Imagine being in a relationship where you’re constantly footing the bill for everything, from dinners to apartment fixes, while your partner spends their money on gadgets and gaming stuff. That’s the situation our protagonist finds herself in. She’s tried to talk to her fiancé about it, but he always brings up the new apartment he’s supposedly saving for as an excuse. But when he demanded she pay his hospital bill and threatened her with the apartment title, she finally snapped. Now, he’s calling her selfish and avoiding her entirely.
Equal Pay, Unequal Responsibilities
She Pays for Everything
His Excuse: Saving for a New Apartment
Half His Salary for Himself
Bringing Up the Apartment
Hospital Visit for His Ankle
Demands She Pays the Bill
The Apartment Excuse, Again
Threatens Her with Apartment Title
She Snaps and Leaves
He’s Furious and Calls Her Selfish
Accusations of No Empathy
Selfish and Negative?
She Finally Snaps, Leaves Him at the Hospital
After years of footing the bill for everything in their relationship, our protagonist finally snapped when her fiancé demanded she pay his hospital bill and threatened her with the apartment title. She left him at the hospital, forcing him to pay for himself. Now, he’s furious, calling her selfish and accusing her of having no empathy or sense of responsibility. He insists he’s doing her a huge favor by buying an apartment for them, but she can’t shake the feeling that he’s just using her money. Is she really being selfish, or is it time for her fiancé to step up and take responsibility? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Don’t be used! Stop footing his hospital bill and leave him.
Don’t marry this user. You’re worth more
NTA. Set boundaries and demand financial responsibility from your fiancé.
Financial abuse? It’s time to reconsider your future plans.
Partner prioritizes saving over relationship, uses OP as ATM
Listen to the red flags and run
Joint savings for future apartment better than paying his bills.
Fiancé demands payment, but commenter advises to break up.
When love fades, facing the answer is the hardest part.
Partner is using her for money, NTA for kicking him out
Red flag alert! NTA. Think about what he brings to the relationship.
Don’t let him hold you hostage. NTA.
Partner refuses to pay his own hospital bill, blames and avoids her. ♀️
Fiancé demands money for hospital bill, but is he entitled?
Think twice before marrying a man-child with expensive hobbies
Sage advice on sharing expenses and rethinking the relationship. NTA
Dump him! He’s not partner material and probably won’t commit
Doubts about fiancé’s savings for apartment. NTA, don’t be fooled.
Fiancé threatens to exploit her financially, comment suggests he needs to pay or leave.
Fiancé accused of mooching and dumping, commenter advises joint account
Fiancé demands payment for hospital bill, threatens apartment title. NTA.
Don’t let him hold you hostage, NTA
Finances split till marriage, ditch him.
Dump him now! You’ve spent enough on this pathetic man.
Leave him before he uses you further. NTA.
Dump his a** fast, he’s using you for money
Partner uses her as an ATM, threatens her with apartment
NTA commenter claps back at fiancé’s partner material comment
Fiancé demands payment for hospital bill, threatens apartment title. NTA.
Stand up for yourself! You’re NTA for refusing to pay
Don’t let him hold the apartment over your head
Protect yourself and your future. This is a hill worth dying on
Financial abuse in a relationship, time for soul searching.
Don’t be his personal ATM, walk away.
Partner may be using apartment title to manipulate. NTA.
Partner exploiting her financially, she did the right thing
Fiancé demands payment, threatens with apartment title. Commenter calls gaslighting.
Leave him ASAP. Don’t let him ruin your finances
Get out or demand equality. He might be pulling a fast one. NTA
Get out before you’re stuck raising his kids and buying diapers
Demand proof of savings before paying his hospital bill
Dump him! He’s using you for money and won’t commit.
Drop the boyfriend like a bad habit
Partner’s financial behavior raises red flags, NTA for refusing payment.
Don’t let him hold you hostage with his medical bill
Find someone without a stick up their b*m
Red flags all over the place . Leave him now.
Demanding fiancé with financial issues? NTA, run for the hills
Don’t marry him. He’s gaslighting and manipulating you
Don’t be a doormat, find a partner who treats you right.
Have a serious talk about shared financial goals
Don’t join finances with someone disrespectful.
Take control of your finances and believe his actions.
Don’t let him take advantage of you. You’re NTA
Suggests a fair solution and calls out partner’s dishonesty.
Red flag! Using the apartment to manipulate her into paying bills
Financial abuse alert! Don’t marry him, get out now.
Stop letting him use you. Finances should be separate. NTA.
Don’t fall for his bs, save up for your future
Dump him, he’s using you as a doormat
Get out now! ♀️ This guy is scamming you.
Three-year engagement and financial threats? NTA, time to leave
Are you willing to put up with financial exploitation?
Don’t marry him! Stand up for yourself and your finances.
Get out now. He’s using you and will leave you broke.
Partner’s behavior is a red flag for financial abuse
Don’t let him use an apartment as an excuse NTA
Cut your losses and run. NTA ♀️
Last Updated on February 14, 2024 by Diply Social Team