Welcome to the heart-wrenching tale of a teenage girl caught between her need for privacy and the demands of her severely autistic brother. As she navigates the challenges of adolescence, she finds herself in a constant battle to maintain her personal space and sanity. Join us as we delve into the emotional turmoil and family dynamics that unfold in this gripping story. Get ready to feel the raw emotions and relate to the struggles of a young girl trying to find her place in a household turned upside down by autism.
Locked Out of Privacy: A Teenage Girl’s Struggle

️ Living in Darkness: The Challenges of Having an Autistic Sibling

Miss Independent: A Mature Teen Takes Responsibility

Invasion of Privacy: When Autism Meets Adolescence

Destructive Behaviors: The Toll on a Sister’s Belongings

️ Taking Control: A Teen’s Quest for Privacy and Security

️ Family Feud: Mom’s Demands vs. Daughter’s Needs

Open Door Policy: A Mother’s Misguided Expectations

♂️ Sibling Invasion: Mom’s Insistence on Unrestricted Access

A Sister’s Sanctuary: The Importance of Personal Space

No Compromise: When Architectural Limitations Prevail ️

AITA? A Sister’s Dilemma in the Face of Autism

️ The Key to Privacy: A Sister’s Fight for Her Space
In this emotionally charged story, a 14-year-old girl finds herself at odds with her mother over her right to privacy and personal space. With a severely autistic brother who constantly invades her room and bathroom, she takes matters into her own hands by installing locks. However, her mother demands that she grant unrestricted access to her siblings, disregarding her need for a sanctuary amidst the chaos. As the tension builds, the internet is left to ponder: is this teenage girl an inconsiderate sister, or is she justified in her quest for privacy? Let’s see what the online community has to say about this heart-wrenching dilemma…
Setting boundaries with autistic siblings is important.

NTA for wanting privacy and boundaries from destructive autistic brother

OP’s parents are teaching her that she doesn’t deserve personal boundaries NTA

Empathetic response encouraging self-advocacy and healthy boundaries

Secure your privacy, don’t let them walk all over you.

Teen girl installs locks for privacy, mom prioritizes brother’s comfort. #NTA

Respectful comment supports poster’s frustration, deems them NTA

Importance of discipline and boundaries for autistic children and respect for privacy.

Protecting your privacy is important, but don’t forget child welfare

Using personal experience to justify NTA and offering creative solution

Deserve privacy and alone time. Schedule interaction with brother.

Sibling of autistic brother shares similar experience and advises on setting boundaries.
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As an autistic person, suggests fixing flickering lights. Also recommends alternatives.

Setting boundaries with an autistic sibling. NTA

Moving out improved relationship with disabled brother. NTA

Sibling advises adapting to unsupportive parents, seeks advice from r/justnofamily

Growing up with a severely autistic sibling can be hard

Dealing with a disruptive sibling with understanding and boundaries.

NTA suggests clever solution for autistic brother’s locked door
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Suggests seeking help from outside adult to relieve stress.

Autistic brother picking locks could lead to dangerous consequences

Prioritizing mental health at home. NTA for setting boundaries.

Assertive approach to discussing privacy with mom. NTA

Empathetic comment applauds girl’s need for privacy and control

Setting boundaries with an autistic sibling who violates privacy

Bathroom feud sparks concern over sibling’s needs and bathroom rights

Graduating early and getting out is the best option. NTA
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Respectful approach to teaching boundaries with disabled siblings

Engaging in conversation about accommodating autistic brother as an adult

Autistic sibling should not have access to OP’s personal space. NTA.

Autistic commenter argues against accommodating all ASD behaviors
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Mom’s disregard for OP’s privacy is toxic and dangerous. NTA

Engaging advice on installing locks for privacy with helpful tips

Concerns raised about brother entering female-only spaces.
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Creating a safe space when living with special needs siblings

Deserving a peaceful space while accommodating brother’s needs

Teaching boundaries to autistic children is possible

NTA. Lack of privacy and education for neurodivergent kids

Setting boundaries with siblings with disabilities can be complicated.

Respect your privacy and boundaries! You deserve a safe space.

Respectful NTA comment defends privacy despite brother’s condition.

Locking products from an autistic sibling – valid or not?

Sibling seeks help to deal with autistic brother’s invasion of privacy

Protecting valuables from autistic sibling, NTA. Install new locks.

Privacy is important, even with an autistic sibling
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Brother’s autism doesn’t excuse invasion of privacy by picking locks

Suggests residential group home for autistic brother, offers experience-based advice

Sibling of an autistic child shares their experience and encourages setting boundaries.

A parent with autistic children shares valuable advice and support ❤️

Siblings frustrated by brother’s access – everyone who will destroy things needs a key

Autistic commenter shares insight on boundaries and sibling’s situation. NTA.

Concerned comment about lack of boundaries for autistic brother.

Suggests doorstops and mediation for sibling privacy dispute. Good advice!

Setting boundaries with siblings is important for privacy and well-being.

Empathetic reply encourages OP to plan for future independence
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Protecting personal space: NTA reasonable to install locks on bedroom

Teenager installs lock for privacy from special needs brother

Sibling of an autistic child shares insight on parenting and discipline.
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Curious about which door the lock was installed on?

Setting boundaries with autistic siblings can be challenging, NTA

NTA. Parents should parent and not give up on their child.

Setting boundaries for brother’s impulses is important for safety

Sibling’s valid concerns dismissed, NTA for installing locks.

Creative solutions suggested for privacy and brother’s needs.

NTA for wanting privacy at 14. Suggest getting outside help.

Suggests solutions to reduce stress in the family

Setting boundaries with family is important. NTA
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Take control of your life and don’t let them manipulate you ♀️

NTA. Proper boundaries and respect for privacy are important for everyone
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Deserving of space and protection from brother’s destructive behaviors.

Having a private space is important for everyone, NTA
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Stand up for yourself, you deserve respect in your home

Privacy matters. NTA for wanting your own space

Prioritizing privacy and safety in shared bathrooms

Setting boundaries for an autistic sibling can be challenging. NTA.

Setting boundaries is important for both siblings’ growth.

Angry commenter blames family for dehumanizing autistic brother.

Standing up for yourself when family disregards your feelings

Parenting and autism boundaries. NTA comment gets praise.

Special ed teacher defends girl’s need for privacy, supports boundary-setting.

Protecting your personal space from an autistic sibling is reasonable. NTA

Sibling shares experience of growing up with an autistic brother.
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Standing up for privacy and boundaries with family.

Autistic commenter offers solution and reassurance. NTA

Set boundaries for the safety of your brother. NTA ♀️

Respectful advice on how to cover light switches and assert privacy

Sibling recommends therapy for brother’s behavior; suggests new lock or room swap for privacy.
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OP suggests professional help and advises leaving for safety.

Privacy is a right, NTA for setting boundaries

Sister installs locks to keep out autistic brother. NTA obviously.

Use a doorstop for privacy, talk to counselor for support. NTA.

Expert advice on setting boundaries with autistic family members
