Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of love, loss, and a whole lot of family drama! Meet our leading lady, a 28-year-old woman caught between her current hubby and a blast from the past. Her mom’s holding onto a precious family photo featuring the ex, and let’s just say the new man in her life isn’t exactly thrilled about it. As tensions rise and emotions run high, she’s left wondering: is she the a-hole for not asking her mom to take down the pic? Get ready for a wild ride as we dive into this picture-perfect dilemma!
A Picture-Perfect Dilemma?

Family Photos Through The Years ️

The Last Photo Before Tragedy Struck

Hubby’s Not Happy About The Ex-Pic ♂️

Breakfast & A Side of Drama

“Mom Doesn’t Respect Me!”

The Real Issue Revealed

⏳ Give It Time, Honey ️

Not Our House, Not Our Call ♀️

Tension Rising…

The Verdict Is In: Who’s The A-Hole?
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a real pickle here! Our leading lady is stuck between a rock and a hard place, trying to keep the peace with her hubby while also respecting her mom’s sentimental attachment to a family photo. It’s a tough call, but let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama! Will they side with the frustrated husband or stand by the daughter’s decision to let the picture stay put? Grab your popcorn, folks, because the responses are bound to be spicy! ️ Let’s dive into the top reactions and see if we can crown the ultimate a-hole in this family feud!
A treasured photo shouldn’t be removed because of insecurity

NTA suggests photo shoot with hubby for family display

Curiosity about husband’s motives sparks insightful NTA comment.

Don’t let your husband erase your mother’s memory
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Suggests a photo session to include husband in family circle

Suggests taking a nice photo together to gift to parents

Husband demands photo be removed, calls wife’s family ‘them’ . Commenter advises to recognize red flags

Husband wants to feel included in family photos. NAH.

Both sides understood. Suggests solution and non-apology apology to husband.

Defending OP’s right to have a family photo with ex

Partner has no say in photos at someone else’s house

ESH but husband needs to accept the family photo situation.

Wife not at fault for keeping family photo with ex.

Get ahead of the game with some nicely framed family photos

Suggests creative solutions to husband’s insecurity with humor

Respect your family’s wishes on having the photo! NTA

Creative solution! NAH. Both made their point.

Defending family memories, NTA comment shuts down husband’s request

Husband asks wife to remove photo with ex, comment suggests ESH.

Celebrate your relationship, but don’t erase her past.

Suggestion to compromise on family photo with ex-partner situation.

Spouse demands removal of sentimental photo, shows true colors.

Suggests creative solution to photo problem

Creative solution to husband’s unreasonable demand!

Suspicious husband demands photo removal, but is OP in the clear?

Suggests editing ex out of family photo, but NTA either way
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Questioning authenticity of COVID precautions in NTA comment.

Valid feelings, poor communication. Compromise with new photos. Counseling suggested.

Sarcastic NAH suggests taking a nice photo for parents’ house

Suggests a thoughtful and creative gift option for the situation

Partner is being petty and disrespectful to OP’s mom

Husband wants ex removed from family photo in wife’s mom’s house

Validating NTA’s decision to keep the photo, while recognizing husband’s insecurity.

Suggests a photo shoot with husband to create new memories

Husband’s insecurity over photo with ex is ridiculous. NTA.

Mom to the rescue! NTA’s mom has a clever solution.

Creative solution to photo drama

NTA says it all – ex’s photos in the house? Deal with it!

Respecting family memories while shutting down controlling behavior

Accepting past relationships is important in a healthy relationship.

Holding onto memories, NTA for keeping family photo with ex

Husband’s insecurity over family photo leads to hilarious gift idea.

Respect your family over him, it’s weird af

Insecure husband wants family photo removed? NTA shuts him down

Respect your mom’s house and memories, not your husband’s ego.

Respectful daughter-in-law defends MIL’s sentimental family photo. NTA

Baggage from past marriage affects current relationship, husband’s feelings valid.

Husband demands removal of family photo with ex; commenters suggest alternatives.

OP thanks commenters for advice, will gift mom a photo

Suggests a compromise for family photo with ex-partner

Suggests a sweet solution to husband’s demand for photo removal

Respectful response to husband’s request to remove ex from photo

New husband is selfish and immature, this won’t end well

Husband demands removal of a photo with ex: NTA suggests professional pictures.

Partner’s insecurities causing rude request to remove family photo. #NTA

Ex’s photo isn’t a threat, NTA for keeping it.
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Suggests addressing husband’s insecurity instead of calling him an a**hole.

Husband wants family photo removed with ex, wife NTA. Commenter calls out husband’s immaturity and narcissism. Marriage is overrated

NTA. Have an honest discussion with him about his insecurities.

Insecure husband demands photo removal, comment says NTA.

Stand your ground, OP! Your marriage may not last

Controlling husband demands removal of family photo with ex? NTA.

Supportive comment calls out selfish behavior of husband.

Partner insecure about photo with ex, NTA stands up

Suggests solutions to husband’s insecurity without hurting family’s feelings.

Partner’s insecurity may be causing photo demand. NTA.

OP gets support after husband’s unreasonable request

Suggests photoshopping ex out for a nice middle ground.

NTA defends wife’s family photo with dad and shuts down husband.

Jealous new husband may lead to divorce number 2 ♀️

NTA. Family photo is a special memory. Husband needs understanding

Framed photos for mom are a must! NTA

Husband wants wife to remove ex from grandparents’ anniversary photo?

Husband tries to remove ex from family photo, wife’s response wins

Respect for the past doesn’t mean you’re TA. NTA.

Husband’s ‘baby feelings’ need to be put aside for family photo
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Suggests dress up and take a selfie to fix exclusion.

Respecting family over husband #NTA
