It’s the holiday season, and family gatherings are in full swing. But what happens when a harmless conversation turns into a heated argument? That’s what one Reddit user experienced when he asked his family members if they’ve made their first million yet. The post, which has gone viral, details the man’s experience at his family gathering, where he was subjected to ridicule and condescension from his relatives. In an act of retaliation, he asked if they had made their first million yet, causing the room to fall silent. But was he in the wrong? Was he being an a**hole for bringing up the topic of money? Let’s take a closer look at the post and the comments to see what the Reddit community thinks.
Time-traveler seeks attention in comment section ️

Counting down to 2021 with this optimistic commentator

Asking family about their wealth- innocent or a**hole move?

New year’s celebration brings family together amidst low Covid cases

Proud aunt flexes her daughter’s success

Feeling the pressure to succeed in 2020? You’re not alone

Getting roasted by relatives for being unsuccessful

Struggling architect faces pressure from successful family members.

Brags about making first million, puts cousins on the spot

Asking family about their net worth can be a mood-killer

Reflecting on past behavior and seeking self-improvement

Are you a millionaire yet? Let’s talk local currency

Man brags about making his first million, ruins family’s celebration
A man asks if he is an a**hole for ruining his family’s New Year celebration after bragging about making his first million. In a typical Asian family reunion, the old people in the family love to ‘check up’ on their nieces and nephews. When the man’s aunt began to list off all his lack of achievements, he couldn’t take it anymore and decided to brag about his wealth. His dad asked him to step outside to relax as he might have just ruined everyone’s New Year celebration. Was he wrong to brag in front of his family? Read on for some interesting comments and reactions.
Defending oneself against relatives’ dumping is NTA.

Don’t dish it if you can’t take it NTA

Don’t let them bring you down! Keep striving for success

NTA for standing up to family’s value-centered shaming, ESH for the overall situation.

Aunt mocks OP for being a ‘failure’, surprised when he’s successful. NTA

NTA comment receives witty agreement and relatable reply.
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Commenter questions the credibility of the million-dollar claim.

OP defends himself for asking about millions, gets support.

Speculation on whether Pat was involved in mocking OP.

Asian millennials struggle to balance cultural expectations and self-respect

Converting a million Asian currencies to USD, NTA.

Standing up to family bullies – good for you!

Doubts arise about authenticity of the story

Don’t let haters bring you down. NTA

Discussion on money and family dynamics – ESH.

Congrats on the first million! Shut down the superiority complex!

Living with parents and driving a shitty car? Personal finance’s dream
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Gender doesn’t matter, this comment shut down the assumption

Dad’s late reaction? Not cool. Commenter’s reaction? Justified

Don’t let them bring you down, keep making that money

Support for NTA with a hint of conflict

Is being a millionaire overrated? Discussion on wealth and happiness

Breaking the cycle of toxicity in Asian families.

Curiosity about the source of income sparks skepticism among commenters

Standing up for oneself in Asian families – NTA

Retaliation against toxic aunt and cousins makes ESH, but OP is NTA.

Winning a different kind of contest

Asian man discusses cultural nuances of success and family expectations

No a-hole here. Short and sweet.

Defending against judgmental relatives.

Commenter calls out risky behavior with ♂️ attitude.

Defending your success against family mockery. NTA wins!
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Freelance success questioned by family despite millionaire status
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Gender shouldn’t matter. Don’t berate someone for being unmarried.

Toxic family dynamic? NTA says it all

Curious commenter asks about million in different currency

When dad favors relatives over you…

Overcoming cultural pressure and finding success, congrats!

Keep on charging! Not the a**hole for sure.

NTA. Epic clapback to body-shaming aunt.

Unleash your inner petty and make them squirm inside

Standing up against insults like a boss!

Unmarried at 30? No problem! Marriage doesn’t define success

When you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes

Relatable response to toxic family gathering
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Defend yourself without being insulting, NTA.

Winning the Asian bragging game Keep biting back and earning respect!

Frustrations with hyper-competitive culture, but NTA for OP’s actions ♀️

Answering a question with no filter ♂️

Congratulations without context.
