Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a Thanksgiving tale that’s sure to make your jaw drop! Meet our young couple, madly in love but facing their first holiday hurdle. With a long-distance relationship under their belt, this was supposed to be the fiancée’s grand debut at the family’s Thanksgiving table. ️ But hold on to your turkey legs, because this story is about to take a wild turn! Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions, drama, and a whole lot of stuffing (pun intended)!
Thanksgiving Trouble in Paradise!

Mom’s Invite Comes with a Twist!

Fiancée’s Food Fiasco! ️

Disrespect on the Menu? ♂️

Fiancée’s Dramatic Meltdown!

Hitting the Road Solo! ️

Fiancée’s Guilt Trip Calls!

Awkward Arrival at the Parents’!

️ Plot Twist: It Wasn’t Just a Side Dish!

Thanksgiving Showdown: Fiancée’s Food Fiasco Leads to Dramatic Departure!
Well, well, well! This Thanksgiving story has more twists and turns than a turkey’s tail! Our young lovebirds found themselves in a heated battle over the fiancée’s desire to bring her own entire cooked meal to the family’s Thanksgiving dinner. ️ Talk about a recipe for disaster! The fiancé, determined to defend his mom’s cooking honor, gave his fiancée an ultimatum: come empty-handed or stay home. Cue the waterworks and dramatic phone calls! In the end, our fiancé hit the road solo, leaving his crying fiancée behind. Now, he’s at his parents’ house, feeling bothered and guilty, while his fiancée continues to guilt-trip him from afar. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this Thanksgiving tug-of-war!
Bringing your own dish is fine, but a whole meal?

Fiancée demands to bring own food to Thanksgiving dinner: NTA passes test

Be thankful for the generosity and eat a little.

Concerns raised over the fiancée’s relationship with food.

Bringing an entire meal to a family gathering? Not cool.

Woman questions fiancee’s lack of effort and concern for impressing parents.

Don’t die on this hill. Relationship doomed.

Partner’s unwillingness to compromise raises red flags for future issues.

OP accused of being YTA for not letting girlfriend discuss food with mom

Curious commenter questions the authenticity of the post

Possible food disorder or phobia. ESH for abandoning her.

Fiancée’s absurd reasoning for not eating Thanksgiving dinner backfires. NTA.

Understanding the deeper trauma behind her reaction

Bringing own food as first-time guest: Huge red flag!

User defends fiancée’s food preference, calls out family’s ultimatum. YTA

Choosing one’s own pleasure over others’ feelings is selfish. NTA.

NAH – Conflict stems from cultural differences and lack of communication.

Defending the right to bring own food. YTA, but hear out.
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User disagrees with OP’s actions, suggests better communication with mother.

Man up and share food, don’t ditch your fiancee. YTA

User defends bringing own food, calls out unnecessary drama.

Offer to share, don’t demand to bring your own food

Bringing a side dish is fine, but not a whole meal

Possible underlying trauma or anxiety affecting Thanksgiving dinner situation.

Passionate response defends mother’s cooking and criticizes fiancee’s behavior.
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Curious about fiancee’s past Thanksgivings with family.

No need to be offended, it’s just food preferences ♂️

Don’t bring your own food to someone’s home for Thanksgiving
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Curious comment begs for details about suspicious meal request

User calls out OP for caring too much about girlfriend’s food choices.

NTA for not forcing fiancée to eat mom’s cooking

Partner’s dietary restrictions should be confirmed before demanding own food.

NTA commenter suggests running from demanding fiancée, predicts power play.
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Thanksgiving trauma leads to food preference, INFO requested.
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Bringing own food to Thanksgiving: weird quirk or disrespectful?

First-time guest demands own food, deemed entitled and rude. NTA.

Is this a case of deja vu or copycat posts?

NTA guest wants to bring own Thanksgiving meal, lacks explanation

Fiancée’s food preference causes holiday drama. YTA according to commenter.

Bringing your own food might be weird, but shaming someone for it is worse.

Traditional Thanksgiving meal is classic for a reason. NTA.

Fiancée demands her own food, commenter says YTA for not compromising

OP is definitely the a**hole here. Let your GF eat what she wants!

Thanksgiving dishes can vary by family and region

More food means more fun! But what did she bring?

ESH situation due to poor communication and lack of compromise ♂️
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Setting conditions for Thanksgiving, NTA. She chose to skip.

Thanksgiving traditions or not, respect your host’s meal. #NTA

Supportive partner needed, YTA for not standing up for her

NAH verdict but deeper issue suggested. Opportunity for honest conversation

NTA commenter points out fiancée’s ulterior motive and gaslighting behavior.

Mature response to picky eaters at Thanksgiving

Run for the hills! ♂️ Narcissistic partner alert!
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Curious Redditor wonders about cultural differences in Thanksgiving food choices

Suggesting a compromise: Bring a few dishes to share!

GF’s Thanksgiving ultimatum raises red flags . Consider separate dinners.

POC Thanksgiving tradition allows for bringing own dishes. NAH.

Thanksgiving food hater says YTA, brings own food instead

Compromise is key. Bringing a dish or two could help.

Fiancée’s rude Thanksgiving behavior exposes ugly side of relationship.

User criticized for being controlling, labeled ‘YTA’

Concerning behavior from the fiancee ruins Thanksgiving

User calls out OP for lying and being insensitive.

Fiancée refuses Thanksgiving dinner, gets called out for being controlling.

Could an eating disorder be the reason for her behavior?

User calls out OP for not compromising with fiancée

Curiosity piqued: What was the fiancée trying to bring?
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Thanksgiving is about family, not just the food

Fiancée refuses Thanksgiving dinner, demands to bring her own food

Curious about the fiancee’s past experiences with the family’s cooking

Thanksgiving drama? Grow up and learn to get along! ♂️

Engaging with a comment on food anxiety and disorders.

Judgement leans towards YTA, but communication and compromise needed in relationship

NTA. Good call. Let her host her own flavor-filled dinner!

Don’t apologize for having boundaries and maintain them!

It’s not about the food, but about understanding her struggles

Confusion and miscommunication lead to Thanksgiving dinner disaster

User questions fiancée’s motives for refusing Thanksgiving dinner.

Fiancée demands to bring own food for Thanksgiving dinner? NTA!

Traditional Thanksgiving dinners vary from family to family. NTA!

When hosting, it’s polite to at least try everything.

No harm in bringing her own food, NTA comment suggests.

NTA, but the fiancée is being rude and possibly has an eating disorder ♀️

Thanksgiving invite: eat or decline, don’t bring your own food.
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Picky eater navigates disaster Thanksgiving with BS and wine. NTA
