Family drama alert! I’m in a sticky situation with my brother and his fiancée, and I need your help figuring out if I’m the a-hole here. I thought I had a great relationship with my future sister-in-law, but things took a wild turn when I tried to be a supportive sister. Buckle up, because this story is a rollercoaster of emotions! Let’s dive in and see if you can help me make sense of this family fiasco.
A Blossoming Friendship: Sister & Future Sister-in-Law Bond
Difficult Brother Hates Losing Control
Group Chat Dynamics: Brother Oversees Conversations ️♂️
Sisters Move Chats to 1-on-1 to Avoid Bombarding Group
Future Sister-in-Law Unsure About Brother’s Desire for Kids
Brother Gets Angry When Pressed About Future Plans
Red Flags Emerge: Brother’s Concerning Behavior
Sister Questions If Marriage Is Right Move Given Concerns ❓
Sister Asks If Constant Unease & Depression Around Brother Is Healthy
Brother Blocks Sister on Facebook Out of Nowhere
♀️ Sister Reaches Out to Future Sister-in-Law, Gets Blocked Too
️ Mom Reveals Brother Is Cutting Sister Out of His Life
❓ Sister Left Wondering What She Did Wrong
Did Future Sister-in-Law Paint Sister in Bad Light?
Family Dynamics: Sister in NZ, Mom in UK, Brother & Fiancée in Australia ️
Fiancée’s Family History: Mom Passed, Dad & Brother Remain
Fiancée’s Family Cut Off Rest of Relatives for Unknown Reasons ♀️
Sister Keeps Fiancée on Instagram Just in Case
Sister Blocked by Brother & Fiancée After Heart-to-Heart Gone Wrong!
Well, well, well… looks like my attempt at being a supportive sister backfired big time! I had a heart-to-heart with my future sister-in-law about some red flags in her relationship with my brother, and next thing I know, they’ve both blocked me! Talk about a plot twist! I’m left wondering if I overstepped or if she painted me as the villain in this story. The internet is divided on this one, so let’s see what the masses have to say about my family drama! Grab your popcorn, because the responses are bound to be juicy!
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Brother’s behavior is abusive and controlling. NTA for supporting sister.
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Red flags raised. Brother may have read messages and blocked sister.
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Heartbreaking situation. Helpful advice to contact a women’s shelter.
Standing up to potential abusers ♀️ ️
Supportive comment encourages kindness and being there for sister.
Isolation is a red flag! Get her out of there!
NTA advises sister to question marriage, causes family rift.
Abusive brother gaslit sister into blocking supportive sibling.
Warning signs of controlling behavior and emotional abuse. Stay vigilant
Experienced similar behavior and advises sister to leave controlling partner.
Concerned commenter urges for help and support for sister in abusive relationship.
Spot on. Ignoring abusive behavior only enables an eventual escalation.
NTA. Brother’s controlling behavior is dangerous. Family intervention needed.
Sibling interference in a relationship: NTA or abusive signs?
Standing up to a controlling brother. You go, girl!
Helping a friend in a toxic relationship
Standing up for the fiancée and pointing out red flags. #NTA
NTA, and it seems like their relationship is toxic
Offering support to victims of abuse is heroic. NTA
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Brother’s controlling behavior questioned by commenter. #NTA
Controlling brother cuts off sister’s private chat with fiancée. NTA.
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Supportive comment suggests abusive relationship, advises safety check on sister.
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Don’t shoot the messenger! NTA for telling the truth
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NTA. Brother’s behavior is abusive and isolating towards his fiancée.
Blood doesn’t make family. NTA for protecting her friend.
NTA for warning someone in a toxic and abusive relationship
Supportive comment suggests seeking professional help for SIL post-cut-off
Sister blocked by controlling brother’s fiancée. NTA.
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Being objective and looking out for the fiancee. NTA
Recognizing red flags and showing genuine concern. NTA
Supportive advice to seek help from family against controlling brother.
Brother’s behavior is controlling and abusive. NTA for sister.
Isolation isn’t okay Talk to her and understand her side.
Brother’s manipulative behavior exposed, NTA for setting boundaries
Red flags raised by brother’s behavior, NTA for sister.
NTA. The brother is manipulative and abusive. The soon-to-be in-law may not realize it yet. It’s important to prioritize your own mental health in this situation.
Supportive comment urges help for friend in abusive relationship.
Sibling’s fiance’s controlling behavior is concerning, NTA for communicating privately.
Standing up to abuse in the family
Savage support for sister who cut off manipulative brother
Spotting signs of abuse and helping a victim.
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Brother accuses sister of meddling with his fiancee, comment suggests twisted human behavior. ESH.
NTA for expressing concern, brother’s reaction is alarming
Encouraging response to NTA’s concern for sister’s well-being ❤️
Redditor wants update on brother abusing and manipulating sister.
Reconnecting with an old friend caused drama, but was innocent
Red flags waving. Brother abusing fiancé. NTA. Hope she leaves.
Reaching out to sister on Instagram to dodge brother’s drama
Supportive comment calls out brother’s abusive behavior, warns of red flags.
Ensuring her safety, asking about marriage. NTA
Defended friend, brother cuts off sister. Concerned for brother’s fiancée.
NTA. But offering support to the sister could help
Being honest with family can sometimes lead to misunderstandings
NTA calls out brother’s abusive behavior and advises fiancée to leave
Possible intrusion into private communication. NTA for sure!
NTA. Brother’s control issues exposed. Fiancée should take note.
Standing up against abuse can lead to false accusations. NTA
Cutting off abusive brother: NTA stands up against toxicity
Supporting a victim of abuse
Brother blocks sister from fiancé’s chat; commenter supports her actions.
