Picture this: you’re on a romantic anniversary getaway with your spouse, but they’re too tired for any intimate action. What do you do? Well, one man decided to take matters into his own hands (literally) and now he’s wondering if he’s the a**hole for doing so. With a sporadic sex life and a higher sex drive than his wife, our protagonist often resorts to solo sessions to satisfy his urges. But when his wife caught him in the act during their trip, things took a turn for the worse. Let’s dive into this steamy story and find out what happened…
Seeking Guidance
Throwaway Account
The Couple
Sporadic Sex Life
Higher Sex Drive
Solo Sessions
Porn Alternative
✈️ Anniversary Getaway
Tired Wife
Shower Time
Hotel Drama
Tired Again
Sneaky Masturbation
Porn and Consequences
Awkward Encounter
Silent Night
✈️ Cold Flight Home
♂️ Just Trying to Help Myself
Caught Red-Handed: A Steamy Anniversary Gone Wrong
Our couple, married for 10 years, went on a weekend getaway to California to celebrate their anniversary. However, their sex life has been sporadic, and our protagonist has a higher sex drive than his wife. With his wife constantly tired during the trip, he decided to take care of his urges by masturbating while she was in the bath. But, to his surprise, she walked in on him watching porn and quickly retreated to the bathroom. After a silent night, they’re now flying home, and she won’t speak to him. He insists he wasn’t trying to upset anyone and just wanted to satisfy his needs. So, what does the internet think of this steamy situation? Let’s find out…
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