GF Confronts BF About Exes’ Faked Orgasms: Truth or Trouble?

Picture this: you’re in a loving relationship for two years, and one day, your partner starts comparing your bedroom performance to his exes. You feel insecure and seek professional advice, only to find out that his exes might have been faking it all along. Now, you’re stuck in a sticky situation, wondering if you should tell him the truth or keep it to yourself. Well, that’s exactly what happened to our protagonist, and let’s just say things got a little heated…

The 2-Year Relationship

Comparing Numbers

Sexy Talk Time ️

His Concern

I’m Satisfied, Though!

Ex-Girlfriend Comparison

His Wishes

Doctor’s Wisdom

Breaking the News ️

His Reaction

My Confession

The Fallout

The Edit: Shocked

Taking Criticism Seriously

The Plan

Exes, Orgasms, and Uncomfortable Truths

Our lovely lady (24F) has been dating her boyfriend (24M) for two years when he drops a bombshell: he doesn’t think they’re 100% sexually compatible because she can’t orgasm from penetration like his exes could. Feeling insecure, she visits her OBGYN, who tells her that most women can’t orgasm from penetration alone and that his exes were likely faking it. She decides to tell her boyfriend the truth, but he doesn’t take it well and accuses her of calling him bad in bed. To make matters worse, she admits to faking it once early in their relationship, causing him to leave in a huff. Now, she’s left wondering if she messed up by telling him the truth. ‍♀️ Let’s dive into the internet’s thoughts on this juicy dilemma…

Debunking the myth of women orgasming from penetration alone ‍♀️

NTA for confronting BF about faking orgasms, he’s an idiot

Partner’s arrogance about sexual performance leads to confrontation. NTA.

Empathetic comment encourages open communication & mutual improvement.

Battle of the sexes continues with no clear winner ‍♀️ ‍♂️

One man’s technique for making his wife orgasm

BF and GF both suck for hurting each other over orgasms. ‍♀️ ‍♂️

NTA commenter calls out bruised egos in hilarious thread

NTA OP’s amazing attitude vs BF’s fragile ego

Honesty is the best policy, even in the bedroom

Bringing other women into the argument is an AH move ‍♀️

ESH. Both partners compared each other to exes, unhealthy behavior.

Woman tells the truth about terrible sex with ex, worries about compatibility

NTA learns from high school GF, improves sex life.

NTA calls out partner’s selfishness in bed.

Honesty is the best policy in the bedroom

Being honest about faked orgasms is important for women ✔

NTA speaks out on faked orgasms, calls out rude behavior

Communication is key in a healthy relationship

NTA comment advocates for better sex education in schools.

Rare but possible, work on yourselves before committing

Questioning the male assumption of penetration leading to orgasm

82% of women can’t orgasm through penetration, his expectations are unrealistic

Woman shuts down men’s egos over faked orgasms.

Fragile male ego accusations: why his exes faked orgasms

Both parties share the blame and handled it poorly. ‍♂️

Stop faking orgasms, if he can’t handle it, he’s not worth it

NTA. BF’s ego deserved to be knocked down.

NTA. Setting him straight about women’s sexuality

Educating men on female anatomy ‍ ‍ is a necessary step ✍

Educational comment about female anatomy and pleasure ‍

Importance of communication in sexual satisfaction

Exes’ faked orgasms lead to argument, both at fault

NTA, BF wants an effortless sexual relationship, you want real orgasms

A spicy take on faked orgasms and male anatomy

Both sides made hurtful moves, nobody won.

The toxic cycle of men’s expectations and women’s conditioning. ‍♀️

Women fake orgasms because men are delicate. NTA.

BF’s flawed reasoning leads to breakup accusation. ‍♀️

Male commenter empathizes with NTA poster, advises sharing post for perspective

BF’s ignorance exposed by comment, no sex god here

NTA for telling him, but faking orgasms was a mistake

Advice from experience on teaching partner to give orgasms

Lesbians don’t fake orgasms because we usually have them

Partner’s ego is the problem, not your orgasms

Educating partner on female orgasm: NTA but bruised ego.

Validating each other’s views is important, but don’t invalidate experiences. ESH

Communicating openly about sex is crucial for healthy relationships!

Breaking down toxic masculinity and unrealistic expectations in the bedroom.

Defending herself with class . NTA for sure!

Porn isn’t real life, guys. Listen to your partner!

Women should be honest with their partners about their needs. ✔

Porn’s influence on sex: fake orgasms and unrealistic expectations

Humblebrag or genuinely caring partner?

One woman’s experience with orgasms and penetration.

NTA confronts BF’s hypocrisy about exes’ fake orgasms

Don’t let him gaslight you! Trust your instincts

NTA. Women need to be truthful about orgasms to educate men

Defend yourself against insecure men. Speak your truth!

Encouraging comment on importance of communication and mutual understanding

BF’s ex comparison during sex talk makes him TA

A sympathetic response to a partner’s struggle with the truth.

Empathetic comment reminds BF of his sexual prowess

Navigating male ego in relationships: ‍♂️ vs ‍♀️

BF thinks he’s a god at sex after exes faked orgasms

Positive and helpful comment about female orgasm during sex

Honesty is key to a healthy sex life

Exploring the truth about women and orgasms

Honesty in relationships: justified or mean-spirited?

Both parties criticized for immaturity and lack of expertise ‍♀️

Doubting the honesty of partner, YTA called out.

Creative tips for clitoral stimulation during PIV sex

Double standards in gender norms

OP’s speculation about exes’ orgasms leads to YTA judgement.

Fun exploration turned into petty argument. ESH for handling poorly.