Ever been caught in a sticky situation between work friends and their kids? Well, here’s a story that’ll have you questioning what’s right and wrong! Our protagonist (39M) and his coworker, Carrie (38F), have become close work friends over the years. They both have teenage kids – Sam (16M) and Diana (17F) – who started dating after meeting through their parents. Everything was cute and innocent… until our protagonist discovered a box of condoms in his son’s car! Fast forward a few weeks, and Carrie finds out about her daughter’s sexual activity, leading to an explosive confrontation. So, was our protagonist wrong for not telling Carrie? Let’s dive into this drama-filled story!
Work Friends and Their Kids

Dating Teens: Sam & Diana

Young Love Blossoms

Surprise Discovery!

Condoms in the Glove Box

Father-Son Talk Time ️

Safety First! ️

Plan B vs. Grandchildren

Carrie’s Discovery

The Big Reveal

Not My Place

Friendship Betrayal?

Caught in the Middle: Work Friends, Kids, and Condoms!
Our protagonist (39M) and his coworker, Carrie (38F), have become close work friends, and their kids, Sam (16M) and Diana (17F), have started dating. All was well until our protagonist discovered a box of condoms in Sam’s car! He had a father-son talk with Sam about safety, but didn’t mention it to Carrie. However, when Carrie later found out about her daughter’s sexual activity, she was furious that our protagonist knew and didn’t tell her! Carrie feels betrayed, while our protagonist believes it wasn’t his place to say anything. So, who’s right in this situation? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this moral dilemma…
Respectful NTA response with a witty Plan B comment

Parenting done right: respecting privacy and communication. #NTA

Practical advice on condoms and a NTA judgment

Protecting your son’s secret was the right thing to do

Keeping quiet to avoid distrust: NTA

NTA who defends teenage love and sexual exploration with colorful metaphors

NTA. It’s important to educate teens on safe sex practices.

Respectful NTA response to coworker’s upset about secret affair.

NTA suggests why telling the truth could have caused chaos

Choosing your son over your coworker is NTA move

Mind your own business and don’t spread rumors. NTA.

Coworker’s nonchalant attitude towards kids’ secret love affair. NTA.

Respectful father and clear NTA verdict in coworker affair

Mind your business: NTA defends 17 y/o’s sex life ♀️ ♂️

A+ parenting and relatable experience with dating coworkers’ kids

NTA comment suggests discreet Plan B options via Amazon delivery

Respectful NTA mom prioritizes daughter’s privacy and agency.

Keeping secrets to protect relationships: NTA wins this round

NTA, respecting privacy is important in any relationship.

Birth control discussion in love affair comment section.

NTA agrees, it’s not their place to tell. Kudos for handling well
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NTA for doing your job as Sam’s parent. Tough situation.

Supporting reproductive health and keeping a secret. NTA wins.

Always better to stay out of other people’s parenting decisions ♀️

NTA. Better communication needed between mother and daughter

Mom jealous of daughter’s secret love life.
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Respect for privacy, NTA. Let kids be kids

Respecting your child’s trust doesn’t make you an a**hole
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Parent shares personal experience and advice for talking to teens. ❤️

NTA dad gives solid advice on taking responsibility for reactions

Respect for kids’ privacy and independence. NTA

Respectful Dad earns praise for having his child’s back

A commenter defends a teen couple and criticizes a nosy coworker.

NTA. Supportive of safe sex and respecting consensual relationships.

Mind your own business: NTA for respecting daughter’s privacy

NTAH for keeping the trust with your son over your friend’s gossip.

Letting go of control is part of parenting

Daughter dating coworker’s kid? NTA says it’s not their business ♀️

Respectful parenting and sex education for the win!

Coworker finds condom wrappers, still in denial about affair.

A commenter shares their own experience with a judgmental parent. NTA

Respect and privacy are important for teenagers. NTA for not telling.

Respecting privacy and autonomy is key. Friend’s being a d**k

A supportive NTA dad handles his son’s secret love affair

A parent defends buying condoms and Plan B for their child’s girlfriend

Calling someone stupid for not understanding birth control. NTA.

Mind your own business: parenting and privacy

Respect privacy: Don’t narc on coworkers’ kids’ consensual affair

NTA commenter disapproves of discussing someone else’s kid’s sex life.

OP praised for handling secret teenage love affair with coworker’s daughter.

Respecting privacy is always the right thing to do

Protecting your child’s privacy is key Good job, mom

NTA coworker keeps secret love affair hush-hush, but is it right?

Apologize to preserve friendship and avoid fallout.

NTA, communication is key. You did the right thing.

NTA prioritizes son’s confidence over friend’s anger

Respecting privacy is key.

Carrie frustrated daughter didn’t tell her about BC, no a**holes here

Daughter’s trust issues with mom spark coworker drama. NTA wins.

Suggests asking questions to avoid drama and not confirm assumptions
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Respectful NTA parent protects privacy of their son’s friends ❤️

Parent defends not interfering in coworkers’ kids’ secret romance.

Stick to your policy and put parenting weight back on Carrie

Parent supports teen love, prioritizes safety and communication.

Daughter’s intimacy issues not your fault, NTA

Let’s not judge a situation we don’t fully understand

Respecting children’s privacy is important, even from their parents
