A woman in a wheelchair has been left alone at her mother-in-law’s house for hours while her husband goes to a friend’s engagement dinner party. She repeatedly tries to contact him but he turns off his phone. The next day he admits to lying about taking her to the party and says it would have been boring for her. They have a big argument about it, but he says she overreacted. Is the woman in the wrong for wanting to leave his mother’s house and go home?
Wheelchair-bound woman relies on husband for transportation

Abandoned at MIL’s: Wife left alone while hubby parties

Husband’s suspicious behavior leaves wife questioning his honesty

Husband’s lie about party leads to wife’s stay with mother-in-law

Husband lies to wife and ditches her at mother-in-law’s.

Husband ditches wife, leaves her with his mom on pretext.

Left at MIL’s, lied about party Sister came to rescue

Husband lied about taking wife to party, left her with MIL

Husband abandons wife at his mom’s, gaslights her for overreacting

Husband lies about party, belittles wife for being upset

Husband leaves wheelchair-bound wife at MIL’s and lies about party
This post is a tale of betrayal and deceit. A husband leaves his wife, who is wheelchair-bound, at his mother’s house for hours on end, while he disappears without a trace. But things reach a new level when he lies to her about taking her to a party and instead abandons her at his mother’s house yet again. The wife, feeling angry and hurt, spends the night alone until her sister comes to keep her company. The husband finally shows up the next day and admits to lying, but the damage has already been done. It’s a difficult situation to navigate, but it’s clear that the husband’s behavior is unacceptable. Read on to see how others are reacting to this story and to share your own thoughts and opinions.
Husband abandons disabled wife with lies and gaslighting. Possible cheating. NTA.

Husband lies and leaves wife at his mom’s. Suspicions of cheating.

Suspicious behavior from husband, NTA for leaving his mom’s.

Divorce time! Husband lied and abandoned wife at his mom’s. NTA

Husband’s controlling and manipulative behavior towards wheelchair-bound wife.
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Cheating husband leaves wheelchair-bound wife at his mom’s to cheat

Red flags abound! Learn to drive, see a lawyer, confront him. #NTA

Husband’s behavior suggests he thinks wife is an inconvenience

Suspicious behavior from husband. NTA, but consider relationship’s health.

Red flags! NTA for considering leaving him.

Dump him! ❤️ Red flags everywhere!

Spouse lies about party and abandons wife. Marriage doomed. NTA.

Husband abandons wife at his mom’s, accuses her of acting childish

Comment suggests husband is cheating and caregiver role is arousing.
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Suggests husband is cheating, advises hidden cameras for proof ️♀️

Commenter compares OP’s treatment to that of a mistreated puppy

Spouse lies, controls and ignores. Could cheating be involved?

Commenter suspects husband of cheating, leaves wife at MIL’s.

Sneaky husband alert! Get a lawyer and detective ASAP.

Dump the ableist a**hole and find better! ♀️

Husband strands wife at mom’s, lies about party attendance. Suspicious behavior?

Don’t let anyone take away your autonomy, disability doesn’t define you ❤️

Commenter advises seeking help for possibly abusive relationship

Divorce him! This commenter is not putting up with lies.

Spouse leaves disabled partner at his mom’s, values opinion less.

Suspicious behavior or just weird?
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Dump the lying husband, you deserve better

Red flag alert! Why is he hiding things?
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Spouse lies, abandons wife at his mom’s despite being independent

Consider your options

Suspicions rise as comment suggests infidelity ️♀️

Is he really cheating?

Is the husband really cheating? NTA thinks so!
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Is he cheating? NTA thinks so

Controlling husband leaves wife at his mom’s. Time for divorce.

Controlling husband leaves wife at his mom’s, gets called out

Spouse with wheelchair deserves respect, trust, and honesty.

Dumping your spouse at your mom’s? Not cool

Controlling husband leaves wife with his mom, lies about party

Red flags Husband might be cheating, NTA for being suspicious.

Empowering response to disabled woman’s husband abandoning her at mother-in-law’s.

Husband lies to abandon wife at mom’s. Commenter suggests serious consideration.

Is there a hidden motive behind his actions?

Suspicious hubby behavior alert! OP should investigate ASAP. ️♀️

Don’t settle for someone who treats you like s**t ♿️

Spouse’s deceitful behavior exposed. Commenter shows empathy and support.

Husband ditches wife, lies, and betrays trust at his mom’s. NTA

Is he cheating? Wife left at mom’s, lies about party

Strange behavior from husband prompts NTA judgement.

Disregarding autonomy isn’t okay. NTA for standing up.

Partner cheats and treats spouse like a burden

Suspicious husband lies about party, wife may be in danger

Suspicious husband leaves wife at mom’s, commenters suspect cheating

Spouse’s strange behavior may indicate emotional problems or infidelity

Husband lies to wife, strands her at mom’s. NTA

Supportive comment urges to leave abusive husband

Don’t be an a**hole to yourself, you deserve better ❤️

Is he cheating? Dumping wife at mom’s to party

Is there more to the story?

Husband leaves wife at his mom’s, won’t let her stay home. NTA.

Commenter supports OP, calls out husband’s behavior

Commenter expresses shock and disgust at husband’s behavior

Three scenarios, one solution NTA

Husband’s lie and disrespect shows red flags for the relationship

Accusation of cheating, sisterly support.
