Man Cuts Wife Off From Assets, But Is He the Bad Guy?

Imagine being torn between your spouse and your adult children during a pandemic. That’s the situation this man found himself in when his wife demanded he kick out their struggling kids or face the consequences. With his wife gone and communication at an all-time low, he finally decides to file for divorce. But when she discovers she’s been cut off from their shared assets, all hell breaks loose! Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story…

Marriage on the Rocks

Pandemic Problems

The Wife’s Side Hustle

Invasion of Personal Space

Sink or Swim?

Chore Wars

The Banshee’s Ultimatum

The Wife’s Departure

Radio Silence

Kids’ Progress

Heartbreaking News

Divorce Papers Served

Wife’s Fury Unleashed

Name-Calling Ensues ️

Feeling Guilty?

Divorce Drama: Who’s the Real A**hole?

In this heart-wrenching tale, a man is caught between his wife and his adult children during the pandemic. Despite his wife’s ultimatum, he chooses to help his kids, leading to their separation and eventual divorce. But when he cuts her off from their shared assets, she and her family go ballistic! Is he really the bad guy for wanting to help his children, or is his wife being unreasonable? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA defends his decision to cut off wife’s access to assets.

Legal implications of cutting off access to joint accounts during divorce. ‍

Commenter defends man’s actions, sparks debate on marriage system.

Divorcees argue over shared assets and adult children’s responsibilities. ESH.

Commenter expresses concern for wife’s perspective, deems OP a light TA.

Unfair distribution of chores causing marital asset dispute

Man unilaterally removes wife’s crafting room, cuts off health insurance

Man expects kids to focus on job search, wife wants more. YTA.

Reader calls out husband for cutting off shared funds

ESH, but OP is presenting his own POV and still looks like an a**hole. Commenters calling wife a gold digger are wrong.

Man’s decision to cut off wife from assets deemed selfish

Man prioritizes lazy kids over wife. YTA

Man’s selfishness towards wife and kids earns him YTA judgement

Commenter calls out OP for neglecting important context. YTA confirmed

Spouse doesn’t respect wife’s craft, both are at fault. ‍♂️

Commenter calls out poster for being TA and misleading

OP is called out for being a ‘gigantic d**k’ for cutting off his spouse’s access to joint assets.

Defensive OP gets called out for being YTA

Moving two adults into a trailer without consulting wife? YTA.

OP’s wife had no say in stepchildren moving in

Commenter calls out OP for being the bad guy.

Curious about the backstory and legal implications of this situation?

Commenter suggests OP’s kids were not pulling their weight.

User calls out husband for unilateral decisions and financial abuse

Commenter calls out OP for being selfish and shortsighted.

Keeping health insurance from wife makes ESH situation worse.

Cutting off health insurance during pandemic? YTA, no doubt

Redditors agree: OP is the a**hole

YTA for unilaterally letting your kids move in without consulting wife

Standing up for kids and cutting off freeloader. NTA

Redditor calls out husband for cutting off wife from assets

Commenter calls out controlling behavior, hopes for justice

Commenter predicts financial consequences for husband, calls him YTA.

Commenter calls out both parties for lack of communication

Commenter calls out OP for unfairness and lack of transparency

Joint account = joint decision. YTA for cutting her off.

Commenter questions OP’s actions, seeks more information

Is the husband TA for cutting off his wife’s assets?

Spouse devalues wife’s work, cuts off income, and invades privacy

Commenter calls out OP for being dismissive and a defender of a murderer. YTA

Wife deserves better Man’s controlling behavior is unacceptable

Man dismisses wife’s health problems and cuts her off from assets. YTA

Commenter thinks OP is the a**hole. Uh oh.

Man belittles wife, expects her to do everything. YTA

Commenter questions OP’s decision to invite children without wife’s consent

Redditor calls out OP for being a bad husband

Commenter calls out OP as the a**hole, no debate here.

Commenter warns YTA of illegal actions and consequences

Redditors agree: OP is the a**hole for dismissing wife’s efforts

Commenter reflects on a dead marriage, deems everyone sucks here.

Commenter explains why OP is the a-hole, with legal consequences.

YTA for cutting off access to healthcare and shared account.

Man cuts wife off after ultimatum, NTA or ESH?

Commenter calls out OP as YTA with shock emoji.

Redditors agree: OP is the a**hole

Red flags: cutting off shared assets, YTA, illegal actions

Commenter thinks the husband is the a**hole.

Commenter deems someone the a**hole

Man prioritizes adult kids over wife, internet calls him a**hole

ESH. Lack of communication and unrealistic expectations caused the conflict.

Communication is key! Both parties could have handled better

Who’s responsible for kids’ chores? Let’s discuss

Cutting off shared account not right, could lead to alimony.

Commenter changes judgement from NTA to YTA with explanation.

Commenter changes judgement to YTA after reading other comments

Commenter calls out husband for being controlling and sexist.

Adult kids should help with chores and tensions need easing. ESH

Moving in adult children against her wishes makes YTA

Commenter calls out husband for being the a**hole and predicts legal consequences.

YTA husband faces alimony after cutting off wife’s support