Cousin’s GF Banned from Family Dinners: Who’s the Real Culprit?

Imagine this: you’re in a loving relationship, and your family adores your significant other. You attend regular family gatherings, and everything seems perfect. But then, your cousin’s girlfriend starts making snide remarks about your relationship and insists your boyfriend should pay for your meals. What would you do? This 19-year-old girl found herself in this exact situation, and her actions led to her cousin’s girlfriend getting banned from family dinners. But now, her cousin is accusing her of prioritizing her “dumb teen relationship” over his “adult relationship.” Let’s dive into the story and see what went down.

The Happy Family Routine

Family Dinners and Payments ️

The Payment Arrangement

Enter the Cousin’s Girlfriend

The Passive-Aggressive Remarks

The Rude Confrontations

Attempts to Resolve the Issue ️

Family Intervention

The Banning Decision ⛔

Cousin’s Furious Reaction

The Aftermath ❄️

The Family’s Verdict: GF Banned! ⚖️

After numerous attempts to resolve the issue, the family decided that the cousin’s girlfriend was no longer welcome at the dinners until she apologizes. This decision left the cousin furious, accusing the girl of prioritizing her “dumb teen relationship” over his “adult relationship.” Now, the girl is caught in the middle, wanting her boyfriend to feel comfortable but also loving her cousin and understanding the importance of having a significant other close to the family. What do you think? Was the family’s decision justified? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation…

33 yo cousin called teenager a snitch, deserved to be banned. NTA

Cousin’s girlfriend banned from family dinners for immature behavior. NTA.

NTA’s 5-year relationship healthier than cousin’s 2-year ‘adult relationship’

GF banned from family dinners for being rude. NTA.

NTA wins the prize for calling out rude behavior

Mature teens vs. immature 33yo woman. 100% NTA

Family bans toxic cousin’s gf from dinners after rude behavior.

Flip the gender roles right back at ’em. Nice.

Standing up for yourself and family against rude behavior.

NTA comment defends OP’s relationship, calls out gold digger’s character

Healthy relationship vs disrespectful girlfriend. NTA wins

Comment section calls out OP for seeking validation.

NTA. Family’s decision not to invite her. Cousin’s GF= major a**hole

Confusing behavior of cousin’s GF, accused of being a gold digger

Consequences for antisocial behavior: NTA bans cousin’s GF

Toxic GF causes family rift, commenter blames innocent cousin

Don’t waste energy on a lost cause. NTA

Age doesn’t excuse bad behavior at dinner. Cousin’s just salty.

Adult vs. Teen: Who Should Pay? NTA Wins

Support for OP’s decision but humorous suggestion for next family dinner.

NTA’s cousin’s entitled GF gets banned from family dinners

Cousin refuses to take responsibility for GF’s bad behavior ‍♂️

NTA stands up for her relationship and sets boundaries

Respectful comment defends privacy and personal responsibility.

Age is just a number, love is what matters ❤️

33yo bullying 19yo at family dinners? NTA needs to grow up

Commenter defends OP’s actions, declares them Not The A**hole

Family has the right to choose who attends dinner

Commenter defends banning cousin’s GF, calls her rude. NTA

Commenter calls out cousin and GF as TA’s with frustration

NTA stands up to age discrimination at family dinners

NTA stands up for family dinners and civility.

You spoke up, but she got herself banned. NTA

NTA shuts down judgmental family and suggests apology for re-entry

NTA. Valid point made, but cliches detract from argument.

Teenagers have the “adult relationship” while 30-somethings bring drama. NTA

Empowering video about gender roles sparks positive discussion

Sassy reply shuts down rude comment about girlfriend’s worth.

Drama alert! Commenter finds the situation entertaining

Being an adult means taking responsibility for your actions.

Setting boundaries without being rude: NTA comment wins.

Setting boundaries for a happier dinner. NTA

Cousin’s GF banned from family dinners for childish behavior

Don’t take the blame! NTA.

Teen relationship more mature than adults. NTA

Boyfriend’s immaturity enables toxic girlfriend, family takes action. NTA.

Maturity matters more than age

Family bans toxic GF, commenter says NTA. Drama ensues.

GF banned from family dinners, commenter says NTA

Commenter praises family’s actions, wishes for same in own life.

NTA stands their ground on banning cousin’s GF from dinners.

Clear judgement, but where’s the juicy drama? ‍♂️