Ah, the holidays – a time for family, food, and… financial investigations? This tale of Christmas drama will have you rethinking your holiday etiquette. When a brother brings his new girlfriend, Lindsay, to the family Christmas dinner, things take an unexpected turn. From complimenting decorations to inquiring about their cost, Lindsay’s curiosity seems to know no bounds. But when she starts googling the price of Christmas gifts, one family member decides to call her out. Let’s dive into this festive fiasco…
Meet Lindsay, the Curious Christmas Guest

The Pricey Compliments Begin

An Evening of Financial Inquiries ️♀️

Art Appraisal on the Spot

Brother’s Reassurance… or Not?

A Silent Christmas Morning…

Lunchtime Revelation! ️

The Gold Digger Accusation! ️

An Awkward Apology…

Post-Dinner Fallout

The Apology Debate ♀️ ♂️

A Christmas to Remember: Gold Digger Accusations and Awkward Apologies
This Christmas dinner was certainly one for the books! From inquiring about the cost of decorations to googling the price of art, Lindsay’s curiosity about the family’s finances was relentless. But when she revealed the total cost of Christmas gifts at the lunch table, the family’s patience ran out. Accused of being a ‘diligent gold digger’, Lindsay was left stuttering an apology. While the brother insists on an apology for Lindsay, the family remains divided. Was the public confrontation too much, or was it a necessary wake-up call? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this holiday hullabaloo…
NTA. Woman’s r**e questions about money make everyone uncomfortable.

Engaging inquisitive comment sparks discussion on social etiquette and wealth

“NTA and I really don’t get the YTA’s… It is so unbelievably r**e to make *so many* comments about money. Don’t apologize to your brother. She should be apologizing to you, and your brother should be apologizing on her behalf. Maybe next time she’ll learn to keep her mouth shut and not constantly talk about money.”

“NTA. She came into your house and started appraising your net worth like a**hole! “

NTA: GF’s crass behavior on first Christmas with family.
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NTA. Lindsay’s r**e comment about finances deserved a clapback.

NTA refuses to apologize to the human cash register.

NTA – OP called a gold digger, but she’s uncomfortable with BF’s family’s wealth.

NTA – Being called a gold digger can have serious consequences!

NTA: Public pronouncements invite public responses. Brother and girlfriend should apologize.

“Gold digger” is too harsh, but NTA. “Busy body” fits.

NTA…calling out a gift price Googler, no clue on etiquette!

“NTA This is wild. I’m someone who strongly believes the stigma against talking about money is b******t and mostly just serves to do harm. Everyone should be comfortable talking about how much money they make and be ok talking about what things cost. It would help prevent people from being taken advantage of. And even I think she went way too far. Even if she has some compulsion to know how much things are, or prepare for next year by knowing how much you guys typically spend, she should at least have the courtesy to keep it to herself.” – Normalize talking about basic finances. But a guest who tallies up the cost of all the gifts, and then wonders why we spent so much money? GTFO.

Lindsay’s suspicious behavior raises eyebrows and security concerns!

Sibling rivalry takes a twist with a tax assessor in the mix!

NTA. Public smack down needed for those judgmental people!

Engaging comment and empathetic reply about misreading social cues.

NTA. R**e GF calls out woman for Googling gift prices!

Curious about her explanation? Find out the missing details!

Sibling drama at Christmas: Gold digger accusation sparks family tension!

NTA. Don’t ask about money, it’s r**e! ♀️

Inappropriate comments about wealth, but maybe just a misunderstanding?

Last Updated on October 25, 2023 by Diply Social Team