Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of post-divorce drama that’s spilling into the classroom. When this dad found out his ex was oversharing with their son’s teacher and leaving him out of the loop, he decided it was time to put his foot down. But did he go too far by making the teacher “collateral damage” in his battle with his ex? Let’s dive in and see if this dad is the a-hole or just a fed-up father trying to do right by his kid!
Divorce Drama Alert!
Just Trying to Co-Parent in Peace
Teacher, You’ve Got Some Explaining to Do!
Classroom Matters? Nice Try, Teach!
Ex Loves to Overshare with the Teacher
Ex Needs to Keep Our Business Out of the Classroom!
New Rule: Dad Gets CC’d on Everything!
Divorce Drama Invades the Classroom!
Well, well, well… looks like this dad’s post-divorce drama has spilled over into his son’s classroom! His ex has been oversharing with the teacher, leaving Dad out of important conversations. When he confronted the teacher, she tried to play it off as just “classroom matters,” but Dad wasn’t buying it. He took his concerns to the principal, who laid down the law: no more trash-talking dad or discussing personal matters that have nothing to do with their son’s education! ⚖️ The teacher claimed she was just trying to support the ex, but now her classroom is “collateral damage.” Let’s see what the internet has to say about this messy situation!
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