Ever had a dinner plan turn into a friendship feud? Meet our 31-year-old storyteller, who found herself in the eye of a storm after a sushi night with her friends. What was meant to be a casual dinner plan turned into a heated debate, all thanks to a seafood allergy. Let’s dive into the story that’s got everyone talking!
A Regular Dinner Gathering ️
New Friend on the Block
The Seafood Dilemma
Sushi Place Opens Up
The Sushi Proposition
The Allergy Reminder
The Sushi Night
The Word Spreads
Accusations Fly ️
The Fallout
Seafood Allergy Sparks Unexpected Conflict Among Friends
What started as a simple dinner plan turned into a full-blown friendship feud. Our storyteller, a 31-year-old woman, found herself in hot water after a sushi night with friends. The bone of contention? A seafood allergy. Kate, a new addition to the group, couldn’t partake in the sushi feast due to her allergy. When our storyteller and a few others decided to visit the sushi place without Kate, accusations of exclusion and division flew. Now, the once harmonious group is divided, with everyone taking sides. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sushi saga!
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NTA – Seafood allergy sparks debate over dinner plans
Handling a food allergy conflict with grace and consideration
NTA. You nailed it when you said that this isn’t middle school and that you’re allowed to do things outside of the group.
NTA: Friend drama over exclusion leads to future isolation
NTA: Going to dinner with select friends is totally fine!
NTA. Friends being possessive over dinner plans? Ridiculous
Accommodating food allergy while still enjoying seafood. NTA!
NTA. Friends acting like middle schoolers ♀️. Valid reasoning, toxic situation
Avoid the drama, stay cool if they mention it.
NTA: Friends acting like teenagers
NTA – Going out separately to include everyone, no harm done!
NTA. Embrace life’s limitations, not everyone can do everything
NTA. She’s acting very shellfish Jen and Kate can’t sea that OP did nothing wrong.
NTA: It’s okay to have separate hangouts with friends
Teenage drama queens trying to control your social life? NTA!
Shift dinner meeting to accommodate allergies, but don’t ban seafood
NTA- Going behind friends’ backs to eat seafood? Ridiculous control.
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Go wherever you want with whoever you want!
Jen’s not the a**hole, but is she going too far?
NTA. You’re entitled to socialize with subgroups of your friends.
NTA for making your own plans and being independent.
Choosing a restaurant shouldn’t spark drama. NTA, keep exploring!
NTA. Allergies shouldn’t stop others from enjoying seafood. Geek Social Fallacies.
NTA. Friends can do separate activities and accommodate allergies.
NTA
You could have been more open and had a dinner for all inviting everyone and allowing Kate to decline. If I were Kate I would eat before and have side dishes with you to be social.
“You can’t please everyone all the time” – Wise words!
NTA, but this could be the end of the dinner group. Let it. I don’t need friends like Jen and Kate.
NTA! People can eat and hangout with whoever they want!
