♀️ Hey there, Facebook fam! I’ve got a doozy of a situation on my hands and I need your sage advice. Picture this: a mom trying her best to navigate the complexities of raising two daughters, one deaf and one hearing, in a world that doesn’t always understand. Throw in a new friendship with a neighbor girl who has a cochlear implant and a mom with some *strong* opinions, and you’ve got a recipe for drama! Buckle up, because this story is about to get wild!
Two Daughters, One School, Different Abilities

A School for All: Sign Language for the Win!

Location, Location, Location: Choosing a Home with Purpose

Lockdown Leads to New Friendship

Meeting Lily’s Mom: A Clash of Beliefs

♀️ Trying to Help, but Met with Anger

♀️ Expertise Ignored: A Frustrating Conversation

Respecting Privacy: A Difficult Situation

Lily Learns to Sign: A Playdate Gone Wrong

Embarrassment at Lily’s House: A Difficult Visit

Setting Boundaries: No More Playdates at Lily’s

♀️ Enough is Enough: Ending the Friendship

♀️ Discrimination or Protecting My Daughter?

❓ Seeking Advice: Should I Let Them Play?

Neighborhood Drama Alert: Deaf Daughter’s Playdate Disaster!
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a classic case of neighborhood drama! Our protagonist, a devoted mom of two, finds herself in a sticky situation when her deaf daughter’s new friend, Lily, and Lily’s mom start causing trouble. From clashing beliefs about sign language to embarrassing moments and hurtful actions, this story has more twists and turns than a soap opera! But the real question is, what does the internet think about this mom’s decision to cut ties with Lily? Let’s dive into the juiciest responses and see if we can get to the bottom of this playdate disaster! ️♀️
Supportive comment about not discriminating against deaf child

Deaf child’s mother’s self-righteousness causes conflict with friends.

Reframing the situation to protect your daughter’s communication needs.
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Mom’s behavior causes rift in friendship over child’s implant. NTA.

NTA. Lily’s mom is ableist and trying to shame your daughters.

Parenting decisions clash in playdate gone wrong.

NTA. Encourage respect for different communication preferences to maintain friendship.

Movie recommendation for deaf girl section

Supportive comment shuts down parent-shaming. #NotTheA-hole

Debating the ethics of a clickbait title

Respectful educator stands up for deaf child’s rights. NTA!

NTA stands up for daughter against harmful myth and bullying

NTA. Good on you for protecting your daughter

Deafness is not a weakness, sign language is not a crutch. NTA!
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Stand up to bullies, even if they’re your child’s friends!

Teaching sign language to hearing babies is helpful. NTA, mom.

Respectful decision-making praised in deaf child’s friend group.

Curious NTA asks about communication and offers empathy and perspective.

NTA. Lilly’s behavior was affecting your daughter. Stand up for them.

Deaf child forbidden from signing with friends. NTA.

Deaf commenter sympathizes with excluded child, shares own struggles.

Deaf girl’s mom tried to force OP’s daughter to speak. NTA

Navigating the line between protection and learning from situations

Stand up against discrimination and educate on disability acceptance.

Questioning the mother’s judgement in a supportive way
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NTA. The mother sounds insufferable and it’ll only harm the daughter.

Are the daughters really interested in playing with her?

Learning ASL and supportive of keeping child away from negative influence.

Mother’s ego prevents daughter from playing with deaf girl

Don’t let others push their opinions on your child.

Deaf community criticizes oral schools; parent praised for support. NTA

Parenting choices respected, boundaries set. NTA

NTA. Lily’s mother is ableist, making Lily hate herself. Your daughters won’t be a good influence on Lily.

Defending the child’s right to play, but suspicions arise.

Mom denies child’s deafness, accuses of discrimination. Warning given.

Standing up to ignorance: Learning sign language is not stupid

Learning sign language should be a priority in schools

NTA! Keep raising well-rounded kids

Respecting boundaries is key, NTA handled it well

Mom’s shame for daughter’s deafness leads to unfair treatment.

Heartbreaking account of deaf girl’s mistreatment due to archaic beliefs.

NTA calls out narcissistic parent for discriminatory behavior

Teaching sign language is beneficial and the mother is TA

Mother defends daughter from bullying, says NTA in comments.

Surprising aversion to sign language and ignorance around deafness

Mother bans child’s method of communication, commenter says NTA.

Criticizing a parent’s inability to afford a CI is classist

Support for parent standing up for daughter’s communication choices.

Deaf community evolves, but not everyone is keeping up

Deaf culture clash leads to communication conflict. NTA verdict.

Don’t let shame dictate your child’s friendships.

Deaf child’s language development is crucial. NTA comment agrees.
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Teacher claps back at discriminatory parent. NTA

Heartbreaking situation for the little girl. NTA, ableist mom.

Breaking down barriers: Living with a deaf sibling.

Learning ASL is not a hindrance. NTA, but be kind.

Deaf/HoH commenter defends Lily’s right to interact; calls mom ‘a**hole’.

Mom forbids deaf girl from playing with friends due to ableism

Deaf girl forbidden from playing with friends. NTA stands up.

Deafphobia and the controversy around cochlear implants explained by commenter.

Parent defends deaf daughter against discriminatory neighbor. NTA
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Defending parenting choices and boundaries.

Deaf children deserve to be part of their community

NTA, OP! Don’t let ignorant people dictate your parenting choices.

Learning ASL doesn’t subtract from speaking; NTA for preventing discrimination.

Setting boundaries for bad behavior, not deafness. NTA! ✋

Explain to your kids why Lily’s mom’s behavior was wrong.

Empathy for a silenced child. Ableist mom receives backlash. #NTA

Cutting toxic ties: the right move

Different parenting views can hinder children’s friendships. NTA comment.

NTA. Supporting Lily’s mother’s views could harm your children.

Different parenting values affect child’s communication. NTA

NTA stands up for child with cochlear implant, tells off parent

Prioritizing daughters over Lily’s parents, NTA comment section.

Standing up for child’s rights, not against cochlear implants.

Mother defends deaf girl’s right to play with friends.

Discrimination against child with cochlear implants. NTA for ending contact.

Cutting off toxic friends is hard, but necessary for parenting.

Encouraging support for a mother of a hard of hearing child.

Breaking down barriers: Children learning from each other despite parents’ prejudices

Protecting daughter from toxic deaf community. NTA
