Picture this: you and your ex-wife throw a party for your daughter’s piano achievements. You bring your stepson along, who recently got accepted into his dream university. The party is going great, everyone’s mingling, and you strike up a conversation about your stepson’s university success. But then, your ex-wife accuses you of being insensitive because her stepson, who was rejected from the same university, was within earshot. Are you the bad guy here? Let’s dive into this story and find out! ️♀️
The Divorce and New Families

Stepsons and School Drama

Derek’s Success

Exceptional Young Man

Time to Celebrate Sally

Party Time!

Mingling and Conversations ️

Professor Connection

Derek’s University Talk

Partygoers Join In

Sally’s Friends Chime In

Kim’s Unhappiness

Party’s Over

Tom’s Rejection

The Accusation

Not the Intention

University Talk Drama: Insensitive or Innocent?
Our protagonist throws a party with his ex-wife to celebrate their daughter’s piano achievements. He brings his stepson Derek, who recently got accepted into his dream university with a scholarship. During the party, he chats with a former college professor about Derek’s university, and the conversation attracts other partygoers who congratulate Derek. However, ex-wife Kim is not happy. She accuses him of being insensitive because her stepson Tom, who was rejected from the same university, was within earshot. She also claims he made the party all about Derek, overshadowing their daughter Sally. Our protagonist insists that wasn’t his intention. ♂️ So, what do people think of this situation? Let’s check out some top responses from the internet!
Taking advantage of an opportunity isn’t the same as bragging

Kim is projecting and OP is NTA. Drama ensues

Ex-wife expects mind-reading, NTA for congratulating Derek

Breaking the rules of party conversation? NTA, obviously

Congrats to Derek! NTA comments shine light on entitlement culture

Dad accidentally makes stepson’s party about him, but not TA

“NTA, ex’s step kid whereabouts are none of your business”

Step-dad receives backlash for not congratulating rejected step-son. NTA.

NTA. Commenter sympathizes but advises Tom to learn coping skills.

Encouraging advice for Tom’s college rejection

Supportive comment about step-child’s self-esteem and maturity.

Stepson confusion leads to drama, commenter supports OP. NTA

Stepdad clears drama, wins NTA points

Proud dad stands up for celebrating son amidst drama

Making alumni connections: NTA or not?

Stepson’s jealousy is not OP’s problem, NTA

Sally’s self-esteem and confidence saved the day!

Encouraging comment defends dad’s actions towards son’s college disappointment. ✅

Tom could have used the situation to his advantage

Advice on college admissions and institutional needs.

NTA! Congrats to your step-son and daughter. Pure jealousy

Ex projecting household issues on OP, NTA for chatting.

Don’t be the escape goat, you’re NTA

NTA. Celebrating Derek’s success did not take away from Sally’s party

Networking with alumni is not your responsibility. NTA

Ex-wife’s insecurity causes drama over stepsons’ success ♀️

Father’s bragging upsets child, but no one is the AH.

Seize the opportunity! NTA played it right

Encouraging response to college rejection, NTA and good opportunity

Encouraging success at a party leads to unhinged reaction

Step brother attends party, but Tom needs to learn.

Proud dad defends son’s college achievement, teaches stepson maturity

No drama here. NTA for having a good time

Confusion over ‘them’. Commenters offer explanations.

Compassionate response to family drama.

Stepmom’s entitlement sparks judgement from commenters. NTA stands firm.

NTA calls out entitled behavior in university drama
