Picture this: you’ve been hitting the gym, getting in shape, and feeling great about your body. You and your hubby of 8 years are getting frisky, and you’re both enjoying the new positions you can do thanks to your hard work. But then, he drops a bombshell: he says he’s glad you’re working out because it means he doesn’t have to do all the work during sex anymore. Ouch! Talk about a mood killer. Our heroine is left feeling shocked and hurt by her husband’s comment, which she thought was totally uncalled for, especially in the heat of the moment. Let’s dive into the story and see what happened…
Gym Time = Sexy Time?
Hubby’s Thoughts on the Gym
Taken Aback
A Creative Couple
️ Wrong Time for Conversation
Sex Talk
️♂️ Bedroom Stamina
️ Not Just Laying There
♀️ Doing Her Fair Share
Upset at the Timing
Never Brought Up Before
Gym Gains Lead to Bedroom Blunder
Our gym-going gal was feeling great about her progress and the new positions she could perform in the bedroom. But when she asked her husband if he liked her workouts, he responded by saying it was better than before when she just laid there and he had to do all the work. This left our heroine feeling hurt and unable to get back in the mood. She always thought they were open and creative in their sex life, and his comment seemed to undermine that. Although he apologized, she can’t seem to get past it, especially since the conversation happened during sex. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this spicy situation… ️
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