Picture this: You’re out enjoying a New Year’s Eve dinner with your fiancé and his parents at a swanky restaurant. The food is delicious, the drinks are flowing, and the conversation is great. But when the bill arrives, everyone suddenly ‘forgets’ their wallets and all eyes turn to you. What do you do? This is the predicament one woman found herself in, and her decision has sparked quite the online debate.
A Surprise Invitation
A Warm Welcome
Check Please!
The Wallets That Went Missing
The ‘Doctor’ Should Pay?
The Repayment Plan
A Familiar Scenario
Paying for Herself ♀️
Family or Strangers?
The Escalating Argument
The Aftermath ️
Accusations and Apologies
Prayers and Forgiveness
Regrets and Reflections
Fiancé’s Family Forgets Wallets: A Financial Fiasco or a Fair Stand?
After a delightful New Year’s Eve dinner with her fiancé and his parents, our heroine was left in a sticky situation. When the bill arrived, everyone else had conveniently ‘forgotten’ their wallets. Despite the pressure, she stood her ground, insisting on only paying for her portion of the meal. This decision led to a heated argument and accusations of selfishness. Later, she found herself questioning if she had acted correctly. Was she wrong to stand her ground, or was she right to refuse to foot the bill for everyone? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA. Fiancé’s family conveniently ‘forgets’ wallets, expects you to foot bill.
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“Lol. Well you have to admire their nerve. And im praying you let his parents go. Ffs. NTA.”
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NTA. Invited just to pay the bill? Red flag!
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NTA. Refusing to be the family cash cow.
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YTA for posting this fake ass story. YTA for becoming a doctor by 32, (after residency?), and not figure out how to use a period or comma. YTA for letting this happen multiple times, apparently (if true). YTA for not living with your fiancé before marriage when he doesn’t have a job. YTA for accepting a proposal from a man who doesn’t have a job when you have one that will keep you incredibly busy as being a “doctor” does. YTA for apparently being so sheltered you have no problem with any of the aspects of this relationship. YTA for not responding “who the hell doesn’t bring their wallet to a restaurant where we’ll be drinking at it’s the law to check all IDs before serving alcohol?”
I’d be very concerned if you were my doctor considering your people and decision-making skills. Good luck with the wedding you’ll be paying for yourself and the family of f**king weirdos attached to it.
JK there is no wedding or fiancé, but cute write up. Clearly fun for a laugh
“NTA, but you will be if you stay in this relationship. “
“Lovable” people forgetting wallets at dinner? Red flag for marriage!
NTA. Fiancé’s family ‘forgets’ wallets at fancy dinner.
“They invited you to pay? Definitely NTA! ♂️”
Dump him and his freeloading family!
NTA, but beware of fiancé’s family’s manipulative and money-hungry behavior.
NTA, they’re using you to fund their good times.
NTA. Fiancé’s family ‘forgets’ wallets and expects you to pay? SMH
Reconsidering marriage after being treated poorly?
Engaging caption: NTA. In-laws’ wallet ‘forgetfulness’ reveals deeper fiance problem.
Don’t marry him! You’re being scammed by a jobless man.
Troll post 100%. Caught lots of gullible commenters.
Fiancé’s family conveniently ‘forgets’ wallets at fancy dinner
NTA, but is this an arranged marriage? Don’t ruin your life.
NTA. Fiancé’s family ‘forgets’ wallets at fancy dinner. You’re their wallet
NTA’s fiancé’s family wants to spend their hard-earned money
Don’t marry into this family! You stood up for yourself. NTA.
Fiancé’s family ‘forgets’ wallets at fancy dinner. NTA, total setup!
Teaching a lesson to wallet-forgetting family members ♀️
NTA. Standing up for yourself and leaving was the right move.
Doubting the story? They think you’re a liar!
Engaging comment about a jobless fiancé and an awful situation
Don’t marry him! His family sees you as a wallet!
NTA: Fiancé’s family ‘forgets’ wallets on purpose. Stand up for yourself!
Dump the whole family.
“Entitled in-laws expect you to foot the bill for everything”
NTA… Fiancé’s family conveniently ‘forgets’ wallets at fancy dinner
Commenter questions the authenticity of the situation, calling it fake.
Break up with him before they sponge off you forever!
NTA! Cut ties with his leech of a family!
NTA: Cut ties and find someone who respects you.
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NTA! Fiancé’s family ‘forgets’ wallets, expects you to pay
NTA, but are these the kind of people you want?
NTA, beware of a user fiancé and in-laws
NTA – Huge red flag! Consider leaving before marriage.
NTA! Fiancé’s family ‘forgets’ wallets at fancy dinner, using you as ATM. Reconsider marrying into this family.
NTA. Assertive response to a forgetful family at fancy dinner
Don’t marry him! Find someone who pays their own way.
Fiancé’s family uses you as an ATM. Run for it!
Skeptical Redditors question the authenticity of this story.
Fiancé’s family conveniently ‘forgets’ wallets, expects you to foot the bill NTA
NTA: Standing up for yourself and exposing the family’s lies.
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Red flags at fancy dinner? Time for a serious discussion!
Red flags: Fiancé’s family demands expensive dinner payment repeatedly.
NTA, reconsider marrying into a manipulative, leech-like family.
