Picture this: You’re a teenager, and your family has a quirky tradition that your older sister just can’t let go of. Every year, since you were a toddler, you’ve been dragged to see a giant gingerbread house in San Francisco. But as the years go by, the tradition becomes less magical and more tedious. Now, your family had plans to visit your favorite restaurant that recently reopened, but your sister insists on seeing the gingerbread house instead. ️ What would you do? Would you put your foot down and refuse to go, or just go along with it for the sake of family harmony?
Childhood Gingerbread House Obsession

Boredom Strikes

Tantrum Time

13 Years Later…

️ Family’s Favorite Restaurant

️ Scheduling Conflict

Reservations Canceled

Pissed Off

Family Feud

Family Night Hijacked by Gingerbread House
Our protagonist, a 17-year-old girl, has been dragged to a giant gingerbread house in San Francisco every year since she was a toddler, thanks to her older sister’s obsession with this ‘tradition.’ This year, the family had plans to visit their favorite restaurant that recently reopened, but the sister insists on seeing the gingerbread house instead. ️ Our protagonist is fed up with the yearly ritual and decides to put her foot down, refusing to go to the gingerbread house. This sparks a family feud, with the sister getting mad and the mom upset because they were supposed to spend time together as a family. So, what does the internet think about this situation? Let’s dive into the top responses and find out!
Sibling tantrums shouldn’t dictate family traditions.

Stand up for yourself and compromise. NTA

Skip the gingerbread house, check out cool ones in SF!

Skipping family event okay when no one else enjoys it

Sibling rivalry over gingerbread tradition calls for parental intervention.

Breaking with tradition: NTA and advice on new traditions

Standing up for oneself and setting boundaries.

Breaking tradition: A refreshing take or recipe for disaster?

Prioritizing individual interests over forced family traditions. NTA

Compromise is key. NTA for standing your ground on plans

Take control of your holiday plans and ditch the unwanted tradition
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Sibling’s lack of consideration ruins family tradition. NTA.

Reward yourself for putting up with family traditions. NTA

Don’t let one family member dictate all traditions! ♀️

When parents give in to tantrums, everyone loses

Choosing happiness for all: NTA OP

NTA, but consider compromising for sentimental family traditions

Gingerbread tradition tears family apart, but NTA stands ground

NTA skips annual gingerbread tradition, calls entitled sister out.

Stand your ground! Not the a**hole here.

Sibling rivalry causes gingerbread tradition to crumble. NTA stands firm.

Sibling conflict de-escalated with a wholesome NAH comment

Curiosity sparked by gingerbread house fiasco, but now boycotting restaurant

Family tradition leads to family feud, but OP not at fault

A pointed question about family values and holiday traditions

Autism spectrum trait or not, NTA for breaking tradition

Sibling rivalry ruins family gingerbread tradition. NTA.

Setting boundaries: NTA’s opinion on family traditions

Time to break tradition? NTA stands up against entitled sister

Sibling tantrum over gingerbread house – NTA wins

Establishing boundaries requires sacrifice. NTA for standing up.

Sibling rivalry gone wrong. NTA wins the night!

Why stick to one tradition? Not the A-hole.

Foodies unite! Commenter seeks Bay Area restaurant recommendation

Send a gingerbread house for Christmas and wish her well

Take a stand and express your feelings to your parents

Breaking tradition: NTA chooses restaurant over 13-year gingerbread house.

Dislike for gingerbread houses causes family tension

Breaking traditions that only benefit one person – NTA

Sibling entitlement causing chaos in gingerbread tradition

Sister’s excessive nostalgia kick tears family apart at Christmas

Stick to the plan, parents. NTA for wanting fairness.

Family activities should be inclusive and enjoyable for all
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Buy her a brown dollhouse for Christmas NTA wins!

Toxic sister ruins gingerbread tradition. Stand up for yourselves

Redditor jokes about burning down gingerbread house in revenge.

Family tradition torn apart by mom’s decision. NTA.

Sibling favoritism and bribery allegations spark NTA judgement.

Sibling rivalry and favoritism accusations. NTA.
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NTA comment explains importance of family time and compromise.

Being an adult means making your own decisions. NTA

Canceled plans lead to family drama, stand your ground

NTA. Sister’s tantrum over same gingerbread tradition every year.

Sibling rivalry and tantrums. Is there a sane solution?

NTA: Sister needs to grow up, even at 17

Teen’s gingerbread tantrum causes family feud, but who’s to blame?

NTA calls out blatant favoritism in sister-centric family tradition

Teen stands up to mom’s gingerbread tradition, internet supports choice.

One-and-done gingerbread house viewer calls tradition ‘ridiculous’

Breaking traditions for the sake of one person is stupid

Standing up to entitled behavior during family traditions

Grandma saves family tradition from sister’s tantrum. NTA.
