Imagine planning your dream wedding, only to have your soon-to-be mother-in-law (MIL) make cruel comments about you behind your back. That’s exactly what happened to a 27-year-old woman who’s engaged to her 45-year-old fiancé. The bride-to-be is a private person and has two kids with her late husband. She’s not overly close with her MIL, but things took a turn for the worse during their first Thanksgiving together.
The Thanksgiving Setup ️
A Private Bride-to-Be
First Thanksgiving Together
Mashed Potato Mishap
Checking on the Kids
The Uncomfortable Silence
The Shocking Revelation
MIL’s Cruel Comments
Confronting MIL
MIL’s Admission
More Insults
Uninviting MIL from Wedding
Fiancé’s Reaction
Friends’ Opinions ️
Seeking Advice
A Wedding Invitation Revoked
After learning about her MIL’s hurtful comments, the bride-to-be confronted her and uninvited her from the wedding. Now, her fiancé is threatening to leave her if she doesn’t fix the situation, and their friends are ostracizing her. Was she in the wrong for taking a stand against her MIL’s cruel remarks? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this dramatic turn of events…
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Protect yourself and leave the relationship. NTA.
Commenter sympathizes with OP, calls out spineless fiancé. NTA
NTA but you have a fiancé problem . Your kids deserve better and so do you .
NTA, fiancé is AH for not defending you
Engaging response to comment and replies about age gap.
Harsh comment, but maybe for the best ♀️
Commenter warns bride-to-be of fiance’s misogynistic behavior and questionable friends
NTA comment advises OP to run with a running emoji
NTA OP, run from this toxic family and their red flags
Red flag? Partner’s lack of support more concerning than MIL.
MIL shames bride for being a widow. NTA for uninviting her
Fiancé lacks spine, MIL is vile. NTA for uninviting.
Stand up for yourself and don’t let anyone disrespect you
Fiance’s lack of support raises red flags . Reconsider wedding?
Fiancé defends MIL’s cruel comments? Show him the door
Commenter supports OP and calls off the wedding, NTA
NTA. Don’t subject your kids to toxic family.
Supportive comment and reply suggest MIL was in the wrong
Defend yourself and move on. NTA
Don’t settle for dysfunction. NTA, run for the hills!
Stand up for yourself! Don’t tolerate abuse.
Defending your partner is crucial in any relationship
Fiancé problem, not MIL problem. NTA
Uninviting MIL from wedding after cruel comments. NTA
Fiance problem, not MIL problem. NTA
Future husband must support bride, MIL’s comment was horrid
Dump the fiancé? NTA comment sparks debate.
Red flag alert! Reconsider marrying him.
In-laws treat bride poorly, NTA for uninviting MIL
Fiancé needs to step up and address his mother’s behavior
Fiancé siding with MIL? Bride’s 15-year-old more mature
Dump the mama’s boy and move on to a happier future
Bride stands up to MIL’s cruelty, but at what cost?
Commenter called ‘used up’ for marrying older man, NTA response.
Supportive comment to bride, advises against marrying into toxicity.
Run! 45 yo preying on 20 yo.
Supportive comment suggests uninviting toxic fiancé from wedding too
45-year-old man lacks integrity compared to 15-year-old girl. NTA.
Fiancé problem, not future-MIL problem. NTA.
Encouraging comment advises to leave pathetic momma’s boy ❤️
Commenter criticizes age gap and promiscuity, calls OP NTA.
Self-love is the best love . Don’t let anyone treat you poorly.
Bride uninvites MIL after cruel comments. Commenter supports decision.
Don’t get married, she’s done you a wonderful favour. NTA
Comment dismissed as troll by other readers ♂️
Fiancé’s support crucial: NTA bride uninvites cruel MIL from wedding
NTA advice: Don’t marry him
