Man Bans Girlfriend from Bringing Friend’s Ex to HIS House Is He in the Wrong?

We’ve all heard of messy divorces, but what happens when the drama starts to affect your own life? One man found himself in the middle of his friend’s nasty divorce when his girlfriend started bringing the friend’s ex-wife to their home. Now, he’s had enough and has banned his girlfriend from inviting her over. But is he in the wrong for doing so?

The Nasty Divorce

The Reasons Behind the Split

The Messy Aftermath ️

Carly’s Financial Situation

The Girlfriend’s Unexpected Friendship

The Girlfriend’s Opinion ️

Passive-Aggressive Behavior

Carly Comes Over

Heated Arguments Ensue

A Snarky Comment

The House Situation

Girlfriend’s Living Arrangement ️

The Accusation

The Final Question ❓

Caught in the Crossfire of a Nasty Divorce

So, our protagonist finds himself stuck between a rock and a hard place. His girlfriend has formed an unexpected friendship with his friend’s ex-wife, Carly, and has been bringing her over to their home, causing tension and heated arguments. He’s had enough and has decided to ban his girlfriend from inviting Carly over. But is he in the wrong for doing so? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Girlfriend calls out boyfriend’s friend for mistreating ex-wife. YTA.

Girlfriend’s friend’s ex is a cheater, man is controlling. YTA.

User calls out OP for being controlling and hypocritical.

User calls out friend for excusing cheating, defends girlfriend’s friend.

Relationship doomed after choosing sides in friend’s breakup

Redditor calls out OP for being entitled and judgmental.

YTA for defending a deadbeat dad and not understanding your girlfriend’s empathy

Friend’s ex is a red flag, but abandoning family is worse

Confusion over friend’s divorce sparks discussion in comment section

User calls out OP for being unsympathetic towards friend’s ex and child

Enabling a bad father? YTA, says commenter.

Girlfriend’s friend’s ex is a jerk, YTA for banning her.

Dumping someone for condoning vile behavior? YTA strikes again

YTA and your excuses are nearly as horrid as friend’s behavior

OP is called out for being a bad friend and partner

Capitalization of MY in MY house? YTA according to commenter.

User calls out OP for being the a**hole, drama ensues. Yikes.

Controlling behavior? Commenter thinks OP is the a**hole

Man wants to ban girlfriend from bringing friend’s ex to their house, but is it his right? Commenter thinks he’s in the wrong (ESH) and should work on communication instead.

Questioning Anthony’s parenting skills in the comment section

Relationship doomed due to bad friend and communication issues ‍♀️

Relationship drama: Commenter calls out both parties for bad behavior

OP is the a**hole for banning girlfriend’s friend’s ex.

Tenant-landlord analogy shuts down man’s controlling behavior. YTA

GF and BF’s friend’s ex-wife drama leads to messy boundaries. ESH.

Man bans girlfriend’s friend’s ex from house, all suck here.

User calls out poor character of cheating boyfriend.

Entitled person gets called out, but everyone sucks here. ‍♂️

User calls out OP for supporting a friend’s bad behavior. YTA.

Respect OP’s wishes for his home. NTA, it’s his house

Man defends cheating friend and bans girlfriend’s friend from his house

Warning to girlfriend about boyfriend’s behavior in sensitive situation

Relationship advice: Listen to your girlfriend, even if everyone sucks

User calls out OP for lack of empathy and questionable morals

Friend’s emotional unfaithfulness is forgivable, but not ex? YTA.

Man bans girlfriend’s friend’s ex from HIS house. ESH.

Temporary girlfriend’s friend’s ex causes breakup. NTA.

GF’s home, YTA for banning her friend’s ex. Anthony not great.

YTA for prioritizing your friend over your girlfriend’s feelings

Navigating drama with exes and friends can be tough. ESH.

Friend’s ex at HIS house? YTA, don’t control partner’s friends

Interesting point, but off-topic for this section

Friend cheats, defends cheater, called out and deemed YTA

ESH for associating with a cheater and girlfriend for ignoring boundaries

Relationship advice: You’re in a tough spot, but communication is key

Respect boundaries. No discussion needed.

Partner, friend, and ex drama. ESH. ‍♂️

YTA for banning girlfriend’s friend’s ex. Reconsider your actions

A messy situation with multiple a**holes involved

Relationship drama unfolds as commenters debate who’s at fault

Friend’s ex is a bad person, OP and friend are immature.

User calls out OP’s friend for mistreating ex-wife and judges OP’s character for being friends with them. YTA.

ESH for jumping ship, drama, and possessiveness over ‘MY house’

User calls out Anthony for neglecting his child, labels him YTA

User calls out OP for entitlement, labels them YTA

Sassy comment predicts single future for obtuse YTA boyfriend

Compromise is key in a relationship ‍ ‍

User calls out man for supporting cheating friend, predicts breakup

User thinks OP is the a**hole for banning girlfriend’s friend’s ex from HIS house and calls out his broken moral compass.

Harsh criticism for OP’s behavior in relationship.

GF’s excessive involvement in friend’s drama jeopardizes relationship

Girlfriend’s drama causes conflict in HIS home. NTA wins.

User calls out man’s behavior, deems him YTA.

ESH. Ground rules needed to separate friend’s ex from relationship.

Fiery reply calls out OP’s lack of integrity and respect.

NTA for banning girlfriend’s drama. Haters gonna hate

Keeping company with a cheater? YTA according to comment.

A comment calling out the OP for supporting a friend’s bad behavior.

User calls out OP and girlfriend, advises to stay neutral.

Girlfriend’s home too. OP is ‘asshole adjacent’ for friend’s ban.

Guest or tenant? YTA for framing friend’s actions positively.

GF’s boyfriend gets called out for being controlling. YTA

User calls out OP’s double standards, deems him YTA.

Sassy commenter calls out spoiled boyfriend for being controlling

ESH, but OP not wrong for enforcing boundaries in his home

Both parties have faults, but OP’s attitude is problematic.