lazy brother-in-law leaves pregnant sister to do all work
Man gifts BIL after insensitive remark about fatherhood
Unique birthday gift leaves brother-in-law speechless
Man shuts down BIL’s rude comments about his future fatherhood
A unique birthday gift idea that sparked controversy among commenters.
Birthday gift leaves BIL speechless, storms off in anger
Man faces backlash for birthday gift- AITA?
Man gifts BIL a book on parenting after he insults him
A man notices his BIL is lazy and neglectful towards his family, and after a particularly insensitive comment about his own ability to parent, decides to gift him a book on parenting as a birthday present. The BIL is left speechless and storms off, later demanding a public apology. Was the man in the wrong, or was his gift warranted? Read on for the comments and reactions to this controversial situation.
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Commenter calls out OP’s lack of consideration and empathy
Genius revenge gift leaves BIL speechless, NTA wins!
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Commenter calls out bad parenting and a passive-aggressive gift
Visiting for revenge? ESH, sister’s in trouble now
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Encouraging NTA comment promotes self-improvement
Apologize for exposing their terrible behavior
Doubting the validity of the story
Gift of Failure book may not have been the best choice…
Mom’s got good judgment
Commenter playfully calls OP an AH but supports their actions
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Insulting BIL in front of everyone led to drama. ESH
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