Picture this: a family gathering where women are expected to be in the kitchen, and men are hanging out in the front room. Sounds like a scene from the 1950s, right? Well, not for one couple who recently attended such an event. The 30-year-old man asked his pregnant girlfriend, Laura, a senior doctor, to help out in the kitchen with the other ladies to appease his parents’ traditional views. What could possibly go wrong?
Meet Laura, the Modern Woman

Parents’ Disapproval

The Pregnancy Announcement

The Family Gathering Tradition ️

Laura’s Reluctant Agreement

A Scene Nobody Wants ♀️

Playing Along Through Gritted Teeth

The Aftermath: Enraged Girlfriend

His Intentions ️

Is He the Bad Guy Here?
So, our protagonist thought he was doing his pregnant girlfriend a favor by asking her to play along with his family’s outdated traditions. But instead of gratitude, he got an earful from an enraged Laura, who felt humiliated by the experience. Was he wrong for wanting to avoid conflict at the family gathering, or should he have stood up for his girlfriend’s modern values? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
OP is called out for being spineless and not standing up for his pregnant girlfriend. YTA.

OP is the a**hole for asking his pregnant doctor girlfriend to cook.

YTA for imposing outdated family traditions on pregnant girlfriend

Commenter calls out OP for prioritizing family ‘tradition’ over girlfriend’s discomfort. Replies suggest men should help in the kitchen too.

Commenter and replies criticize OP for not standing up for his girlfriend. YTA

Commenter calls out misogynistic behavior towards girlfriend.

OP’s request for pregnant girlfriend to help in kitchen is YTA

Expecting pregnant GF to do kitchen chores? YTA. Stand up!

Commenter calls out sexism in ‘tradition’ – Yikes

OP’s attempt to ‘protect’ his pregnant girlfriend backfired badly
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Protect your partner. Stand up against sexist traditions. #NTA

Man asked pregnant girlfriend to ‘help in the kitchen’ – YTA

OP prioritized his comfort over his pregnant girlfriend’s autonomy. YTA

Red flag: OP hiding relationship from family, YTA for sexist behavior

Commenter calls out OP for not standing up against sexism

Partner’s lack of support at family gathering sparks YTA debate

Commenter calls out sexism in family gathering request

Protecting pregnant partner: YTA gets called out

Commenter calls out OP for not standing up to his family

Pregnant girlfriend forced to do things she dislikes. YTA

Commenter predicts girlfriend leaving ‘cowardly’ OP due to family’s misogyny.

Commenter calls out OP for objectifying pregnant girlfriend.

Man fakes girlfriend as waitress, called out for not having her back

Man prioritizes family’s sexist views over defending his pregnant wife. YTA
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Commenter deems OP an a**hole without explanation. Ouch.

Pregnant girlfriend pressured to play traditional role at gathering. YTA

Commenter calls out OP for being an a**hole.

Man asks pregnant girlfriend to conform to outdated views. YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for being a gross partner
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Commenter calls out selfish partner in family gathering.

Stand up for your pregnant girlfriend and prioritize her. YTA

Commenter calls out man’s misogyny and lack of spine. Yikes.

Commenter calls out partner for not standing up to parents.

Commenter calls out OP for disrespecting pregnant girlfriend at family gathering.

Redditors call out disrespectful behavior towards pregnant girlfriend

Gender roles should not be enforced, YTA for suggesting it

Commenter calls out immature and sexist behavior, predicts breakup.

OP’s outdated family rules cause conflict. YTA.

Commenter calls out SO for not standing up against tradition

Man gets called out for leaving pregnant girlfriend to face criticism

Commenter thinks OP is the a**hole for sexist request

Commenter calls out OP and hopes for girlfriend’s departure

Commenter calls out OP for not setting boundaries, suggests breakup.

Commenter calls out OP for prioritizing misogynistic family over girlfriend

Challenging traditional family dynamics and supporting pregnant partner

Commenter calls out oblivious boyfriend for being a hypocrite. ♀️

Protecting your pregnant girlfriend means standing up to your family. YTA

Commenter calls out bad behavior in relationship, YTA verdict.

Commenter calls out selfish behavior in family gathering

Commenter calls out selfish behavior with a YTA verdict

Commenter calls out OP’s lie and gives verdict YTA

Commenter calls out OP’s selfish motives in family gathering situation.

User calls out OP’s cowardly behavior and sexism. YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for lack of support at family gathering

Commenter slams OP for lack of respect towards pregnant girlfriend

Commenter calls out disrespectful behavior towards pregnant girlfriend
