Picture this: you’re on a third date with someone you’ve been chatting with for two months. It’s the first time you’re going out to dinner, and your date insists on treating you to a fancy meal. Sounds perfect, right? Well, not quite. When the time comes to order, your date goes all out, choosing some of the most expensive items on the menu. You can’t help but feel a little uneasy, and before you know it, you’ve asked the waitress for separate checks. What follows is an incredibly awkward evening, leaving you wondering if you were in the wrong. Let’s dive into this juicy story!
The Third Date Setup ️
A Generous Offer
The Menu Dilemma
The Big Order
Red Flags Everywhere
The Awkward Request
Her Explanation ♀️
The Rest of the Night
A Hasty Goodbye
Her Friends’ Reactions
The Final Verdict
The Internet Weighs In: Who’s the Real Culprit? ♀️
So, was our protagonist in the wrong for requesting separate checks, or was her date’s extravagant ordering a valid cause for concern? The internet has been buzzing with opinions on this juicy tale of date night drama. Some believe she was justified in feeling uncomfortable, while others think she should have let her date treat her as he intended. Regardless of where you stand, one thing’s for sure: this story has sparked some heated debates! Let’s check out the top responses from the internet for your entertainment!
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“YTA- he offered to pay for dinner and you accepted the offer but in front of the server changed your mind without warning. That was very rude and dismissive. Not sure why his ordering was red flags to you. But certainly not enough to be so judgmental and rude.”
Paranoia over splitting the check: yellow flag or red flag?
Splitting the check: YTA or just insecure about money?
YTA for assuming anything because of his totally normal order
NAH: Awkward date at an expensive restaurant sparks debate and doubts
Soft YTA: Trust issues may have cost you a connection.
Red flag: What did he order that raised eyebrows?
“NTA, but did she go too far by asking to split the check? “
Why is splitting the check a red flag warning?
Trust your instincts, but start with less fancy dates
Missed opportunity for a constructive conversation about splitting the check.
“YTA. Bringing up the split check while he’s ordering? “
Debate over splitting the check sparks eyebrow-raising spending habits
“YTA, he should’ve been clearer” – Debate over splitting the check
NTA. Prioritize your comfort and find out his intentions.
Paranoid OP rudely accuses someone of being polite. YTA
Splitting the check on a date: trust issues and consequences
YTA didn’t appreciate the treat, but he deserved it ️
NTA: Asserting independence on a date, no s**t was given ♀️
Don’t lose yourself in a date night disagreement. ️
Soft YTA on how you handled it, but understandable panic
NTA, but his behavior afterwards is a red flag.
NTA. Trust your gut, be subtle, protect yourself, laugh it off
