Did I Go Too Far? My Boyfriend Told Me To Stop Crocheting And Focus On Household Chores, But He Can’t Even Clean The Bathroom Once A Week

A woman who enjoys crocheting is being told by her boyfriend to spend less time on it, despite her making sure all household duties are done. She calls him out for spending more time on video games and not doing basic chores. The argument escalates and she is unsure if she is in the wrong for calling him a hypocrite. Read on to find out more about their clash over hobbies and responsibilities.

Apology for spelling errors addressed in comments.

Struggling to reason with boyfriend who wants me cleaning over crocheting

Crocheting vs. Chores: Balancing Hobbies and Household Tasks

Balancing work, chores and hobbies- a modern day woman’s struggle ‍

Don’t mess with a crocheter!

Multitasking queen shuts down lazy boyfriend’s unfair request ‍♀️

Struggling with a lazy boyfriend who can’t clean the bathroom?

When household chores become a gender battle ‍ ‍ ‍

Working in a brain rehabilitation unit cannot be done from home.

When your boyfriend can’t handle a little crocheting

Did she go too far by calling him a hypocrite?

The hidden reasoning behind the boyfriend’s request for household chores.

Boyfriend wants me to stop crocheting and focus on chores

Can a hobby go too far?

A woman is facing backlash from her boyfriend after he told her to stop crocheting and focus on household chores. The woman, who works full-time, says crocheting helps her deal with her anxiety and that she always ensures her household duties are done before sitting down to crochet. Her boyfriend, who works part-time from home, spends most of his free time playing games and struggles to even clean the bathroom once a week. He told her to spend more time on impactful and useful things like cleaning and cooking new dishes. The woman called him a hypocrite for telling her off when he can’t even manage basic chores. This has sparked a debate on whether hobbies can go too far and if partners should have a say in how much time is spent on them. Check out the comments below for different perspectives on the situation.

NTA for enjoying your hobby and questioning your boyfriend’s priorities.

Crocheting addiction is a slippery slope, but NTA for now

Dump the a****e boyfriend and crochet a body bag instead

Boyfriend thinks gaming is more important than girlfriend’s hobby, NTA.

Commenter commends OP for her work and calls out boyfriend’s hypocrisy.

Boyfriend expects her to do all the chores and wants her to focus more on him. Crochet more and see how long he lasts.

Defending against hobby shaming with a crochet hook

Crocheting is just as valid as gaming. NTA for standing up.

Crochet enthusiasts unite! Share your finished objects in the comments

Boyfriend controlling, angry, and lazy – NTA for hobbies.

Crafting for mental health is important. Dump the cussing boyfriend

Partner should be a partner, not a dependent. ‍♀️

Age ain’t nothing but a number ‍♀️

NTA. Boyfriend expects 50s housewife ideals. Have an adult conversation.

Boyfriend wants girlfriend to prioritize chores over hobby, NTA

Boyfriend called out for hypocrisy by crocheting partner. NTA

NTA for crocheting, but your BF is crotchety

Partner wants a maid, not a girlfriend

Standing up to a hypocrite boyfriend with a clever comeback

Don’t let him crochet your happiness, leave the a****e

Boyfriend treats OP like a maid with s*x benefits

Don’t be a bangmaid! Keep your hobbies and ditch the guy

NTA in any sense. Your boyfriend wants you to take on ‍ ‍ ‍ roles and be the breadwinner. Don’t put up with that

Commenter describes lopsided household chores and hobby-shaming boyfriend.

Dump him and keep crocheting #NTA

Crocheting is a fun hobby! Don’t let anyone make you stop.

Recognizing signs of abuse in a relationship

Selfish boyfriend criticized her hobby, comment warns of future issues.

Choosing hobbies over chores? NTA, kick him out

NTA stands her ground against sexist boyfriend with a threat

Standing up for yourself is always the right thing ‍♀️

Equal chores and hobbies in a partnership

NTA calls out hypocritical boyfriend

Crocheting helps with anxiety. Use his words against him. NTA.

Don’t let anyone dim your creativity. NTA.

Find a new boyfriend who doesn’t expect you to drop hobbies

Don’t let him unravel your passion.

Partner expects double the work. NTA.

Stand up for yourself! You work hard and deserve respect

Verbal abuse is never okay . You deserve better .

Don’t let anyone damper your crochet flow!

Crochet yourself a new boyfriend ❤️

Don’t let anyone belittle your hobbies, NTA!

This boyfriend is a real winner . Why is she still with him?

Defend your crochet time! NTA for standing up to hypocrisy.

Empowering response to a controlling boyfriend ‍♀️

Partner prioritizes hobby over household, cusses out for criticism. NTA

Partner’s emotional manipulation and laziness. Time to move on

Track your time and shut him down with facts

Don’t let your partner suppress your passions #NTA

This boyfriend needs a reality check. ‍♂️ NTA.

Commenter is not the a****e, but why the angry face?

Stand up for your hobbies and call out hypocrisy!

Boyfriend wants housework over hobbies, but can’t clean himself

Your NTA comment may have revealed some red flags

Empathetic response to toxic relationship, urging reflection and action ❤️

“Man-boy” gets called out in comment section

Crocheting is self-care, not a chore.

Last Updated on March 20, 2023 by Alfe Mercado