Picture this: a 55-year-old man, married to his current wife for 10 years, and a son from his previous marriage. Sounds like a typical blended family, right? Well, throw in an ex-wife who’s jealous and manipulative, a son who’s caught in the middle, and a new wife who’s been nothing but supportive and loving. Now, let’s add a dash of holiday drama to the mix. The son and his new bride want to host a Christmas dinner at the father’s house, but there’s one tiny problem – they didn’t invite the new wife to their wedding! So, the dad puts his foot down and refuses to host the dinner. Is he in the right, or is he being too harsh? Let’s dive into this family drama and see what unfolds!
The Blended Family Drama
The New Wife’s Sacrifices ❤️
Son’s Teenage Years ️
Ex-Wife’s Jealousy
The Wedding Snub
Wife’s Generosity
Wife’s Understanding
Ex-Wife’s Christmas Proposal
Son’s Request ️
Setting Boundaries
Alternative Plans
Gift Exchange
Reminding Him of the Past ️
Ex-Wife’s Harassment
Calling Out the Ex
Wife’s Support
No Wedding Invite, No Christmas Dinner! ️
Our protagonist, a 55-year-old man, is stuck in the middle of a family feud. His son, who didn’t invite his stepmom to his wedding, now wants to host a Christmas dinner at their house. But dad isn’t having it! He refuses to host the dinner, stating that his wife won’t be disrespected in her own home. The son, feeling excluded, calls his dad some not-so-nice names, and the ex-wife even harasses the new wife over the phone. Despite all the drama, the new wife remains supportive and appreciates her husband standing up for her. But she also hopes for a mended relationship between father and son. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Setting boundaries and an acceptable olive branch
NTA. Block your ex, stick by your wife, and hold son accountable.
A commenter raises concerns about the manipulative behavior of the father.
Son learns actions have consequences after father defends wife.
Trust your gut and invite son to dinner. Set boundaries
NTA dad refuses to tolerate son’s disrespectful wedding invite
Father defends wife against entitled son’s disrespectful wedding invite
Son needs to grow up and stop being a p**n
Age-gap controversy sparks in comment section.
A comment questioning the age difference in the marriage and accusing the poster of hiding something.
Protect your loved ones ❤️. NTA for standing up.
Show son how mentally healthy person treats family. Extend olive branch. NTA.
User questions father’s behavior and predicts possible cut-off.
A harsh YTA comment with no replies.
Father defends wife against disrespectful son’s infidelity-appeasing behavior. #NTA
Suggest inviting son and DIL to Christmas dinner
Engaging in fake stories? YTA for manipulating, ESH for behavior.
Hosting family dinner at restaurant, NTA takes a stand
Supportive comment calling out ex’s behavior and supporting current wife.
Controlling husband is TAH for not allowing wife to host Christmas
NTA. Stand up for your wife and set boundaries
Son excludes stepmom from wedding, but wants his bride invited? NTA
NTA. It’s ridiculous that they expect you to host Christmas but not attend wedding. Your wife is an angel and you stood up for her!
Doubtful commenter questions validity of marriage timeline
Age difference brings up valid points, but NTA for wedding decision
When disrespect goes around, comes around.
Uninvited son’s wife from Christmas, wife wants to make peace ❤️
Protective dad sets boundaries and shuts down ex’s inappropriate behavior
Missed opportunity for healing and unity after wedding invite drama
Father stands up for wife after son’s disrespectful invite
A supportive comment encouraging father to stand for his wife ❤
Father defends wife, suggests revealing truth about son’s mother’s infidelity.
Controversial age gap sparks YTA accusation, no replies.
Father gets called out for blaming son for ex-wife’s behavior
Loyalty and respect in marriage – a rare find.
User calls out original commenter for being TA and advises forgiveness.
Support for wife’s kindness in a difficult situation ❤️
Father should tell son the truth about divorce in writing
Father accused of favoring wife over son in wedding invite
Wife excluded from son’s wedding invite, father stands up. NTA.
Father defends wife against manipulative ex-wife and son. NTA
Standing up for his wife and setting boundaries.
Father defends wife, son needs to apologize.
Consulting with your spouse is key. YTA comment receives backlash.
When everyone s***s, maybe it’s time for a break.
Setting boundaries for son’s exclusion of stepmom, seeking reconciliation.
Attended son’s wedding without wife, sent wrong message
Understanding the son’s perspective on the age gap
Son upset over father’s 25yr-old bride. OP called ‘predator’.
Being NTA doesn’t mean you should engage in pettiness
Father stands up for wife against entitled son’s disrespectful behavior
NTA. Have a peaceful family conversation with a mediator. ✌
NTA. Suggests going to a restaurant together to rebuild bridges
Accusation of fake post receives YTA judgment
Son’s disrespectful wedding invite sparks family conflict
A comment reminding OP to value their rare spouse
Standing up for his wife against disrespectful son
Son disrespects dad’s wife over wedding invite: NTA stands up
Protecting his new marriage, he stood up to disrespectful family.
Protecting the truly good from backstabbers
Defending wife from ex and son’s abuse. NTA
A fiery response to a disrespectful son’s entitled attitude
Age gap causes family tension
Deciding to cut ties? The ball’s in your court.
NTA. Wife’s an angel, son’s bs is unbearable
Supportive comment encourages standing up for family ❤️
NTA stands up for his wife against son’s disrespectful behavior
A comment calls out YTA’s childish behavior
A comment urging the father to listen to his wife and give his son some slack at a chaotic wedding.
Boundaries with adult children: tough but necessary
Father’s wife is almost same age as son. ESH.
Father’s defense of wife causes family conflict at son’s wedding
Setting boundaries with ex in co-parenting relationships
Suggests mending relationship with son over holiday dinner.
Backing up wife against disrespectful wedding invite: NTA wins
Man stands up for wife after son’s disrespectful behavior at wedding
Son disrespects father’s wife, gets called out and gift returned
Last Updated on March 4, 2024 by Diply Social Team