Being a parent is no easy task, especially when it comes to establishing a consistent sleep schedule for your little one. One dad (35m) has had enough of his wife’s (29f) approach to their two-year-old son’s bedtime routine. He works full time, while she is a stay-at-home mom. Their son should be getting around 13 hours of sleep a day, but the mom’s new method of putting him to bed has made it nearly impossible for the dad to get him to sleep at night.
A Mouthful of a Situation

Sleep Schedule Struggles

The Ideal Plan

Mom’s New Method

Bedtime Battles

Enough is Enough

Dad’s Drastic Move

Wife’s Response ️

Dad’s Dilemma

Is Dad in the Wrong? ♂️
This dad has reached his breaking point with his wife’s new method of putting their son to bed. After months of struggling to get their two-year-old to sleep at night, he finally told his wife he wouldn’t be doing it anymore until she fixes the sleep schedule. He even moved his bed into a separate room! The next morning, his wife was exhausted and upset, but he stood his ground. Now, he’s questioning if he’s in the wrong for taking such a drastic step. Let’s see what people think about this bedtime battle…
Navigating toddler sleep transitions is tough on parents.

Parenting advice: Work together to solve kid’s sleep struggles. YTA
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Parenting advice gone wrong: YTA for not putting son to bed

Is dad unfairly blaming mom for bedtime struggles?

Sarcastic comment receives no replies, but plenty of likes

Parenting advice: Communicate and find a solution together

Is the son ready to drop his nap?

User calls out dad for calling his wife lazy

Parenting is a team effort . Moving to a separate room is absurd.

Parenting a toddler is tough, but opting out isn’t cool

Advice on toddler sleep and biting, but concerns about communication.

YTA for being petty and not communicating with your wife

Concerned commenter asks for more info on dad’s actions

Expert advice on toddler sleep schedule

Communication is key for parenting, not name-calling and tantrums
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YTA dad moves out of bedroom, needs to talk to wife

ESH. Commenter calls out bad behavior and predicts poor coparenting.
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Parenting advice gone wrong! YTA comment sparks debate.

Parenting fail? Commenter calls out dad’s behavior with humor

Parenting advice gone wrong

Skipping a nap or limiting it to half an hour can help

Parenting advice sparks YTA backlash

YTA comment calls out dad’s attitude towards wife

Parenting advice: Don’t isolate your spouse, have a patient conversation

Parenting teamwork is key
Don’t lock yourself away.

Parenting advice gets spicy in the comment section

Engage with your wife and pediatrician instead of the internet. YTA

Napping toddlers can be a nightmare

Parenting advice given with empathy and personal experience

Father criticized for not sharing parenting responsibilities. YTA.

Parenting advice and YTA call-out with a touch of empathy

YTA for not considering your wife’s well-being and feelings

Husband abandons putting son to bed, wife calls him a**hole

SAHM criticized for husband’s immature behavior

Parenting advice with a touch of sarcasm

User calls out OP for being TA and suggests divorce

A comment calling out a dad’s unsupportive behavior towards his wife and toddler.

YTA for moving to another room and locking the door

NTA dad prioritizes child’s routine and sleep, suggests deeper conversation.

Parenting advice turns into judgmental YTA accusation

NTA. Wife needs to be fair and considerate of your job. Apologize.

Poor communication led to a messy situation.

Suggests replacing nap with quiet time and earlier bedtime

Dad stands his ground in co-parenting dispute

Parenting responsibility debate with a touch of sarcasm

Full-time working mom called out for being an a**hole.
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NTA. Setting a sleep schedule for toddlers is important

Harsh comment suggests marital issues, advises letting wife go

Parenting can be tough , but moving to a separate room is extreme YTA.

Dad called out for calling wife lazy, YTA

Parenting advice sparks criticism of OP’s word choice

Dad defends his sleeping schedule system against lazy partner. NTA

NTA, childproof his room and have quiet time in there

NTA. Setting a consistent sleep schedule is important for parents.

Parenting advice and support for dad dealing with toddler sleep issues

ESH for throwing a tantrum. Spouse should help with bedtime.

Equal parenting responsibilities.

SAHM shares nap time routine, grateful for husband’s help.

Parenting is a team effort, not a competition

Kid’s nap causing bedtime trouble? NTA suggests a solution

Parenting burden on mom, YTA for speaking about her.

Engaging with YTA comment on parenting and communication

Sleep training struggles unite parents, solidarity and advice shared

User calls out OP’s contemptuous tone towards wife.

Daycare teacher calls out lazy dad for immature behavior

Parenting is tough, YTA for not valuing your wife’s work

Engaging response to a frustrated parent with empathy and advice

Keeping sleep times consistent is key to avoiding tiny sociopaths

NTA – Sleep schedule is important for toddlers

Parent shares experience and suggests a new game plan.

Parenting is a team effort, YTA for not understanding that.

Parenting is hard, YTA for not helping fix sleep schedule

Savage reply calls out post’s authenticity.

User calls out dad for being TA, advises teamwork and empathy.

Consistent routine with shorter afternoon nap can help.

Naptime drama: NTA for refusing to put son to bed

Sleep patterns change with toddlers, dropping nap may help. YTA.

Empathetic comment suggests checking in on wife’s well-being

User calls out dad for being selfish and ignorant

Co-parenting is important! Don’t punish your wife for toddler’s sleep.

Toddler nap-skipping causes tension between dad and commenters ♂️

Supportive comment defends stay-at-home mom, suggests skipping nap instead

Former childcare professional advises against stopping naps, suggests later bedtime.

Parenting advice gone wrong, comment section in chaos
