Weddings can be stressful, especially when it comes to blending families. In a post from r/AmItheAsshole, a father is asking if he was in the wrong for calling his daughter a selfish B-word. The reason? He wanted her to have a moment of silence for her stepsister who passed away earlier this year, before the wedding toast. The daughter initially agreed but later informed her father that there was no time for it. This led to an argument where the father demanded it be done for his wife’s sake, who lost her daughter to illness. The argument ended with the father calling his daughter a selfish B-word. Was he out of line or was the daughter being uncooperative? Click the link to read more and give your opinion.
Father paying for wedding calls daughter selfish in disagreement

A widow’s daughter’s death and aftermath with stepfather

Daughter refuses moment of silence for stepsister at wedding

Bride’s father criticizes her behavior during wedding planning.

Father demands daughter to consider wife’s pain for wedding expenses

Father and daughter clash over wedding, resulting in hurtful insult.

Father calls daughter selfish for refusing to honor step-sister
A father is in a disagreement with his daughter over his request to honor her stepsister, who passed away earlier this year. The father and his wife are paying for their daughter’s wedding, and the father asked for a moment of silence to be held before the toast. The daughter initially agreed but later refused, saying that the day was already too full. The father reminded her that his wife had lost her daughter and asked her to think of her pain. The daughter refused, and the father called her a selfish B-word. Who’s in the right here? Read on to find out what others think.
YTA for calling your daughter a selfish b**** over disagreement
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Bride’s special day overshadowed by step-sister’s somber reminder. YTA.

Don’t ruin your daughter’s special day with your wife’s pain. YTA ♀️

Calling your child names stick with them for life ♀️

Father prioritizes wife and stepchild over daughter on her wedding day. YTA for calling her a B-word and trying to control her with money. Back off and avoid losing your daughter forever.

Father insults daughter during wedding planning. YTA.

Father’s controlling behavior at daughter’s wedding draws criticism YTA
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Debate over how recent is too recent for sympathy at weddings

Wedding drama! Commenters agree father is TA for name-calling.

Father insults daughter for not including memorial at wedding. YTA

Let her have her day, YTA. Controlling with money is awful

Father tries to make daughter’s wedding about stepdaughter’s death. YTA.

Calling your daughter a b-word? YTA and it’s not even close ♂️

Father insults stranger over daughter’s wedding. Total a**hole move.

Commenter calls out father for insensitivity towards step-daughter’s memory.

Wedding drama: Father berates daughter for disagreement. YTA confirmed.

Consider your daughter’s feelings and stop name-calling. YTA

Daughter’s wedding request denied due to deceased stepmom – ESH.

Respecting daughter’s decision on wedding day. Soft YTA.

Compassionate response to father’s inappropriate wedding behavior

Commenter slams father’s behavior, calls out selfishness with a YTA.

Father calls daughter a ‘selfish b-word’ and gets called out (YTA).

Weddings and funerals don’t mix. YTA ♀️

Parenting gone wrong: when insults replace love and support.

Father insults daughter over wedding, but is there a compromise?

Commenter sympathizes with loss but calls out groom’s stepfather for wanting an unusual tribute. YTA.

Father refuses to let daughter be happy on her wedding day

Father’s inappropriate behavior causes wedding drama. YTA.

Father demands moment of silence for estranged stepdaughter, calls daughter a B-word. Commenter calls out his behavior as AH.

Weddings should be about the couple, not about your ego
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Wedding entitlement: YTA name-calls daughter for sharing memories ♂️

Daughter should decide, wife’s motives questionable. Not the place.

Inappropriate wedding request leads to father-daughter fallout

Father criticized for selfishly prioritizing wife’s deceased daughter.

Weddings are emotional, but calling your daughter a B-word isn’t okay

Daughter and father both at fault, suggestions for compromise

Wedding drama escalates with father’s inappropriate request for silence.

Weddings are for celebration, not mourning. YTA for insisting.

Commenter calls out father for calling daughter a b**ch.

Commenter deems father the a**hole for wedding behavior.

Wedding suggestion sparks peaceful reply to harsh YTA comment

Navigating grief is tough, but it’s unfair to expect others to stop their lives. Let your daughter have her happy day ❤️

Let the bride have her special day without bringing up death

Father called daughter a B-word, but she’s not wrong for denying request

Daughter’s wedding is her day, not about your loss. YTA
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Wedding silence for deceased not appropriate, YTA

Grief shouldn’t overshadow daughter’s wedding day. YTA with sympathy

Father calls daughter a selfish B-word over wedding disagreement. YTA.
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Father ruins daughter’s wedding over money and insults her. YTA

Curious about family dynamics? This comment asks the right question

Commenter sympathizes with father but disagrees with his request.

Father’s wife’s performative grief at daughter’s wedding deemed selfish YTA

Wedding day isn’t the time for a public memorial service

Suggesting separate service for stepdaughter causes debate

Wedding traditions vary by family but respect your daughter’s decision

Commenter calls out father’s behavior at daughter’s wedding
