Picture this: your girlfriend’s best friend has been having a steamy three-month affair with a married man. She gets pregnant, and suddenly, the guy disappears without a trace. Your girlfriend keeps asking for your opinion on the situation, and you can’t help but say, “Well, what did she expect?” That’s exactly what happened to one guy, who’s now being accused of being heartless and misogynistic by his girlfriend. Let’s dive into this drama-filled story.
The Three-Month Affair

Baby on Board

The Desperate Search

The Unsurprising Disappearance ♂️

Girlfriend Seeks Support ♀️

The Controversial Opinion

Accusations Fly

Standing His Ground

Heartless or Just Being Honest?
So, is our protagonist really heartless and misogynistic, or is he just being brutally honest about a messy situation? He’s made it clear that he doesn’t approve of his girlfriend’s best friend’s behavior, and when asked for his opinion, he didn’t hold back. He believes the guy won’t come back, and that the friend should have been prepared for the consequences of her actions. His girlfriend, however, thinks he’s being cruel and insensitive. What do you think? Let’s check out some of the top reactions from the internet…
NTA: Unborn child, absent father, and unrealistic expectations

NTA: Girlfriend’s friend supports cheating, boyfriend uncomfortable with it

NTA: Cold but truthful. Revenge plot getting messy

NTA. Red flags on OP’s gf for defending her cheating friend

Engaging comment and replies on misogyny and expectations.

NTA: Girlfriend’s BFF faces consequences for affair with married man
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Not tactful but not wrong. Ghosted affair partner, trashy behavior. Abort?

NTA. She knew what she was getting into

NTA: Honest response to a tough question about deadbeat dad
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OP may have been tactless, but NTA for expressing opinion

NTA, standing up against enabling shitty behavior and hypocrisy

NTA – Girlfriend’s friend’s choices are questionable and concerning

NTA: Wise advice on not engaging with married men

“NTA – Friend played stupid games and won stupid prizes.”
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NTA, don’t need to ‘be a man’ to see truth.

Feminism is about equality, not sleeping with other women’s husbands

Agreeing with the commenter’s response.

GF relates. Overly defensive. No Bueno

NTA, hanging out with cheaters condones cheating
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NTA: No sympathy for the BFF’s affair partner. ♂️

NTA, but OP should be cautious of GF’s questionable behavior

Savage revenge plan! NTA’s suggestion for exposing the cheater
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NAH. GF’s friend ghosted by affair partner. OP called insensitive.
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