Picture this: you’re at a family gathering, trying to enjoy your dad’s 49th birthday, when your brother, who betrayed you in the worst possible way, walks in with his wife and a stroller. Yup, that’s right, your brother married your high school sweetheart, who he helped cheat on you with for years. How would you feel? Could you ever forgive him? Our friend here is struggling with that very question. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of emotions and betrayal.
The Family Gathering

The Heartbreaking Discovery

High School Sweethearts

The Disappearance

Phone Calls

The Shocking Footage

The Painful Truth

The Call with Dad

The Heartbreak

The Confrontation

The Showdown

C’s Cruel Words

The Apology

The Painful Realization

The Decision

Cutting Ties ✂️

The Family Gathering Revisited

The Surprise

The Unwanted Conversation

The Apology Attempt

The Rejection

The Struggle to Forgive

The Trust Issues

The Unforgivable

Betrayed by a Brother
Our friend (26m) went to a family gathering to celebrate his dad’s birthday, but little did he know that he’d be confronted with the painful past. Three years ago, he discovered that his high school sweetheart, C (25f), had been cheating on him with his own brother (23m) since his second year of college. The betrayal was so deep that he cut them both out of his life. Fast forward to the family gathering, and his brother walks in with C, now his wife, and a baby stroller. Despite his brother’s awkward attempts at apologizing, our friend just can’t seem to forgive him. He’s left with trust issues and a broken heart, wondering if he’ll ever be able to move on. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…
Forgiveness doesn’t always mean reconciliation ✌

Betrayed by his brother, commenter advises cutting ties completely

Family first, even if it means going against blood ties. NTA

Angry commenter advocates for revenge after betrayal.

Sibling betrayal sparks violent revenge fantasy in comment section

A comment advocating for extreme punishment in a family betrayal.

Betrayed by family for forbidden affair, NTA wins backstabbing battle

NTA comment advocates for cutting off brother and his partner.

Forgiveness is important for your own growth and well-being

Victim refuses to forgive adulterous brother despite religious parents’ pressure

Family torn apart by brother’s betrayal

Start afresh, forget the crazies. Not the a**hole

Forgiveness is for you, not for the betrayer. NTA

Setting boundaries with family after a betrayal.

Savage response to a cheating brother and enabling parents

Forgiveness requires contrition. NTA takes a stand

Forgiveness is religious, but not in this case

Sibling betrayal leads to family rift, forgiveness not necessary

Moving on and self-improvement after betrayal. NTA.

Resentment towards parents’ involvement in forgiveness divides family further

A firm but fair response to a cheating brother’s apology

Betrayed by brother and lover, NTA enforces moral boundaries

Family betrayal and disgusting parents. Heartbreaking situation for OP.

Betrayed by brother, commenter chooses to cut ties.

Supportive comment, encouraging moving on with a positive outlook

Mother’s wrath: Disowning brother for forbidden affair

Forgiveness doesn’t always mean reconciliation. NTA for choosing distance.

Savage response to family drama.

Accusation of fake story and dysfunctional family

Sibling betrayal and forgiveness? Nah, he’s a POS. Move on

Adulterous snake of a brother – forgiveness is not mandatory

Betrayed by brother and ex, commenter forgives but won’t forget. NTA!

Unforgivable betrayal by brother leads to family’s disintegration

Redditors support OP’s decision to cut off toxic family members

Setting boundaries with family after a betrayal

Betrayal runs deep, forgiveness not required. NTA

Betrayal by both siblings, forgiveness must be earned not demanded ♂️

Setting boundaries after betrayal. Forgiving but not forgetting

Betrayal beyond forgiveness. NTA for standing up for yourself.

Betrayed and hurt by a forbidden love affair. #NTA

NTA! Brother’s infidelity was a betrayal to YOU, not parents. Your peace matters.

Intense reaction to the betrayal.

Supportive comment validates OP’s feelings after brother’s betrayal.

Sibling cut ties, commenter suggests staying elsewhere during visits. NTA

Elderly advice: Forgive brother? Nah, screw him! Trust no more.

Betrayed commenter stands their ground with a strong NTA stance

Vile waste of space: commenter advises to stay away

Encouraging words for OP in a heartbreaking betrayal

NTA stands up to religious parents in forbidden affair.

Forgiveness isn’t a requirement, respect your decision

No forgiveness without recompense. NTA

Forgiveness is a personal decision. NTA. Religious hypocrisy exposed

NTA comment suggests exposing cheater sister-in-law as revenge

NTA. Brother’s infidelity and lies broke trust and family bonds.

Heartbreaking betrayal. No forgiveness deserved for despicable family and ex.

Supportive comment about betrayal and potential paternity scandal.

Supportive comment, encouraging to cut off toxic family members

A commenter suggests physical violence as a solution. Yikes.

Cutting off family for betrayal? NTA but consider repercussions

Betrayed by brother and girlfriend. NTA for feeling angry

Choosing to stay out of their deceitful relationship

Family betrayal is a hard pill to swallow

Encouraging response to OP’s decision to cut off toxic family ❤️

Forgiveness doesn’t mean ignoring boundaries and self-preservation

Supportive comment, condemns brother and ex, wishes well.

No forgiveness for a forbidden affair and baby involvement

This commenter’s restraint is admirable yet unnerving.

Warning against cheating and hoping for karma to strike.
