A couple has found themselves in a disagreement about moving in together after marriage and how to handle the financial aspects of their new life. The partner, who already owns a place, expects the other to contribute to the monthly repayments, while the other partner disagrees. This dilemma has led to a heated debate, with both sides presenting their arguments.
The Logical Choice

The Disagreement Begins

A Fair Contribution?

Initial Plan vs. Reality

Now She Expects Contribution?

Feeling Pressured

Splitting Utilities and Groceries ️

Role Reversal ⚖️

A Couple’s Financial Feud
This couple’s disagreement about moving in together and sharing expenses after marriage has sparked a debate. The partner who already owns a place expects the other to contribute to the monthly repayments, while the other partner disagrees. Both sides present their arguments, with one feeling pressured and resentful, and the other believing it’s only fair to contribute. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions!
YTA for expecting free rent in girlfriend’s house. Get counseling.

Debate over moving in together – YTA won’t pay partner rent. ♀️

Commenter calls out OP for not contributing and being immature

OP is called out for immaturity and lack of compromise

User called out for wanting to live for free. YTA

Debate on being your partner’s landlord sparks controversy

Moving in rent-free? YTA. Evaluate expectations before commitment.

Commenter calls out freeloading behavior in relationship, sparks debate.

OP gets called out for being spiteful and immature YTA

OP is called out for being TA and not wanting to pay rent.

Debate over paying rent to girlfriend sparks YTA judgement

Partner’s financial independence causing disagreement. YTA or NAH?

Don’t be a**hole, listen to her and communicate better

Is moving in together a bad idea?

Splitting the rent equally is fair, YTA.

Split the bills equally, YTA. Don’t be a freeloader.

Potential groom criticized for not wanting to split rent.
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Partner accused of being insufferable and a hobosexual.

Commenter deemed YTA for petty and spiteful reasoning

Commenter calls out OP for being TA over moving in

Split finances and stubbornness threaten relationship.

Commenter calls out freeloader in fiery response

Don’t be a freeloader!
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Man refuses to pay for house after girlfriend commits. YTA

Commenter suggests girlfriend should read thread and run away

YTA for not wanting to pay rent even with a discount

Friend wants to live in her house for free, YTA.

Partner wants to freeload off perceived slight. YTA.

Harsh criticism for a partner who won’t contribute equally.
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Moving in together? Better split the rent and responsibilities fairly

Commenter calls out OP for not updating, adds emoji humor

Commenter calls out entitlement in moving in disagreement

User calls out free-loading behavior in moving-in disagreement

Don’t be calculative and grow up. YTA

A blunt comment calling out a hobosexual sparks controversy.

Contributing is key. YTA for not wanting to share expenses.

Partner accused of not giving input, but he did: ‘Don’t talk to me about this.’ YTA

Commenter calls out insufferable behavior with YTA verdict

Is it fair to expect your partner to support you financially?

User calls out YTA for not contributing to mortgage

User calls out selfish behavior in relationship. YTA confirmed

Commenter calls out manipulative behavior in moving in disagreement

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole in disagreement.

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole in disagreement.

Disagreement over moving in sparks debate. YTA wants to live rent-free.

Commenter suggests breakup, sparks heated discussion.

Commenter criticized for immaturity
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Commenter calls someone a fragile mooch, YTA confirmed

Commenter calls out OP for being a bad partner
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Partner buys dream home, but OP wants to live rent-free? YTA

Don’t be a commitment-phobe! YTA for not meeting her halfway

Savage reply shuts down inappropriate comment about moving in together

Harsh reply suggests the commenter thinks the poster is wrong.

User accuses OP of being spiteful and gives marriage advice

Commenter calls out OP for being an idiot and YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for being a bad partner
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Commenter calls out OP for being childish and petty

Commenter advises to let go, use of ‘adult’ implies immaturity ♂️

Commenter receives tough love for entitled behavior

Commenter receives harsh judgement for their actions
