Imagine living with your brother and sister-in-law, only to be accused of ‘turning’ her gay. This is the bizarre and dramatic situation one woman found herself in. After moving in with her brother and SIL to escape a dangerous living situation, she thought she was doing everything right. But when her SIL comes out as a lesbian, her brother blames her, and their once-happy family is thrown into chaos. ️
The Living Arrangement
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The Reason for Moving In
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Brother’s Job and SIL’s Loneliness
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The Agreement
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Quarantine Changes
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SIL’s Odd Behavior
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The Tension Between Brother and SIL
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The Big Blowup
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The Accusation
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The Shocking Revelation
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Brother’s Anger
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SIL’s Defense
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The Heartbreaking Ultimatum
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Seeking Advice
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The Update
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The Aftermath: Divorce and Healing
After moving out, the woman finds a new place to live, and her brother and SIL are getting a divorce. The brother eventually apologizes for his outburst, and they start to mend their relationship. Both brother and SIL are seeking support and understanding, as they navigate this unexpected turn of events. While the situation remains complicated, they’re all moving forward and learning from the experience. ️
Embracing oneself can inspire others to embrace their truth.

Supportive comment receives no replies. Family drama ensues.

Living your best life
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Supportive comment calls out SIL for playing with brother’s heart.

No blame game here! NTA supports SIL’s coming out

Stay strong, OP! NTA for standing your ground.

Brother can’t handle sister-in-law coming out as gay. NTA.

Supportive comment to SIL, advises patience with brother’s reaction.

Being gay isn’t contagious, NTA has it right

SIL is the a**hole for not being honest with her husband

Brother’s anger towards sister-in-law is misplaced, she was always gay

Commenter compares situation to blaming mistress for husband’s cheating.

NTA offers support to SIL, hopes bro will come around

Commenter calls out SIL for using closeted man, expresses disgust.
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NTA shuts down ‘turning someone gay’ myth with sass

Brother clueless about sexuality. NTA for SIL’s sexual orientation.

Supportive comment defends homosexuality against ‘virus’ myth.

Supportive comment section with a hopeful resolution

Supportive comment shows NTA despite brother’s hurt and anger.

Supportive comment acknowledges brother’s pain and SIL’s insensitivity.

SIL may be TA if she knew she was gay before marriage

Confused commenter needs help with acronyms.

Passionate response, but not relevant to the discussion.

No one’s at fault. Brother upset, SIL came out.

NTA stands up to brother’s unfair treatment with fiery comment

Existing is not a crime! NTA comment wins hearts.
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NTA OP. Your SIL is gay, not your fault.

NTA, a series of bad coincidences, leave a message for brother

Supportive comment defends against brother’s unfair blame.

NTA sister-in-law comes out, brother’s reaction understandable but not an a**hole

SIL comes out after marriage, but who’s really the a**hole?

NTA. SIL’s orientation is not your fault. Brother needs counseling

Lesbian sister-in-law gets NTA verdict. No drama here.

Sexuality is personal. You can’t ‘turn’ someone. NTA.

NTA defends SIL’s sexuality while acknowledging brother’s hurt feelings.

NTA calls out absurdity of ‘turning someone gay’ claim
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You can’t ‘turn’ people gay. NTA for being blamed.

Brother blames lesbian SIL for his own hurt. NTA wins!

SIL can’t be ‘turned gay’, but she’s a huge a**hole

Off-topic comment receives no validation from comment section
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Being out and proud is never wrong.

Brother’s relationship with SIL broken. NTA suggests letter to reconcile.

Pray for your brother? NTA comment gets religious.

SIL accused of duping brother into turning gay. NTA.

Supportive comment shuts down baseless accusations of ‘turning’ someone gay.

Supportive comment defends SIL’s coming out, advises against hooking up.

Supportive comment suggests talking to brother after cooling off.

Compassionate response to a difficult situation.

A witty NTA comment with a surprising plot twist

Brother’s homophobia leads to sister-in-law’s sexuality, NTA calls out.

Humorous comment with no replies

Sister-in-law accidentally ‘turns’ SIL gay without even touching her.

Skepticism abounds in this comment section

Can you really ‘turn’ someone gay? NTA says no.

Supportive comment calls for update and questions love’s authenticity.

Misconception debunked: You can’t ‘turn’ someone gay.

NTA, brother’s wife is at fault for hiding her sexuality.
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Short and sweet: NTA says it all!

Accepting yourself can inspire others to embrace their truth.

Supportive comment defends SIL’s coming out, calls out brother-in-law’s behavior.

Keeping calm during conflicts is key to avoiding misunderstandings.

Short and to the point – NTA shuts it down
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Realization of SIL’s sexuality after marriage.

Supportive comment advises therapy for SIL and brother, offers comfort ❤️

Living your life can’t ‘turn’ someone gay.

Standing up to entitled men. NTA can’t be kicked out.

Supportive comment helps sister-in-law come out.

NTA. Your brother is confused and lashed out at you. ♀️ Give him time.
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NTA. Short and sweet judgement, no drama here.

NTA commenter shuts down ridiculous claim with hilarious quote.

NTA for living authentically. OP’s brother’s overreaction is uncalled for.

Lesbian sister-in-law was always gay, NTA for being herself

Supportive replies to NTA comment on accidental gay conversion

Clear-cut NTA verdict with no room for debate

Debunking the myth of ‘turning’ someone gay
