Moving in together can be a major test for any relationship, and this couple is no exception. Our 27-year-old storyteller and his 26-year-old girlfriend have been living together for a few months, and the chore wars have begun. After numerous fights over household tasks, the girlfriend created a ‘task book’ with detailed instructions for her boyfriend. Feeling insulted and micromanaged, he cut up the book and threw it away. Was he justified in his actions, or was he just being an a**hole? Let’s dive into the story and find out.
The Chore Wars Begin
Interruptions and Requests ️
The First Fight
A ‘Solution’ Emerges
The Tension Builds ⚡
More Fights and Criticisms
Mental Health Matters
“Dirty” Apartment
Enter the Task Book
Feeling Insulted
The Task Book’s Demise ✂️
Unreasonable or Micromanager?
The Big Question ❓
Edit: Reflecting on Responses
Edit 2: Realizing His Mistake
Chore Wars: A Battle of Control and Insults
After countless fights over chores and feeling micromanaged, our storyteller decided to take matters into his own hands by cutting up his girlfriend’s ‘task book.’ While some might see his actions as justified, others might argue that he’s being an a**hole. As the internet weighs in, it’s clear that there’s more to this story than just chores. It’s a battle of control, mental health, and understanding each other’s needs. Let’s see what the internet thinks about this explosive situation…
OP destroys girlfriend’s task book and refuses to do equal chores. YTA.
OP is YTA for not doing basic chores and acting like it’s a favor
Man refuses to do his fair share of housework, YTA.
YTA destroyed girlfriend’s task book. Start pulling your weight.
OP is TA for not contributing equally to household chores.
Partner’s ‘Task Book’ likely a last resort for communication. YTA.
Commenter calls out OP for sexist behavior and attitude.
Commenter calls out OP for being the a****e in relationship
YTA destroys girlfriend’s task book, gets called out.
Lazy boyfriend destroys girlfriend’s chore book, gets called out YTA
Girl asks for chore division, receives unhelpful response
Commenter calls out OP’s lack of cleaning skills, YTA confirmed.
Commenters speculate gaming as cause for interruption
Commenter calls out OP for not cleaning up after himself. YTA.
Scissors vs. Trash: A debate on petty revenge. ️✂️
Petty behavior leads to justified YTA judgement and breakup.
Commenter calls out manipulative post, no sympathy for OP ♂️
OP is the a****e for destroying girlfriend’s task book
OP gets called out for s******g up the bare minimum. YTA
User calls out OP for childish behavior and bad attitude
Commenter questions why video games are more important than chores
User voted NTA until reading instructions. Accused of slacking off. YTA.
Commenter calls out lazy behavior with a fiery YTA
YTA Alert: Destroying property is never justified in a relationship.
User calls out OP for childish behavior and entitlement
Man called YTA for destroying girlfriend’s ‘task book’ ✂️. Replies suggest he needs to do his share of housework f
Commenter calls out OP for not doing his share of housework
Commenter calls out OP as the a**hole with article reference
Fair question: Does the OP contribute to household chores?
Commenter calls out lazy partner, suggests communication over destruction
User calls out lazy boyfriend for not doing chores properly.
A detailed breakdown of why OP is TA
Commenter calls out YTA for destroying girlfriend’s task book
OP destroyed girlfriend’s hard work, admits fault, and is TA
YTA thinks helping is living there
Commenter calls out OP for not doing equal share of chores. YTA.
OP gets called out for not communicating and is YTA
Commenter calls out OP for being TA in cleaning dispute
Curious about living situation before cohabitation
Commenter calls out OP for being childish about chores
Is he justified or just a lazy a**hole?
User called out for childish behavior in cleaning dispute
Commenter calls out OP for destroying girlfriend’s task book.
Commenter calls out OP for not doing basic chores. YTA
Don’t want to be treated like an employee? Do chores
Commenter calls out OP as immature and TA
Commenter shares experience and wishes happiness for girlfriend.
Commenter calls out OP for being lazy and selfish
Man destroys girlfriend’s ‘Task Book’ and is called out for being lazy. YTA
User calls out OP for being a slacker in chores
YTA for destroying book. Have adult conversation and compromise.
Commenter calls out OP for being immature.
Commenter calls out OP for being a bad roommate
Commenter called out for not helping girlfriend with tasks.
Commenter calls out OP for being immature and lazy.
Commenter calls out lazy boyfriend, warns girlfriend of future.
Commenter calls out bad behavior and laments dating world.
Lazy boyfriend destroys girlfriend’s task book, gets called out. YTA
Destroying the task book was childish. YTA. ♂️
Last Updated on June 9, 2023 by Diply Social Team