A father is in a tough predicament after using his daughter’s tuition money to remodel his kitchen. His daughter, who dropped out of college, is now planning to return and is asking for financial assistance. The father insists that he had warned her about using the money for anything other than tuition and feels that he has given her good alternatives. However, his daughter is angry and ignoring her mother’s calls. As they near retirement age and have financial goals to meet, the father is hesitant to dip into their savings to pay for his daughter’s education. Do you think the father is the a**hole in this situation? Read on to find out more.
Daughter drops out of college, moves in with boyfriend.

Father takes daughter’s tuition money to remodel the kitchen

Daughter’s college fund gone, now she’s back in college…

Father spends daughter’s tuition money on house expenses

Daughter wants dad to pay for college, he suggests community college.

Daughter’s bad choices, father’s tough love – retirement savings at risk

Father spends daughter’s tuition money. Strained relationship with daughter.

Dad spends daughter’s tuition money on kitchen renovation
A father spent his daughter’s college tuition money on a kitchen renovation, leaving her with no financial support for her education. The daughter had taken a gap year but decided to go back to college, only to find out that her tuition money was gone. The father had explicitly told his daughter that the money was only for tuition and nothing else, and that if she left, he would use it for something else. The daughter is now angry and ignoring her mother’s phone calls. The father has offered some alternatives, but the daughter is still left with a significant financial burden. In this section, we will discuss the different reactions and opinions on whether the father is the a-hole or not.
NTA father spends daughter’s tuition money after she drops out.

Daughter spends tuition money on a boyfriend, parents renovate kitchen. YTA?

Parents spend daughter’s college fund on kitchen remodel. YTA, lacking compassion.

Home renovation dilemma: retirement goals vs. kitchen remodel

Daughter’s future or father’s decision? Commenters call out YTA.

Father spends daughter’s tuition money on kitchen, daughter called ungrateful.

Father spends daughter’s tuition money. Suggestions for alternatives.

Father spends daughter’s tuition money on kitchen remodel. Commenters argue over cost.

Father spends daughter’s tuition on kitchen remodel, YTA according to commenters.

Father spends daughter’s tuition money on kitchen, YTA according to comments.

Father spent daughter’s tuition money, called out for being the a**hole

Commenter accuses father of being vindictive, deems him YTA

Father spends daughter’s tuition money but warned her. NTA.

Father spent daughter’s tuition money. Commenters discuss college expectations and changing majors.

Father spends daughter’s tuition money on kitchen remodel ♂️ YTA

Father spends daughter’s tuition money. Commenters call him out as the a**hole.

Father spends daughter’s college fund on kitchen remodel out of spite

Parent’s hasty spending of child’s tuition money sparks debate.

Commenter questions father’s priorities in spending tuition money.

Father spends daughter’s tuition money. Family drama ensues ♂️
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Father’s impatience costs daughter’s education funds. YTA.

Redditor shares gratitude for family’s support, deems father YTA.

Father spends daughter’s tuition on kitchen; commenters react.

Parent spends daughter’s tuition money on kitchen renovation

Father spends daughter’s tuition money, commenter calls him YTA.

Father spent daughter’s tuition money. Commenter thinks YTA.
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Father used daughter’s tuition money for kitchen remodel. YTA.

Curious about the father’s hasty decision with tuition money?

Cultural differences spark debate on father’s actions.

Father spends daughter’s tuition money on kitchen remodel. YTA.

Debating whether a father is NTA for spending daughter’s tuition

Father spends daughter’s tuition on kitchen remodel. YTA confirmed.
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Father stands by his decision to spend daughter’s tuition money

Father breaks promise to daughter, spends tuition fund. YTA

Sibling rivalry intensifies as brother gets full ride scholarship

Father prioritizes kitchen over daughter’s education. YTA confirmed

Father spends daughter’s tuition money on kitchen renovation – commenters call him out for being the a**hole

Commenter thinks daughter is responsible for her own tuition fees
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Clear communication saves father from being the a**hole

Clear communication saves father from a**hole status.

Father spends daughter’s tuition money. YTA gets schooled.

Father spends daughter’s tuition money, both suck, relationship damaged. ❌

Father not the a**hole for spending daughter’s tuition savings

Lesson learned: Actions have consequences. Parents, call it a savings account .

User calls out father for spending daughter’s tuition money

Father spends daughter’s tuition money on kitchen remodel. Commenter thinks YTA.

Parental disappointment leads to tuition money punishment. YTA verdict.

Commenter calls out OP for leaving out important information

Father spends daughter’s tuition money. Enjoy your new oven ♂️

Short and to the point.
