Hey there, lovely people! Today, we have a story that will make you say ‘Oh, honey, no!’ ♀️ Our storyteller is a strong mama who’s been through a lot with her ex and his family. She’s dealing with an ex who was distant during her pregnancy, made threats, and now has a sudden change of heart. But wait, there’s more! The ex’s mom wants back in on the action too. ♀️ Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions as we dive into this drama-filled tale!
The Distant Dad ♂️

Obsessed with a Daughter

The Gender Reveal

Disappointment and Distance

The Indecisive Ex ♂️

Terrifying Threats

Legal Precautions ⚖️

The Supportive Ex-MIL

The Insult

Blocking and Unblocking

The Unfit Father Confession

Ex-MIL’s Regret

Family Tree Logic

The Angry Response

No Dad, No Grandma?
Our brave mama has been through the wringer with her ex, who was distant during her pregnancy and even threatened to kidnap their son. After cutting ties with her ex’s mom due to a hurtful insult, our heroine finds herself in a tricky situation. Her ex, who admits he’s unfit to be a father, wants his mom to be a grandma again. Our mama stands her ground, saying that if he’s not going to be a dad, his mom can’t be a grandma. But, of course, the ex doesn’t take this well and lashes out with some nasty words. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wild situation!
Boundaries set and respected. No apologies needed

When legal action is mentioned, conversation shuts down completely

Be cautious of words in writing, keep evidence, stop communication.

Sassy NTA comment asserts paternity with a mic drop

Ex’s wishy-washy behavior doesn’t grant him parental rights

Red flags raised over man’s desire for daughter. Stay away.

Standing up to toxic family members is important

Is leaving the baby with BDM a safe option?

Could the ex’s mother be behind the threats and involvement?

Supportive comment suggests changing phone number after family drama.

Protect yourself from toxic family members with evidence

Grandparents’ behavior deemed ‘unhinged’, no contact with child recommended ♀️

Serious concern raised about father’s desire for a daughter

Cutting ties with toxic ex and family for child’s well-being

Educational clapback shuts down ignorant comment.

Speculation arises about the father’s intentions for wanting a daughter

Supportive comment applauds OP for protecting herself and her son.

NTA. Get a lawyer and record any abusive behavior.

Ex’s mom gets a**hole trait from her son. NTA for denying her relationship with child.

NTA, but consult a lawyer to terminate his rights ASAP

Ex and his mother reap what they sow. NTA

Cutting toxic family members for peace and legal protection. NTA

Secure your child’s future, legally renounce his rights. NTA

Protect yourself legally and financially, cut off toxic communication

Protecting yourself and your child from toxic family members

Protect yourself and your child. She doesn’t deserve to play grandma

A toxic family, better kept away from the child

Cutting toxic people, even grandparents, is necessary for a healthy family

Block them and move on! NTA for setting boundaries

User questions man’s obsession with having a daughter

No apologies needed, NTA for standing up for yourself

NTA chooses stable family for babies over problematic biological father.

Setting boundaries to protect your child from toxic family members. ✋

Cutting off toxic family members is sometimes necessary.

Protecting yourself and your son from toxic family members

Red flags ignored on the way to motherhood

Taking responsibility for a child doesn’t require a relationship.

Insulation in attic more effective than wall upgrade

Grandma’s outburst raises suspicion of impersonation, document everything. NTA

Protecting your son is priority. Trust burnt, don’t believe them

Cutting toxic family ties and starting fresh with a new phone

Mother stands up for herself and her baby against disrespectful grandma

Cutting out toxic family members for the sake of your child

Engaging in peaceful communication and legal custody agreement is essential

Is forgiveness possible for a ‘vile’ insult from grandma?

The power of words: To forgive or not to forgive?

File for custody and restraining order, NTA. Stay safe

Keeping neutral with 3 sides to every story

Cutting out toxic family members is sometimes necessary.

Being cautious about who influences your child is crucial

Suggesting medical appointments to ensure child’s safety with mentally ill ex.

Setting boundaries with family members can be difficult

Run for the hills, NTA! Raise a strong son with boundaries

Grandma’s behavior could be toxic to the child

From YTA to NTA: Understanding the complexity of family dynamics

Cutting ties with toxic family: NTA

Cutting off family for safety reasons is a tough decision ⚠️

Red flags raised about father’s intentions towards female child

Censored dad cannot control you, keep ignoring his drama!

Protecting your son from potential harm. NTA

A harsh but realistic take on the situation

User calls out decision to have child with ‘vile man’

NTA. Despite a parent’s efforts, some children make crappy choices. You’re doing your best to raise your baby in a healthy environment.

Cut ties and sue for child support.

Fierce defense of a mother’s reproductive rights

Grandparents can be grandparents regardless of their child’s situation. But boundaries are important

Setting boundaries for toxic family members is important.

Balancing grandparents’ rights with father’s absence in custody battle

Mixed feelings on cutting off son’s family, potential regrets

Fatherhood isn’t a choice for him, it’s a responsibility.

Red flags in the story make the judgment unclear
