Imagine being served less dinner than everyone else at the table because of your weight. That’s exactly what happened to one person in a group of friends . They were served up less food and it led to an awkward situation. The post comes from the subreddit ‘a***********e’ and has received over 12k upvotes. The author of the post shares their experience of being proud of their body but still facing discrimination from others. Read on to find out what happened when they spoke up about the issue.
Embrace body positivity as we navigate through dinner ✨

Proud of my body despite others’ opinions – body positivity

Focusing on strength and fitness, not weight – body positivity ️♀️

Overcoming weight stigma and proving my worth to ‘friends’ ♀️

Friend dishes out fat-shaming comments at dinner – AITA?

Standing up for myself when friend serves me less food ️

Polite friend offers less food, dinner gets awkward. ♂️

Awkward dinner over portion size difference – AITA?

Friend’s backhanded concern for weight ruins dinner – AITA?

Awkward dinner conversation leads to blame game – AITA?

A clarification on ‘entree’ sparks a cultural debate

️ Friend serves me less food because I’m fat – AITA for making dinner awkward?
In this post, someone shares their experience of being served less food by a friend at a dinner party because of their weight. The poster, who is happy and comfortable with their body, was confused and embarrassed by the public comment, but politely requested a full portion. The friend then expressed concern about the poster’s weight loss progress, which made the situation even more uncomfortable. The post raises questions about how we talk about weight and body size, and how to navigate situations where others make comments about our food choices or body. Keep reading to see what others had to say about this awkward dinner interaction.
NTA, friend made it awkward by serving less food based on weight ️

Friend serves smaller portion to OP based on their weight – NTA for calling out their r**e behavior.

Friend shames OP for being on a diet – NTA for standing up.

Real friends support and include you no matter what. NTA

Friend shames OP for weight, NTA for dinner confrontation

Supportive comment, cheering for OP’s recovery

Friend shames OP’s diet, triggers ED. NTA for avoiding.

Celebrate mental health progress , reconsider toxic friendships

Cut off toxic friends for your mental and physical health

Don’t make assumptions about someone’s food preference – ESH

Don’t make assumptions about anyone’s eating habits. NTA.

NTA for standing up to friend’s r**e behavior ♀️

Fat-shaming friends? NTA for calling out dinner awkwardness

Assumptions about food portions make dinner uncomfortable – NTA

Body positivity wins – NTA for standing up to friend’s fatphobia

Friend restricts my food but makes carb-filled paella? NTA.
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Friend serves inappropriate meal, commenters agree NTA, suggest communication.

You stood up for yourself. Good riddance to bad friends.

Don’t let manipulators shift the blame! NTA
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Host serves less food to overweight guest – NTA response

Friend’s behavior towards my ED sparks concern from commenter.

Consider finding new friends who don’t discriminate based on weight.

Being served less food because of weight – not cool. #NTA

Not a friend, not a meal.

Friend serves less food for being fat – NTA wins!

Your friend served a side of fat shaming with dinner

Friend purposely serves less food because of weight – NTA

Supportive comment section with positive vibes!

Stand up for yourself and what you eat, NTA

Serving less food because of weight? Not cool!
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Cheers to standing up against fat-shaming!

Standing up for yourself with grace and dignity. ✊

Friend publicly shames overweight dinner guest – NTA for response

Body shaming at dinner – NTA’s response goes viral

Overcoming ED and standing up for oneself.

Standing up to fat-shaming friend – NTA

You were generous, NTA. Her behavior was r**e

Avoid toxic friends who body shame you. NTA

Friend body-shames and serves less food – NTA for response ♀️

Body-shaming never works. Finding joy in physical activity does ️♀️

Agreeing with the commenter’s shock and supporting their decision. #NTA

Overcoming an eating disorder is hard enough. NTA for reacting.

Commenter defends OP, calls out friend’s r**e behavior ️

Friend assumes weight loss goal and blames OP for awkwardness ♀️

Don’t shame someone for wanting dinner ️

Toxic friend? NTA for calling out food discrimination

Weight stigma is real, NTA for standing up for yourself ❤️

Friend serves less food to OP, but NTA for handling it maturely

Standing up for oneself against body shaming

Don’t let anyone control what you eat ️ #NTA
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Standing up to a fake friend ♀️

Etiquette 101: Serve your guests! NTA, serve the truth ️

Friend served less food to OP, called out for being r**e

Overcoming ED and standing up for fair treatment –

Last Updated on April 3, 2023 by Azka