Breakups are never easy, but imagine being stuck living with your ex-fiancé who refuses to pay rent and move out! That’s the situation our protagonist finds himself in. After his ex called off their engagement six months ago, they agreed to live together as roommates and split the expenses. However, she hasn’t paid rent for three months now, and he’s had enough. He finally gave her a move-out date, but she’s not happy about it. Is he really in the wrong here? Let’s dive into the story!
The Breakup and Roommate Agreement
Rent Troubles Begin
The Move-Out Date is Set ⏰
Am I Really the A**hole?
A Little Background Info
The Original Agreement
Money Comes In, Rent Stops
Three Months of No Rent
Party Life and Babysitting
Healing and Moving On ➡️❤️
A Glimmer of Hope? ✨
Gratitude and Overwhelmed
A Tale of Broken Hearts, Broken Agreements, and Rent Drama
Our protagonist is stuck in a tough spot, living with his ex-fiancé who refuses to pay rent and move out. They have a 5-year-old daughter together, and he’s been covering all the expenses for three months now. He finally gave her a move-out date, but she’s not happy about it. Is he really the bad guy here? Or is he just trying to heal and move on from a difficult situation? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this predicament…
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Ex-fiancé refusing to pay rent. Commenter says NTA, she’s a leech
Ex-fiancé refuses to pay rent. NTA for asking her to move out.
Ex-fiancé refuses to pay rent and move out. NTA explains why.
Curious about her side, but commenter sympathizes with OP.
Stand your ground and kick her out! NTA
Ex-fiancé should give her a move-out date. NTA
Legally evict her and take her to court for unpaid rent
Ex-fiancé not wrong for asking rent after 3 months rent-free
NTA for not supporting ex-fiancé. Get a lawyer for custody.
NTA for kicking out ex, but consider daughter’s wellbeing too
Ex-fiancé’s deadline for rent payment sparks name-calling in comments. NTA.
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Ex-fiancé gives deadline for ex to move out. NTA.
Father deserves respect, not just as a babysitter. #NTA
Setting a move-out date is right. Not babysitting own child
NTA ex-fiancé seeks advice after ex refuses to pay rent
Ex-fiancé’s deadline to move out after breakup. NTA, no obligation.
Ex-fiancé refuses to pay rent and move out. NTA, she broke agreement.
Get 50/50 agreement in writing, kick her out. NTA.
Child support complicates ex-fiancé’s refusal to pay rent
Sensible advice for a tough situation.
Don’t fund her party lifestyle. NTA for giving deadline
Ending an engagement with a child involved, NTA for moving on.
Ex-fiancé should have moved out long ago. NTA.
Consider the impact on your child before kicking out ex-fiancé
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Heartbreaking custody battle hinted in NTA comment.
NTA refuses to pay rent and move out. Push for custody
NTA. Prepare to evict her. If she can’t pay, she can’t stay
Taking care of the child doesn’t make him the a**hole
Parenting concerns raised due to ex-fiancé’s poor financial decisions
Parenting responsibility and moving out suggestions for ex-fiancé.
User suggests seeking full custody due to unstable home environment.
Father seeks advice on custody and rent from bitter ex-fiancé.
Consult a lawyer for eviction and custody options. Protect your daughter.
Ex-fiancé’s tenant refuses to pay rent. NTA for giving deadline
Refusing to renew lease might be the easiest solution
Father not a babysitter, giving move out date is fair.
Ex-fiancé called NTA for asking freeloading ex to move out
NTA. Recovering rent from ex is hard. Legaladvice might help.
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Ex-fiancé won’t pay rent and move out. NTA for giving deadline.
NTA. You deserve to heal and get closure.
NTA commenter advises seeking legal advice and evidence collection.
NTA, kick her out and move on with your life
Co-parenting is important. Consider her circumstances before eviction.
NTA. Ex-fiancé leeching off you, bad example for daughter. Move on
Exes living together? NTA says commenter, and we agree!
NTA advises to legally evict and get full custody.
Father seeks custody of daughter due to ex-fiancé’s party lifestyle
Suggests moving out to avoid troubles, but lease is binding.
NTA suggests finding a new place to live.
Ex-fiancé won’t pay rent, commenter says she can’t have it both ways
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Get a lawyer, secure important documents, and take time for yourself.
Ex-fiancé not TA for wanting ex to move out, but TA for calling taking care of their daughter babysitting. Phrasing could have been better.
Protecting your daughter’s safety should be the top priority
Legal action may be necessary to evict ex-fiancée ⚖️
Ex-fiancé not obligated to let ex live rent-free. NTA
NTA suggests moving out and leaving expenses to ex-fiancé for daughter’s sake
Parenting and custody concerns raised in NTA comment.
NTA. Give her notice of at least 30 days and move on
Ex-fiancé taking advantage, NTA. Serve eviction papers, follow legal process.
Take legal action if ex-fiancé doesn’t move out. #NTA
A fresh start might be the best way to get rid of a freeloader
Stand up for your rights. NTA. Take her to court.
NTA. Kick her to the curb
Legally, she’s a delinquent subtenant. NTA.
