We all have that one friend who’s quick to judge others without considering their own actions. In this juicy story, Valerie is that friend. She’s part of a group chat where friends share their personal lives and gossip. But when she decides to call out someone’s mom for being a ‘professional homewrecker’, she gets a reality check from her own past.
Valerie’s Foreign Sports Player Boyfriend

Ed’s Wife and Child Back Home

The ‘On and Off’ Marriage

Ed’s Exit from the Scene

Anna’s Brother-in-Law Drama

Lea’s Mom’s History with Married Men

Valerie’s Harsh Judgment

A Reality Check for Valerie

Valerie’s Private Message

Valerie’s Defense ️

The ‘Humiliation’ Argument

Valerie’s Guilty Conscience?

Valerie’s Hypocrisy Exposed
Valerie’s judgment of Lea’s mom backfires when her own past is brought up. She tries to defend herself, claiming she’s nothing like Lea’s mom because Ed and his wife were on a break when they were together. But if she truly believed she did nothing wrong, why did she feel humiliated? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA defends Lea against hypocritical mom’s slut-shaming, gets support.

Commenter calls out Valerie’s behavior, gets agreement from reply.

NTA comment sparks discussion on popular subreddit sayings

Defending Lea against unfair judgement, calling out hypocrisy.

Calling out a friend’s hypocrisy. NTA
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NTA defends Lea against Valerie’s unfair judgment, sparking speculation

Debate over the morality of sleeping with a married person

OP’s judgmental comment backfires, called out for passive aggression

Defending Lea and calling out hypocrisy

Friend accuses cheating without proof, gets called out for assumptions

Experienced in marriage, calls daughter a ‘hoe’. NTA confirmed

Gossiping with friends is normal , but judging others for affairs is hypocritical
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Commenter calls out both sides for slut shaming

NTA commenter defends Lea’s mom with witty comeback

Commenters discuss potential fake post and similarities to previous story
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ESH, but commenter points out traditionalist assumptions about marriage.

Friend exposes ‘homewrecker’ daughter, commenters agree she’s NTA

Being a true friend means holding up a mirror

Commenter exposes hypocrisy of slut-shaming with NTA judgment
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Daughter’s friend calls out mom’s hypocrisy. NTA wins.

NTA commenter defends Lea and calls out Valerie’s hypocrisy

Commenter defends daughter, warns of groupchat consequences

NTA tells off friend for not understanding Lea’s perspective

Defending the daughter’s innocence and calling out friend’s hypocrisy.

Hypocrisy exposed: NTA comment calls out friend’s double standards

NTA comment receives no replies

NTA commenter commends classiness in response to judgmental friend.

Ross from Friends reference lightens the mood in comment section

NTA commenter calls out friend’s hypocrisy and two-faced behavior

Friend gets roasted for hypocrisy
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NTA calls out hypocrisy of ‘humiliated’ friend’s name-calling

NTA! Agree, calling someone else’s child a slut is wrong

Pot calling the kettle black ♀️. NTA got the last laugh.

Daughter’s hypocritical behavior exposed in fiery comment section

NTA calls out hypocrisy in judgmental mom targeting married men

Commenter calls out shaming behavior, suggests empathy and growth

Defending Lea’s actions, blaming friend’s poor modeling. #NTA

Friend accuses daughter of being a homewrecker, but is a hypocrite
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Friend gets served a taste of her own medicine

Standing up to hypocrites like a boss!

Doubts raised about affair, possibility of open relationship

Commenter did the right thing

NTA! Humiliation is a natural consequence of her actions.

NTA stands up to ‘homewrecker’ friend

Don’t throw stones if you live in a glass house #NTA

Commenter calls out ‘homewrecker’ and defends the friend.

NTA calls out friend group for sleeping with married men
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Daughter defends herself against hypocritical ‘homewrecker’ insult.

Redditors question the authenticity of the story

Commenter calls out Valerie for ‘slut shaming’ and victim blaming.

NTA comment calls out hypocrisy in a spicy way

NTA called out for hypocrisy

NTA calls out Valerie’s hypocrisy in cheating scandal

Calling out hypocrites and blaming children is not okay . NTA.

NTA gets called out for hypocrisy
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Doubtful OP’s ex told her they were on a break

Commenter reminds us of glass houses and rocks, declares NTA

NTA gets validation for calling out ‘homewrecker’ daughter
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NTA comment teaches lesson with glass house metaphor

Not the a**hole, but what’s the story behind this?

Sleeping with someone in a committed relationship is wrong
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Clear NTA verdict with no need for further discussion
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Commenter defends daughter, calls out friend’s hypocrisy ♀️

Short and spicy reply shuts down the haters

NTA commenter points out hypocrisy, gets upvotes and agreement

Daughter not the a**hole, drama ensues ♀️

Hypocrisy called out! NTA for exposing double standards.

NTA calls out friend’s hypocrisy on sleeping with married man

Commenter defends right to judge while acknowledging Valerie’s wrongdoing.

Clear judgement, but where’s the drama?

NTA calls out Valerie’s justifications for affair with sarcasm

Daughter called out for affair, friend points out hypocrisy
