Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a family drama that’ll make your head spin faster than a fidget spinner at a rave! Meet Nurse Mom, who’s been holding down the fort at work while her hubby and kids navigate the pandemic pandemonium at home. But wait, there’s a twist! Hubby and son are on the autism spectrum, and it seems like daughter dearest might be using their sensory struggles to her advantage! Is this a case of clever kid capitalism or manipulative mischief? Let’s dive in and untangle this family fiasco!
Nurse Mom’s COVID Conundrum

Pandemic Parenting Predicament

Daughter’s Suspicious Spending Spree

️♀️ Mom’s Undercover Investigation

Sensory Overload Struggle

Mom’s Medical Manipulation

Hubby’s Doctor Dilemma

Daughter’s Defiant Denial

♂️ Hubby’s Punishment Protest

Hubby’s Locked Door Dilemma

Mom’s Moral Quandary ⚖️

Sensory Overload PSA

Brother’s Fearful Confession

Autism Abuse Accusation: Is This Teen Terror Taking Advantage?
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got a real family feud on our hands! Nurse Mom is on the case, trying to figure out if her darling daughter is using her dad and bro’s autism against them. ️♀️ She’s noticed some suspicious spending and car rides that seem to coincide with the kid’s sensory-overloading tactics. But when confronted, the teen terror denies everything and storms off in a huff! Even hubby’s not convinced, refusing to believe his little girl could be so manipulative. ♂️ But with bro confessing his fear of sis’s antics, it’s clear this family drama is far from over! The internet jury is still out on this one, folks! ⚖️ Is Nurse Mom an a-hole for trying to punish her daughter, or is she just looking out for her loved ones? ❤️ Stay tuned for the verdict!
Parenting classes and therapy needed for family dynamics.

Teaching kids to exploit disabilities is never okay

Educating a 13-year-old on autism and avoiding resentment

Is daughter manipulating or is dad using autism as excuse?

Acknowledging past mistake, NTA dad called out for apology

Parenting advice: instead of blaming, start with open conversations

ESH, but the daughter needs guidance not judgement

Expert suggests daughter may not understand actions. Approach conversationally. NAH.

Teaching children boundaries and respect is important. #NTA

Exploring doubts and queries about the daughter’s behavior and punishment.
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A critical comment pointing out parent’s bad behavior and influence

A commenter with ASD shares insight on sensory overload and boundaries. YTA.

Suggests a diplomatic approach to daughter’s behavior.

13-year-old pushes boundaries, but not intentionally using autism. NAH.

Double standards much?

Parenting imbalance leads to daughter’s behavior issues. ESH except son.

Disagreeing comment defends daughter’s behavior as typical teenage behavior.

Teenager’s behavior is normal, family counseling is needed. NAH

An Autistic person calls out the OP for not respecting her husband’s autonomy and possibly teaching their daughter to manipulate.

Understanding child behavior vs. false accusations of abuse.

A commenter calls out the parent for modeling abusive behavior.

Mom calls out daughter for manipulating autistic family members. #NTA

Confront daughter, explain why she can’t push past line

NAH- Mom recognizes issue, but punishment is unnecessary. Teaching is key.

Psychology major confirms 13 isn’t too young to understand autism

Nurse mom gets called out for poor parenting skills.

Communication breakdown and ableism in family dynamics.

Autistic commenter explains why treating the dad as helpless is wrong

User calls out OP for undermining husband’s parenting abilities.

Seeking clarity on daughter’s behavior towards autistic dad, conflicting perspectives.

User calls out parent for disregarding autistic family members’ needs.

Advocating for the dad’s autonomy while acknowledging daughter’s behavior.

Insightful comment from an adult with ASD about family dynamics

Parenting responsibilities fall on adults, not a 13-year-old.

User calls out OP for childish and manipulative behavior.

User criticizes poor handling of situation with good intentions

Not abuse, just typical 13-year-old behavior. Grounding seems appropriate

Reflection on past behavior as a teenager, NTA admitted fault.

Understanding and empathy needed towards family dynamic with ASD.

Lack of communication? YTA. But the relatable feeling though

Important advice for a family in crisis
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Advice for a stressed-out mom of an autistic child.

Suggests communication over punishment for manipulative behavior

Understanding the daughter’s knowledge of her family’s condition

Parenting is about setting boundaries and not letting bad behavior slide

Skepticism of daughter’s intent in sensory overload situation.

Parent admits to physically manipulating partner to go to doctor.

Engaging with a YTA comment calling out overprotective parenting tactics.

Parents of neurotypical & autistic kids need to communicate & support.

Discipline vs Punishment: Clarifying the Terminology for Effective Parenting

Insightful comment on the possible autism spectrum behavior

Teaching a 13-year-old boundaries without calling her abusive
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Daughter may need help. Husband’s anger is understandable.

Understanding the impact of sensory overload and advocating for empathy.

Parent seeks help for manipulative teenage daughter. #NTA

Suggests therapy for daughter’s behavior towards autistic family members ❤️
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NTA. Apologize to husband and discuss strategy together. Address problematic behavior.

Suggestion for family therapy instead of punishing daughter.
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Encouraging words for a parent acknowledging difficult truths.

Supportive comment about friend’s autism, no a-hole here.

Concerned commenter suggests family therapy for manipulative daughter.
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Confusion over author’s use of ‘your son’ and ‘your husband’.

Therapy might help develop insight into power dynamics at home.

Don’t let her get away with it!

Nurse’s language problematic, daughter’s behavior normal teenage manipulation.

Suggestion to educate daughter on husband and son’s condition ❤️

Daughter taking advantage of dad and brother with mental illness. NTA.

13-year-old daughter manipulates dad and brother, comment defends OP

A person with Aspergers shares the painful reality of sensory overload.

Protecting neurodivergent family from ableist daughter’s harmful behavior.

Thirteen-year-old girl with autistic family member gives advice to overwhelmed parents. #NTA

Parenting advice sparks debate on autism & discipline.

User questions evidence of daughter’s abuse, considers spectrum

13-year-old’s behavior towards autistic family members: NTA or ESH?

Former therapist suggests conversation and learning exercise as punishment for daughter’s behavior

13-year-old lacks empathy, but can learn through discussion. NTA.
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Encouraging response to NTA comment about parenting autistic children

Prevent future behavior issues. Good call, NTA!

Prioritizing therapy and education over punishment for family dynamics.

Respectful comment acknowledging complexity of situation and individual differences.
