A family went out to celebrate their son’s graduation at a hibachi restaurant. However, a conflict arose over allergy restrictions when another family joined their table. The father of the other family requested that his daughter’s food be made without butter due to her dairy allergy, but the first family wanted butter with their food. The restaurant refused to make separate dishes and the first family decided to leave. The wife of the first family thinks that her husband was being inconsiderate towards the other family, but the husband thinks that the restaurant should have made separate dishes for the girl. What do you think? Was the father being unreasonable or was the restaurant not accommodating enough? Click the link to read more and share your thoughts.
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Allergy restrictions spark conflict at local hibachi restaurant
A family outing to celebrate their son’s graduation turned sour when a conflict arose over a dairy allergy restriction at a local hibachi restaurant. The family was joined by another family who informed the waitress of their daughter’s dairy allergy and requested that her food be made without butter. The waitress informed everyone at the table that all food would be made without butter to avoid any risk of contamination. However, the father of the other family insisted that his daughter’s allergy was not that serious and that as long as her serving had no dairy, it should be fine. A back-and-forth ensued between the two families and the waitress, ultimately resulting in the first family leaving the restaurant. While some may argue that the family was inconsiderate of the girl’s needs, others may argue that the restaurant could have found alternative ways to accommodate her while still allowing the other customers to enjoy their meal. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments below.
NTA. The restaurant could have accommodated both families’ needs

Supportive comments towards OP for leaving the restaurant due to allergy restrictions

Food allergies are serious, but restaurants can accommodate without inconvenience.

Kitchen error blamed on waitress in allergy conflict

Customer’s allergy request handled poorly by restaurant staff

Son’s butter preference leads to restaurant exit, INFO requested.

OP’s butter obsession causes conflict and ruins family celebration.

Respecting allergies at a hibachi can be tricky. Restaurant’s laziness caused conflict
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Fair allergy request, waitress could have clarified. Wife overreacted.

Debate over accommodating allergies sparks heated exchange.

Delicious sauce vs allergy restrictions – who’s the a**hole here?

Family leaves restaurant over allergy restrictions, not the a**hole

Leaving a restaurant due to lack of butter allergy restrictions?

NTA for requesting allergy restrictions, wife embarrassed but son happy

Restaurant protocol for allergy restrictions explained. NAH for conflict.

Debate over allergy restrictions in restaurants sparks heated discussion ️

Commenter accuses parent of being selfish at graduation dinner

Commenter accuses parent of overreacting to allergy restrictions.

Curious commenter asks about butter usage in hibachi dishes

Respect others’ allergies, but don’t let it ruin your meal

Dad defends allergy restrictions, Tombstone reference adds humor

Father’s compromise makes NTA decision clear

NTA, but taste buds don’t lie
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Food allergies shouldn’t ruin everyone’s dining experience
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Allergy restrictions lead to conflict at restaurant, commenter says NTA

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Commenter minimizes allergy concerns with insensitive response

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Did they consider their son’s perspective?

Considerate restaurants accommodate allergies, NTA comment agrees

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Clarifying blame in restaurant allergy incident

Food restrictions respected, family leaves restaurant happily ️

Debate over allergy restrictions causes conflict at restaurant

Stand up for your dining experience

Poor customer service in handling food allergies
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Commenter supports person’s actions in restaurant conflict

Former chef explains allergy meal prep and kitchen logistics.

Standing up for yourself and your health. NTA wins!

Did the family do the right thing?

Hibachi restaurants should accommodate allergies without punishing everyone else

Waitress should accommodate all patrons. NTA for leaving restaurant.

Restaurant’s allergy restrictions cause family to leave. NTA comment agrees.

No drama here, commenter is not the a**hole

Restaurant fails to accommodate allergy. Cooking separately is better.

Hibachi restaurant in the wrong? NTA wins this allergy battle

Should restaurants prioritize one customer’s allergy over others’ orders?

Not the a**hole for standing up for dietary restrictions ️
