Living with a roommate can be a challenge, and when a roommate crosses a boundary, things can get heated. In this AITA post , a woman shares how she found herself in a difficult situation with her roommate, Cassidy, after she brought multiple guys over without notice. When the roommate got into an argument with the poster and refused to change her behavior, the poster decided to kick her out.
However, the poster’s mother thinks she may have been too harsh. What do you think? Read on to find out more about this story .
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Roommate brings strangers in, gets kicked out, and insults friend

Roommate kicked out, now homeless. Was it too harsh?

Did OP do the right thing? Let’s discuss

Kicked out roommate in the adult industry, now homeless
Living with roommates can be challenging, especially if they don’t respect your boundaries. But what happens when you kick out a roommate who has nowhere to go? That’s the dilemma facing OP after asking her roommate Cassidy to leave. Cassidy was bringing guys back to the apartment in the middle of the night, creating an uncomfortable situation for OP.
When OP came home to find a few guys on the couch and Cassidy was nowhere to be found, she reached her breaking point and demanded that Cassidy leave. Now, Cassidy is homeless and OP is questioning whether she made the right decision.
Was OP justified in kicking out her roommate? Or was she too harsh? Let’s take a look at what the commenters have to say on Reddit .
Compassion and tough love are both necessary in this situation

NTA for kicking out roommate who brought strangers without notice

OP is NTA but lacked foresight, commenters discuss roommate’s behavior.

Confusion over the ‘2 bedroom studio’ takes center stage

Set yourself up for this situation by not checking roommate’s behavior.

Safety first! A cautionary tale about roommates and strangers.
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Friendly correction sparks agreement and laughter

Roommate brought clients to home, NTA for eviction decision.

Confusion over apartment setup leads to provocative assumptions

Commenter suggests the OP’s mom take in the homeless roommate

Sarcastic NTA comment sparks no replies

Taking charge to prevent illegal activities in your own home

Secure your home! NTA for kicking out an untrustworthy roommate.

Confusion over apartment size sparks discussion

Setting boundaries in shared living can be tough. NTA.

Studio apartment can’t have 2 bedrooms, OP is NTA

Confusion over 2-bedroom studio, sparks curiosity

Setting boundaries: a**hole or not?

Commenter clears up apartment confusion and judges situation NTA

Roommate drama: Commenter not at fault for homeless ex-roomie.

Stand your ground! You’re not the a**hole here

Classic ‘F around and find out.’ NTA

Setting boundaries is important. You’re NTA in this situation.

Safety first! NTA for prioritizing your safety.

Set boundaries, not a homeless roommate.

Roommate kicked out, now homeless. NTA for concern.

Setting boundaries and enforcing them. NTA

Curious about the backstory? See why the roommate left

Setting boundaries is important. Don’t let others take advantage.

Roommate got what she deserved ♀️

S*x work and rent – a complicated roomie situation

NTA for kicking out s*x worker roommate, but naive about profession.

NTA for kicking out roommate who left people at home

Roommate’s safety is top priority. NTA for kicking out.

Setting boundaries: NTA for holding roommate accountable.

Offering a solution with a hint of sarcasm: Let your mum house her ♀️ NTA

Setting boundaries is important for your safety and well-being

Setting boundaries with a homeless roommate

Trust is crucial in roommate situations – NTA made the right call

Roommate kicked out for having strangers over, now homeless. NTA ♀️

NTA for kicking out irresponsible roommate who put you at risk.

Roommate brought strangers, didn’t pay rent. NTA for eviction.

Secure your home! NTA takes necessary steps.

Setting boundaries and prioritizing safety.

Roommate let strangers stay in your home without telling you

Offering your mom’s place as refuge? NTA and kind-hearted ❤️

Secure your home, don’t let her back in!

Setting boundaries and enforcing them is important for healthy relationships

Stand your ground!

Is OP the a**hole for kicking out their roommate? Need context

Commenter supports OP’s decision to kick out disrespectful roommate.

Kicked out roommate for safety concerns, NTA

Curiosity about two bedroom studio overshadows NTA judgement

Stand firm on boundaries and avoid risky industries.

Offering a solution: suggest to let roommate stay with mom

Safety first! A concerned commenter speaks out.

Expectations vs Reality: A Not-So-Happy Ending

Setting boundaries and sticking to them. NTA
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Commenter suggests mom should have helped homeless roommate
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Roommate’s safety put at risk by unannounced male visitor

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for standing up for yourself

Roommate brought strangers in, NTA for kicking them out.

Friend ignored rules, brought Johns home, and now homeless. NTA ♀️

Dodged a bullet NTA for kicking her out

Roommate’s shady ‘customers’ put everyone in danger. NTA.

Roommate or friend? NTA for kicking out disrespectful couch surfer

Setting boundaries is important

Not the a**hole, but what’s the aftermath?

Setting boundaries with roommates is important for a harmonious living

Conflicted about being justified, seek validation for moral compass ⚖️

Last Updated on March 18, 2023 by Chifundo