We all have that one friend who’s always broke, but do you have a friend who takes advantage of your generosity? Meet Ally, the freeloading friend who’s causing a stir in her trio with John and the original poster (OP). They used to hang out almost every day, smoking, chilling, and eating together, but things have taken a turn for the worse. Ally’s constant mooching has pushed her friends to the edge, and now they’re wondering if they’re the bad guys for excluding her from their outings. Let’s dive into this drama-filled story!
The Trio: John, Ally, and OP
Ally’s Freeloading Ways
Changing Her Mind
Expensive Tastes
Gas Money Drama
Never Asking for Gas Money
Ally’s Double Standards
Gas Money Request
Weed Mooching
Feeling Taken Advantage Of
No Change in Ally’s Behavior
John and OP Stop Offering
Ally’s Chinese Food Meltdown
Splitting the Check
Ally’s Accusation
Explaining the Situation
Ally’s Anger Intensifies
John’s Explanation
Ally’s Dramatic Exit
Texting the Boyfriend
Are John and OP the Bad Guys?
So, after months of Ally’s freeloading ways, John and OP decided to stop offering to pay for her meals and activities. But when Ally finally claimed to have her own money for a Chinese dinner, things got heated. Ally accused OP of cheating on her boyfriend when John paid for her meal, not realizing they’d been taking turns covering each other’s costs. When they explained their new system, Ally got angrier and accused them of purposely excluding her. John and OP tried to reason with her, but Ally stormed off, dramatically calling herself a leech and a burden. She even texted OP’s boyfriend, trying to stir up more drama. So, who’s really in the wrong here? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this messy situation…
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NTA. Friends share, but Ally is a leech. Cut her off! ♀️
Exclude Ally from hangouts, she accused OP of cheating.
Friend expects free meals and accuses boyfriend of cheating? Dump her.
NTA sets boundary with freeloading friend, accused of cheating by her
NTA comment defends Ally’s actions with a sassy tone
Standing up to freeloaders! You and John did the right thing.
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Being a broke friend doesn’t mean being a freeloader. Real friends show appreciation in other ways. Ally is a user and a victim, not a friend.
Don’t be a freeloader! Ordering the most expensive dish? NTA.
Ouch! That’s a harsh judgment on the friend.
Friend expects free meals, accuses of cheating when stopped. NTA.
Ally got what she deserved. ♀️ NTA wins this round.
NTA! ♀️ Don’t let a mooch ruin your plans and relationships.
Ally takes advantage of friend’s generosity and stirs up drama. NTA
NTA and handled it well. Ally needs to learn boundaries.
Commenter agrees with NTA verdict, no explanation necessary
Toxic friend accuses of cheating over a dinner bill
NTA and the Ally problem solved itself
Ally’s true colors revealed: a freeloading, manipulative ‘friend’
Cut ties with the leech and move on. ♀️
Why waste time with an unpleasant freeloader? NTA
Questioning the value of a friendship with Ally
Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole and advises against letting the freeloader back in the group. A reply suggests that the freeloader can afford good food, just not when she’s with them.
Cutting out a leech and a saboteur ♀️
Some people claim to be broke but prioritize spending on other things.
NTA calls out manipulative and selfish behavior
Cutting off toxic friends is always tough, but necessary. ✂️
Cutting off a freeloader: NTA stands up for themselves
Not the a-hole, time to cut ties with the freeloader
Savage suggestion to deal with a freeloading friend
Don’t be a freeloader! But is calling out publicly okay?
Betrayal trumps freeloading. NTA for cutting off toxic friend.
Standing up to a freeloader and not the a**hole. NTA
Friend mooches off and orders expensive items, NTA for booting.
NTA suggests moving on from spiteful Ally
Standing up to freeloading friends
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Cut off the freeloading, toxic friend. NTA.
Cutting toxic friends out of your life is always tough
Making one-on-one plans is allowed. NTA
NTA. Friend’s lies and mooching behavior are unacceptable
NTA calls out a freeloading ‘friend’ for mooching off others.
Setting boundaries with friends who are freeloading is important.
NTA, friend crossed the line by telling BF about cheating rumors
Setting boundaries with a mooch friend. NTA.
User defends OP and calls out dishonest behavior with
Cutting off a freeloader? NTA sets boundaries
Cut toxic friends out of your life.
Standing up to a freeloader
Don’t mess with the person paying for your food
Cutting off toxic friends: NTA comment section approves
Money issues and tattling ruined a friendship
Not the a**hole for cutting off the freeloader friend.
Ally is a parasite and needs to make amends
Cut the mooch loose ♀️ and don’t look back
Cutting off friends for being a freeloader? NTA, totally relatable
Being a poor friend doesn’t mean being a freeloader
Splitting the bill three ways would have made more sense
Cutting off a friend who uses you for money ♀️
Standing up to a freeloader friend like a boss!
Cutting toxic friends? NTA for standing up for yourself.
Commenter jokes about Parasite movie in lighthearted tone.
Ex-friend tries to destroy relationship over food, NTA
Feeling like a burden for ordering water at dinner
NTA – No a**hole here!
NTA but Felicia needs to learn to pay her way
Is Ally really an entitled leech? #NTA
NTA calls out friend for being a freeloader
Friend takes advantage of generosity, gets booted from dinner plans
Don’t be a freeloader! ♀️ NTA sets boundaries with mooching friend.
Block the mooch NTA, trash took itself out.
Cutting off a toxic friend – NTA and go NC
NTA and a weed ho? This comment section is getting interesting
