Ever had a friend’s partner who just rubs you the wrong way? Well, you’re not alone! Meet our 28-year-old heroine who’s caught in a whirlwind of drama, courtesy of her friend Lucy’s boyfriend, Harvey. This story begins with a group holiday, a generous offer, and a ‘compliment’ that spirals into a full-blown conflict. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of emotions, shall we?
Meet the Characters: Lucy, Harvey, and Our Heroine
The Problem with Harvey
Tolerating Harvey for Lucy’s Sake
The Holiday Plan and the Generous Offer ️
Harvey’s ‘Compliment’ and the Shocked Reactions
Harvey’s Defense and the Rising Discomfort
The Dreaded Holiday and the Boyfriend’s Support
The Uncomfortable Call to Lucy
Lucy’s Accusations and the Fallout
The Group Split and the Dilemma
The Boyfriend’s Suggestion and the Unresolved Situation ♀️
The ‘Compliment’ Conundrum: A Friendship on the Rocks
Our tale takes us through the ups and downs of a friendship strained by the antics of a boyfriend who can’t keep his ‘compliments’ to himself. From the shock of Harvey’s inappropriate comment to the uncomfortable aftermath, our heroine finds herself in a pickle. Should she stand her ground and risk losing her friend Lucy, or should she tolerate Harvey’s behavior for the sake of the holiday trip? The group is divided, and so is our heroine’s mind. What would you do in her shoes? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this tricky situation…
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NTA. His comment was inappropriate and he sounds like a menace
“NTA. You’re paying for everything? Enjoy your amazing holiday! “
NTA. You’re paying for the trip, so you get to choose who comes
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Uncomfortable trip with Harvey? NTA for not wanting that!
Trust your instincts, he’s a**hole garbage.
Lucy’s relationship with Harvey seems suffocating and controlling
Trust your gut, he’s a creep
Dealing with a Harvey: Inappropriate comments and uncomfortable encounters
NTA, but friendship may suffer. Group trips are tricky
Stand your ground! Don’t let a creep ruin your vacation!
Standing up against inappropriate ‘compliments’ – NTA ♀️
NTA. Stand up for yourself and remind Lucy of her worth
Toxic relationship dynamics and red flags
NTA. Exclude the creep from your trip and prioritize your happiness
Enabling abusive behavior? NTA’s apology for Lucy backfires
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NTA. Bizarre and inappropriate comment. You have the freedom to invite.
NTA. Set boundaries and prioritize your comfort. Don’t compromise.
NTA. Cut ties with slimeball Harvey and his enabler Lucy.
Setting boundaries: Your reactions matter, not Lucy’s.
Commenter calls out workplace harassment, declares ‘NTA’
NTA. Stand up against r**e men and normalize calling them out!
NTA. Stand up for your friend and help her set boundaries
Taking control: You’re paying, you decide who goes
NTA – Trust your gut, don’t let this creep ruin things
Stand up for yourself and enjoy a drama-free holiday!
NTA – Creepy friend, potential loss of friendship, BF agrees
“Count her out as a friend until she opens her eyes”
“Stick to your decision and don’t allow him to come! “
Concerned for Lucy’s well-being, offer support and resources. NTA.
Excluding him was justified, you have the final say. NTA
Uncomfortable friend fails vibe test, NTA for not paying.
Lucy learns to value herself.
NTA. Trust your gut and prioritize your comfort
Dump friends who give you c**p about not inviting him
NTA. Friend in denial about toxic boyfriend, time to distance
Lucy stands up to Harvey and gains clarity about their friendship
“Harvey’s toxic behavior towards Lucy raises red flags. Stay safe!”
NTA. Friendship drama over holiday plans, but Lucy has options
Friendly disagreement on appropriateness of comment, but no a******s here
You’re paying, you’re choosing. It’s that simple.
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Supportive friend stands up for Lucy against partner’s comments
NTA. Lucy chooses not to go to preserve his feelings
Opinions vary, but it’s strange his girlfriend wasn’t bothered
NTA: Inappropriate ‘compliment’ insults girlfriend, dude s***s
“Hey girl, nice t**s!” is a ‘compliment’ that crossed the line. NTA.
“Harvey’s creepy behavior and defenders ruined the vacation. NTA!”
Lucy’s choice to stay with a controlling creep. NTA
NTA. Lucy is blind to Harvey’s creepy behavior. Exclude them!
NTA. Stand up for yourself and kick Lucy out!
Cutting out a creep. Good job!
NTA. Friendship at risk over uncomfortable situation. Choose your comfort.
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Stand up for yourself! NTA.
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NTA… Creepy friend and entitled ‘wonderful friends’ need reality check
Friend chooses to enable behavior by only going if he does
NTA. He disrespected his girlfriend and sexually harassed you. No thanks!
Stand your ground and set boundaries. Don’t let toxic people ruin your trip!
He’s vile and disgusting, uninvite Lucy if she insists on Harvey.
OP refuses to pay for uncomfortable friend’s holiday. NTA
Stand up for your friend! NTA.
Last Updated on July 28, 2023 by Diply Social Team
