We all know how important it is to maintain a clean and tidy home, but what happens when a guest breaks the rules? Our protagonist, a 34-year-old woman, invited her brother John and his 12-year-old daughter Emily to stay at her house for a few days to celebrate Emily’s birthday. Emily, who has ADHD, brought along some fidget toys, including the infamous slime. Despite setting some ground rules, things didn’t go as planned, and our protagonist was forced to make a tough decision.
The House Rules

Fidget Toys and Slime

The Sticky Situation Begins

Alternative Stimming Options

Setting Boundaries

The Slime Strikes Back!

Not Where It’s Supposed to Be!

Privacy Violation & Cleanup

The Aftermath

A Compromise?

Pronouns Clarification

A Lively Discussion ️

The Smelly Cleanup

Sensory Struggles

Was Our Protagonist Too Harsh?
After Emily accidentally got slime on the carpet in her aunt’s bedroom, our protagonist decided that her brother and niece needed to stay in a hotel for the rest of their visit. While she offered to pay half of the costs, John declined and is now upset with his sister for making them pay for a hotel over a simple mistake. Despite the drama, Emily still enjoyed her birthday celebration. But was our protagonist too harsh in her decision? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation… ️♀️
Father should have bought her a new toy. NTA.

Setting boundaries with consequences is important for rule-following.

12-year-old niece crosses boundaries with slime, consequences follow. NTA.

Brother’s negligence leads to Niece’s eviction over slime. NTA.

Understanding neurodiversity and avoiding triggers is key. #NTA
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Overreaction over slime mishap leads to nuclear option. ESH ♂️

Setting boundaries with consequences is important for preventing entitled behavior.

Aunt kicks out family over slime mishap, deemed YTA with no compassion

Neurodiversity and ADHD explained, brother is TA for not accommodating.

Don’t be an a**hole to your family over slime mishap

Redditors avoid acknowledging adult bullying of children. ♂️

Redditor calls out OP for lack of empathy towards niece

A comment points out YTA for kicking out brother and niece over a slime mishap, citing the niece’s condition and suggests alternative consequences.

Debate over appropriate consequences for a child’s mistake.

Redditor defends ADHD child, calls OP the a**hole. YTA.

Culture matters, kicking out family over slime is a**hole-ish ♂️

Off-limits room slime mishap makes NTA decision clear

Brother’s lack of remorse leads to hotel eviction. OP NTA

Neurospiciness and parenting skills discussed in NTA comment.

Overreaction to slime mishap, YTA according to commenter.

Auntie overreacted and kicked out her niece. YTA
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NTA commenter calls out bad parenting and suggests consequences

Understanding comment on ADHD and parenting. NTA, OP.

ADHD not an excuse to break rules, need self-regulation skills.

Suggesting alternatives to kicking out family over a slime mishap

Setting boundaries with family is tough, but NTA

Setting boundaries and consequences is good parenting. NTA.

Respectful boundaries or overreaction? The slime debate continues.

Setting boundaries and accommodating for ADHD in a messy situation.

ADHD parent agrees with OP’s decision to kick out niece over slime.

Empathy for niece, but brother is the AH. Neurodiversity clash explained.

User calls out OP for overreacting and being TA. ♂️

ADHD no excuse for niece’s behavior, NTA made right call

NTA for kicking out brother and niece over slime mishap.

NTA commenter sympathizes with OP’s slime woes and rules.

Kicking out a 12-year-old for slime on carpet? YTA

NTA commenter defends kicking out family over slime incident.

Clear NTA judgement, brother not responsible for niece’s actions.
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NTA sets boundaries with brother and niece over cleanliness and privacy.

Parent with ADHD child calls out OP for overreacting. YTA.

12-year-olds can understand boundaries and consequences. NTA.

Don’t be too harsh on kids, they’re still learning

Brother’s negligence caused chaos. Niece’s ADHD not to blame. #NTA

User defends niece and calls out YTA for kicking them out.

Rule-breaking niece gets kicked out over slime, NTA.

Compassion for a 12-year-old’s mistake, YTA overreacted

YTA for kicking out family over a trivial mess

Parent agrees with OP’s decision to ban slime due to damage.

NTA commenter calls out bad parenting in slime incident.

Consequence for breaking rules, but who paid the price? #NTA

Dad’s responsibility to bring toys, NTA for kicking out.

Compassionate comment reminds us to forgive and take responsibility. ❤

NTA commenter empathizes with autistic niece and blames brother.

ADHD doesn’t excuse bad behavior: NTA comment

Choosing being right over family on niece’s birthday makes YTA

ADHD doesn’t need special toys, we fidget with whatever’s at hand. #NTA

Setting boundaries with family over disrespectful behavior.

Slime is gross and damaging, NTA for kicking them out

Relax your expectations when inviting guests, YTA for overreaction.

Enforcing boundaries is crucial, Niece needs to learn consequences.

Harsh criticism for OP’s treatment of family.
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Niece punished for honesty, commenter calls out rigid behavior.

Slime mishap sparks debate over stim toys and cleanliness

Reddit’s bias against kids shows in ESH verdict on slime.

Standing up for boundaries and privacy. NTA all the way!

MTA suggests buying new toys instead of kicking family out.

Mom of 4 bans slime from house, supports NTA decision

Respect for personal space and needs, NTA

12-year-old niece kicked out over slime mishap. Commenter says NTA.

No slime allowed in this house! NTA lays down the law

YTA kicks out family over slime, internet calls overreaction.

First-time slime mishap leads to family eviction? YTA indeed

Niece breaks rules, owns up, gets kicked out. NTA.

A comment calling out YTA behavior towards a niece’s disability.

User calls out OP for overreacting and being the a**hole.
