Picture this: You’re in the hospital for the first time, feeling miserable, and you decide to send your boyfriend a photo to keep things light-hearted. You’d expect some sympathy, right? Well, that’s not what happened to this 20-year-old girl, who found herself in a whirlwind of drama after sending her boyfriend a hospital selfie.
A Painful Trip to the Hospital
Supportive Roommate, Distant Boyfriend
Updating Sam on Her Condition
Sending the Hospital Selfie
Sam’s Unexpected Response
Trying to Understand His Feelings ♀️
Mom Gets Involved
Apologizing to Sam and His Mom
Roommate Thinks He’s Overreacting
Feeling Guilty
Sam Asks for a Break
Realizing the Imbalance
Therapy and Moving On
The End of the Relationship
Hospital Selfie Drama: The Aftermath
So, after all the chaos, our girl realizes that she’s always been there for Sam, but he’s never reciprocated the support. She’s ready to move on and focus on her own well-being. As for Sam’s mom, she hasn’t reached out again, and our protagonist is more than happy to keep it that way. ♀️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this rollercoaster of a situation…
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