Friend’s Fiancée Wants Me to Skip Family Vacation After Finding Out About Our Past. AITA?

A woman is questioning if she’s in the wrong after her friend’s fiancée told her she makes her uncomfortable and asked her not to come on vacation with their family. The woman used to date her friend before he met his fiancée and is close with his family. The vacation for this year has already been booked, but the fiancée wants her to stay away out of respect for her relationship.

An argument ensued, with accusations of wanting a free vacation, and now the woman is wondering if she’s the a**hole in this situation for wanting to go on the trip with her friend and his family.

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Friend’s fiancée wants me to skip family vacation after finding out about our past AITA?

What happens when your close friend’s fiancée finds out about your past relationship and demands that you skip the annual family vacation? That’s the dilemma our poster is facing. Despite being close to his friend’s family, the fiancée has told everyone that the poster makes her uncomfortable and wants him to stay away from her and her fiancé.

The poster, however, has already booked the vacation and refuses to skip it just because of her discomfort. The situation has turned into an argument with accusations being thrown around. Is the poster the a**hole in this situation ? Or is the fiancée overreacting?

Let’s take a closer look at the dynamics of the relationships and what might be the best course of action for all parties involved.

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NTA – OP’s friend’s fiancée is out of bounds for expecting OP not to go on a vacation that includes OP’s siblings.

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NTA for wanting to go on family vacation despite fiance’s discomfort.

Ex’s fiancée uncomfortable with family vacation, but OP shouldn’t have to skip. NTA

Commenter empathizes with fiancé, urges OP to resolve issues.

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Ex’s friendship with friend’s fiancée causes family drama. ESH.

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Commenter suggests dropping friend’s fiancé.

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