Wedding planning can be stressful, but is it worth losing a friendship? One woman shares her experience with her best friend, who is getting married next year. The maid of honor wore an old, white linen dress to a casual lunch with friends, only to receive angry texts from the bride later. The bride accused her friend of trying to take attention away from her and being unsupportive. While the Maid of Honor apologized, she stood her ground, asserting that her dress choice was not meant to be a slight on the bride. The situation has caused a rift in their friendship, leaving the Maid of Honor wondering if she was in the wrong. Read on to see Reddit users’ advice for her and how she plans to move forward.
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Bride-to-be gets furious when Maid of Honor wears white dress
Wedding planning can be stressful, but should it lead to a friend being called all sorts of names? That’s what happened when a Maid of Honor wore a white linen dress to a casual lunch with friends. The bride-to-be was furious and accused her friend of trying to dull her shine during this special time. While the Maid of Honor apologized, she also pointed out that her dress was not taking attention away from the bride-to-be. The incident has caused a rift in their friendship, leaving the Maid of Honor wondering if she was wrong to wear the white dress. Despite her guilt, she is standing her ground and not budging on the issue. Do you think she was in the wrong? Share your opinions in the comments below.
Bridezilla demands MOH not wear white to casual lunch. NTA.

Bride-to-be approves bridesmaid’s off-white dress, calls friend a bridezilla.

NTA. The bride-to-be is off her rocker thinking that everyone else in her friend group should not wear white. If you want to really set her off, you should play the song “To Defy the Laws of Tradition” by the band Primus.

Bridezilla gets mad at Maid of Honor for wearing white to a non-wedding related brunch, commenters call out ridiculousness.

Bridezilla demands monopoly on white dress even outside wedding events

NTA, wear what you want except at the wedding/reception ♀️

Support for not-the-a**hole in white dress debacle.

Bridezilla alert! MOH wears white to lunch and all hell breaks loose

Breaking the white dress rule: NTA or fashion faux pas?

Not the a**hole for wearing white to lunch with friends ♀️

Bridezilla alert! Maid of Honor wears white to lunch

Breaking the white dress code: NTA or not?

Boundaries matter! Maid of honor wears white to lunch ♀️

Wedding culture can bring out the worst in people ♀️

Commenter calls out irrational friend in dress drama

Defending against a weird reaction to a white dress ♀️

Wearing white at non-wedding event: NTA and bridezilla

Navigating wedding drama with grace and humor.

Bridezilla alert! Maid of Honor wears white dress to lunch

Bridezilla alert : Maid of Honor wears white dress

Wedding drama: Maid of Honor wears white to lunch

Bride-to-be gets furious over Maid of Honor wearing white dress at lunch, but did she even wear white to the brunch?

Bridezilla alert! Commenter stands up for Maid of Honor

Supportive MOH gets slammed by Bridezilla for wearing white

Commenter calls out clickbait title, gets agreement

Bridezilla alert! Maid of honor wears white dress to lunch

Commenter calls out clickbait and attention-seeking behavior

NTA suggests giving the bride-to-be time to cool off ♀️

Wedding dress code drama: NTA defends friend’s white dress choice ♀️

Wedding entitlement much? Maid of Honor wears white dress

Supportive comment encourages confrontation with bride, NTA

Defending the white dress: NTA and breathable linen wins

Calling out clickbait titles, ♀️

Wedding industry encourages bridezillas, but OP is NTA

Bridesmaid resigns with a polite yet sassy note

Bridezilla alert! Maid of honor wears white, NTA for calling out.

Casual lunch, not wedding. NTA for Maid of Honor.

White sundress at lunch: totally acceptable or a faux-pas?

Bridezilla alert! NTA commenter predicts stressful wedding planning ahead

Bridezilla alert! Maid of honor wears white and bride-to-be gets furious

Empathetic reply to bride’s insecurity about her wedding appearance

Comment section starts with a bang!

Agreeing with the commenter, no a-hole here
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Wearing white to a lunch isn’t a thing. NTA.

Understanding and empathy for a friend’s possible mental health crisis ❤️

Friend wears white dress to lunch, Bride-to-be overreacts

No dress code for lunacy: NTA for wearing white

Rock that white dress, girl! NTA and bridezilla alert!

Your friend is being a total a-hole.

Bride-to-be needs to chill, it’s just a brunch ♀️

Don’t let toxic friends ruin your special day

Bridezilla alert! Commenter defends Maid of Honor’s outfit choice ♀️

♀️ ♀️ Bridezilla alert! Maid of honor not at fault.
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Support for the commenter, with a touch of humor

Wearing white after Labor Day or to lunch? NTA.

Comment section full of sass and

Supportive comment advises downgrading role to avoid bridezilla drama.

Supportive comment advises bride-to-be to gracefully accept MOH’s dismissal

OP warned about reposting on social media, but too late
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Bride-to-be gets mad at friend for wearing white dress. NTA.
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Commenter supports Maid of Honor’s actions with humor
