Ever been in a relationship where you thought everything was going great, only to find out the truth was far from it? Well, buckle up, because this story is a rollercoaster of emotions! Our protagonist, a 30-year-old guy, falls for his beautiful coworker, and after a series of ups and downs, they finally become a couple. But when the truth about her past actions comes to light, he’s left questioning everything and wondering if he’s just her last resort. Let’s dive into this heart-wrenching tale and see how it all unfolds…
The Crush Begins
Asking for Permission
Green Light and First Date
Weekend Rituals
Friendzoned
Mixed Signals
Jealousy?
Second Attempt, Same Answer ♀️
Unexpected Encounter
Backing Off
The Reconnection
Hanging Out Again
Hints and Waiting ️
Finally Together
Weekend Getaway
The Shocking Truth
The Past Revealed
Her Reasoning ♀️
The Night Before
The Heartbreaking Truth
The Breakup (UPDATE!)
Her Side of the Story ️
The Ex-BF and More Truths ️♂️
Reaching Out and More Betrayal
The Final Straw
The End
Her Reason for Asking Him Out
Gratitude and Closure
The Shocking Truth Behind Their Relationship
Our 30-year-old guy falls for his coworker, and after several attempts to make it official, they finally become a couple. But when she reveals the truth about her past actions, he’s left questioning everything. Turns out, she was dating and sleeping with other guys the entire time they were hanging out before getting together. She even slept with someone the night before asking him to be her boyfriend! After learning that he was just her last resort, he’s left wondering if he should break up with her. In the end, he decides to end the relationship, unable to stay with someone who couldn’t respect him from the start. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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