Imagine being in a relationship where you’re constantly footing the bill for everything, from dinners to apartment fixes, while your partner spends their money on gadgets and gaming stuff. That’s the situation our protagonist finds herself in. She’s tried to talk to her fiancé about it, but he always brings up the new apartment he’s supposedly saving for as an excuse. But when he demanded she pay his hospital bill and threatened her with the apartment title, she finally snapped. Now, he’s calling her selfish and avoiding her entirely.
Equal Pay, Unequal Responsibilities

She Pays for Everything

His Excuse: Saving for a New Apartment

Half His Salary for Himself

Bringing Up the Apartment

Hospital Visit for His Ankle

Demands She Pays the Bill

The Apartment Excuse, Again

Threatens Her with Apartment Title

She Snaps and Leaves

He’s Furious and Calls Her Selfish

Accusations of No Empathy

Selfish and Negative?

She Finally Snaps, Leaves Him at the Hospital
After years of footing the bill for everything in their relationship, our protagonist finally snapped when her fiancé demanded she pay his hospital bill and threatened her with the apartment title. She left him at the hospital, forcing him to pay for himself. Now, he’s furious, calling her selfish and accusing her of having no empathy or sense of responsibility. He insists he’s doing her a huge favor by buying an apartment for them, but she can’t shake the feeling that he’s just using her money. Is she really being selfish, or is it time for her fiancé to step up and take responsibility? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Don’t be used! Stop footing his hospital bill and leave him.

Don’t marry this user. You’re worth more

NTA. Set boundaries and demand financial responsibility from your fiancé.

Financial abuse? It’s time to reconsider your future plans.

Partner prioritizes saving over relationship, uses OP as ATM

Listen to the red flags and run

Joint savings for future apartment better than paying his bills.

Fiancé demands payment, but commenter advises to break up.

When love fades, facing the answer is the hardest part.

Partner is using her for money, NTA for kicking him out

Red flag alert! NTA. Think about what he brings to the relationship.

Don’t let him hold you hostage. NTA.

Partner refuses to pay his own hospital bill, blames and avoids her. ♀️

Fiancé demands money for hospital bill, but is he entitled?

Think twice before marrying a man-child with expensive hobbies

Sage advice on sharing expenses and rethinking the relationship. NTA

Dump him! He’s not partner material and probably won’t commit

Doubts about fiancé’s savings for apartment. NTA, don’t be fooled.

Fiancé threatens to exploit her financially, comment suggests he needs to pay or leave.

Fiancé accused of mooching and dumping, commenter advises joint account

Fiancé demands payment for hospital bill, threatens apartment title. NTA.

Don’t let him hold you hostage, NTA

Finances split till marriage, ditch him.

Dump him now! You’ve spent enough on this pathetic man.

Leave him before he uses you further. NTA.

Dump his a** fast, he’s using you for money

Partner uses her as an ATM, threatens her with apartment

NTA commenter claps back at fiancé’s partner material comment

Fiancé demands payment for hospital bill, threatens apartment title. NTA.

Stand up for yourself! You’re NTA for refusing to pay

Don’t let him hold the apartment over your head

Protect yourself and your future. This is a hill worth dying on

Financial abuse in a relationship, time for soul searching.

Don’t be his personal ATM, walk away.

Partner may be using apartment title to manipulate. NTA.

Partner exploiting her financially, she did the right thing

Fiancé demands payment, threatens with apartment title. Commenter calls gaslighting.
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Leave him ASAP. Don’t let him ruin your finances

Get out or demand equality. He might be pulling a fast one. NTA

Get out before you’re stuck raising his kids and buying diapers

Demand proof of savings before paying his hospital bill

Dump him! He’s using you for money and won’t commit.

Drop the boyfriend like a bad habit

Partner’s financial behavior raises red flags, NTA for refusing payment.

Don’t let him hold you hostage with his medical bill

Find someone without a stick up their bum

Red flags all over the place . Leave him now.

Demanding fiancé with financial issues? NTA, run for the hills

Don’t marry him. He’s gaslighting and manipulating you

Don’t be a doormat, find a partner who treats you right.

Have a serious talk about shared financial goals

Don’t join finances with someone disrespectful.

Take control of your finances and believe his actions.
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Don’t let him take advantage of you. You’re NTA

Suggests a fair solution and calls out partner’s dishonesty.

Red flag! Using the apartment to manipulate her into paying bills

Financial abuse alert! Don’t marry him, get out now.

Stop letting him use you. Finances should be separate. NTA.
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Don’t fall for his bs, save up for your future

Dump him, he’s using you as a doormat

Get out now! ♀️ This guy is scamming you.

Three-year engagement and financial threats? NTA, time to leave

Are you willing to put up with financial exploitation?

Don’t marry him! Stand up for yourself and your finances.

Get out now. He’s using you and will leave you broke.

Partner’s behavior is a red flag for financial abuse

Don’t let him use an apartment as an excuse NTA

Cut your losses and run. NTA ♀️
