We’ve all had our fair share of bad dates, but this one takes the cake! Our storyteller was set up on a date by his sister, and everything seemed to be going well… until his date made a shockingly rude comment to their waitress. The night quickly spiraled out of control, leaving one person stranded and everyone else fuming. Grab your popcorn, folks, because this is one wild ride!
Sister’s Setup
Taking Turns
Water Woes
Rude Remark
Waitress’ Reaction
Dumbfounded and Angry
Apologies and Payment
Sister’s Fury
Manager’s Threat
Dad to the Rescue
Sister’s Stance ♀️
Taxi Troubles
End of Argument ♂️
Sister’s Final Words
Date Night Debacle: Who’s in the Wrong?
After a seemingly pleasant date, things took a turn for the worse when our storyteller’s date made a shockingly rude comment to their waitress. Unable to stomach the disrespect, he paid for his meal, apologized to the waitress, and left his date stranded. ♂️ The next morning, his sister called him furious, accusing him of being an a**hole for leaving her friend stranded. Despite explaining the situation, his sister refused to take his side, insisting he should have paid for the entire meal and given her friend a ride home. Now, everyone’s left wondering who’s really in the wrong here. ♀️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic date night debacle…
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